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AIBU to agree with Diane Abbott

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Elephantiner · 17/07/2025 14:18

I cannot stand Diane Abbott, she has a lazy, patronising manner which riles me, but she has said that people visiblybof a different race (e.g. black people) experience a different sort of racism than those who’s race is not visually obvious (travellers, Jewish people etc). She has a point, doesn’t she? Am I missing something here?

Obviously all types of racism are utterly abhorrent.

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ThatNimblePeer · 17/07/2025 22:16

Doubtmyselff · 17/07/2025 21:55

@livelovebehappy

Abbott is telling me how I feel. How all black people feel.

When the height of the riots last year, white racist rioters were performing 'white driver checks' , most of my Jewish friends in London would have passed. All Irish travellers in a car would have passed, all white red haired drivers would have passed, NONE of us blacks would have passed.

This is her entire fucking point.

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/far-right-race-riot-uk-b2591803.html

Their behaviour is grotesque and terrifying. But so is firebombing synagogues, which won’t affect you if you’re not Jewish. I don’t really understand the choice that both you and DA seem to be making to just ignore forms of persecution that don’t affect you personally. I can understand why they wouldn’t matter as much to you, but I can’t really understand why you would act as if they don’t exist.

IrisPallida · 17/07/2025 22:15

But surely, as even this thread has demonstrated within the first few posts - you do not have to SEE someone to to be racist towards them.

Genevieva · 17/07/2025 22:15

It was a particularly obtuse comment given the Labour Party is known to have had a serious problem with antisemitism in the recent past. It is the only political party in the U.K. that has needed to be subject to an investigation by the Equality and Human Rights Commission, which came after it failed to respond adequately to the recommendations of its own investigation by Shami Chakrabati.

EasternStandard · 17/07/2025 22:10

Dangermoo · 17/07/2025 22:05

You could just imagine the furore, if a Jewish person had minimised other forms of racism. As usual, however, the Jewish community is the battering ram. I getting just a bit bloody sick and tired of witnessing it.

Agree. Make a point without minimising Jewish persecution and experience.

Dangermoo · 17/07/2025 22:06

FighterPilotSwifts · 17/07/2025 22:05

Plenty of people agree with her and even if they don't they shouldn't be abusing her

Plenty of people also disagree with her. They shouldn't be called a racist for doing so.

Dangermoo · 17/07/2025 22:05

You could just imagine the furore, if a Jewish person had minimised other forms of racism. As usual, however, the Jewish community is the battering ram. I getting just a bit bloody sick and tired of witnessing it.

FighterPilotSwifts · 17/07/2025 22:05

Dangermoo · 17/07/2025 21:59

If only she gave pause for thought, before she repeated her ignorance.

Plenty of people agree with her and even if they don't they shouldn't be abusing her

Robin67 · 17/07/2025 22:02

She is right. I don't often agree with her, but she is correct on this.

RareDeer · 17/07/2025 22:02

Doubtmyselff · 17/07/2025 21:55

@livelovebehappy

Abbott is telling me how I feel. How all black people feel.

When the height of the riots last year, white racist rioters were performing 'white driver checks' , most of my Jewish friends in London would have passed. All Irish travellers in a car would have passed, all white red haired drivers would have passed, NONE of us blacks would have passed.

This is her entire fucking point.

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/far-right-race-riot-uk-b2591803.html

‘Most of my Jewish friends’ but not all?

This is why people are pushing back. Because not all people experience this prejudice the same. There WILL be Jewish people who experience instant prejudice on a regular basis. So the reason why people are saying that Abbott shouldn’t say these things is that they are not true in every case.

All prejudice is wrong. And instant prejudice happens to many people, regardless of the cause. And we need to recognise that and not assume that they don’t experience it. She is assuming it because she hasn’t experienced it for herself.

She should absolutely be shouting about this issue, but not by suggesting others don’t also experience it too, that’s redactive.

girljulian · 17/07/2025 22:00

Icanttakethisanymore · 17/07/2025 16:24

Perhaps a slightly less contentious way of saying the same thing; some jewish people 'look' jewish and people will assume they are jewish when they see them across the street. Some jewish people are not identifiably jewish when you see them.

These two groups of people will surely have different experiences of anti-semitism. The former might get shouted at across the street, the latter won't. That is what she is saying I think; not that antisemitism is less bad, but that some people will be less affected by it by virtue of not looking jewish.

Yes, I think this is it. A lot of Jews do not “look” Jewish, whatever that means. If you look at reels of the Holocaust, vast majorities of the poor people featured could be people you’d see on the street of any British town. I am that sort of Jewish person, ie a thoroughly white Jew of Ashkenazi origin with dark hair and light eyes. Nobody has ever guessed or assumed I was Jewish unless told.

Meanwhile my DH is Italian and has suffered racism from people assuming he’s of Arabic origin. He’s dark skinned and I’m not. He’s experienced racism and I haven’t. Diane Abbott has experienced racism and I haven’t, because I’m white and I’d have to tell someone I was Jewish before they could treat me in an antisemitic way. I think that is all she was saying and I get it.

Dangermoo · 17/07/2025 21:59

FighterPilotSwifts · 17/07/2025 21:56

It's wrong to abuse someone for their opinions too and is probably part of the reason why so many politicians have security now.
I'm sure people disliking her is not all down to racism. But the twitter thing should give people pause for thought

If only she gave pause for thought, before she repeated her ignorance.

FighterPilotSwifts · 17/07/2025 21:56

BusyExpert · 17/07/2025 21:49

the abuse against her is not all down to racism it's because of what she says and what she stands for and frankly its wrong to accuse someone of racism because they criticise a black person.

It's wrong to abuse someone for their opinions too and is probably part of the reason why so many politicians have security now.
I'm sure people disliking her is not all down to racism. But the twitter thing should give people pause for thought

Livelovebehappy · 17/07/2025 21:56

Doubtmyselff · 17/07/2025 21:44

As a black person, I've never heard anything but the truth come out of Abbots mouth.

Weird that, eh?

Not weird at all. Because you’re black, and she’s black, so why wouldn’t you? But how would you feel if you were Jewish, and were listening to her interview today on how she perceives what YOU should feel as a Jew, from someone who is black??

Dangermoo · 17/07/2025 21:55

EasternStandard · 17/07/2025 21:52

It’s not a fact, she can’t know what a Jewish person feels and has experienced.

I don't think DA is the only arrogant person, in question, here.

Doubtmyselff · 17/07/2025 21:55

Livelovebehappy · 17/07/2025 21:35

Yes, which is why she should stick to discussing the racism experienced by black people, and not arrogantly think she can tell us how Jewish people feel as opposed to how black people feel. Honestly every interview she gives - the gift that keeps on giving….

@livelovebehappy

Abbott is telling me how I feel. How all black people feel.

When the height of the riots last year, white racist rioters were performing 'white driver checks' , most of my Jewish friends in London would have passed. All Irish travellers in a car would have passed, all white red haired drivers would have passed, NONE of us blacks would have passed.

This is her entire fucking point.

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/far-right-race-riot-uk-b2591803.html

Far right thugs stop cars to check if drivers are white before letting them pass

As violent unrest grips the nation, footage that’s been widely shared across social media shows several white men in Middlesbrough screening vehicle drivers’ ethnicity

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/far-right-race-riot-uk-b2591803.html

EasternStandard · 17/07/2025 21:52

Doubtmyselff · 17/07/2025 21:46

Stating fact is minimising the experience of others???

It’s not a fact, she can’t know what a Jewish person feels and has experienced.

Dangermoo · 17/07/2025 21:51

Doubtmyselff · 17/07/2025 21:46

Stating fact is minimising the experience of others???

What facts? What she stated is not fact, it's her opinion.

UrbanOasis · 17/07/2025 21:51

I'm not 100% sure, but I think she's right (I'm Irish). But I also think that in general promoting anti racism is better than ranking different kinds of racism.

BusyExpert · 17/07/2025 21:49

FighterPilotSwifts · 17/07/2025 14:47

And for people saying they can't stand her. At one point half of all abuse towards MPs on twitter was directed towards her. Is she really so unlikable that she deserves that? No, that's racism (and probably a bit of sexism thrown in) It became a bit of a thing to have a go a her when she fluffed those figures. While other MPs who said much stupider things didn't get nearly so much abuse.

the abuse against her is not all down to racism it's because of what she says and what she stands for and frankly its wrong to accuse someone of racism because they criticise a black person.

RareDeer · 17/07/2025 21:48

Doubtmyselff · 17/07/2025 21:46

Stating fact is minimising the experience of others???

How is it fact? You think other people don’t experience instant prejudice? You think that Orthodox Jews don’t ever get instant prejudice based on how they look? Seriously?!?!

Doubtmyselff · 17/07/2025 21:46

RareDeer · 17/07/2025 21:44

Precisely. She should have talked about her own experience, instead she minimised the experiences of others whose prejudice she has never experienced.

Stating fact is minimising the experience of others???

Hotflushesandchilblains · 17/07/2025 21:44

FighterPilotSwifts · 17/07/2025 14:47

And for people saying they can't stand her. At one point half of all abuse towards MPs on twitter was directed towards her. Is she really so unlikable that she deserves that? No, that's racism (and probably a bit of sexism thrown in) It became a bit of a thing to have a go a her when she fluffed those figures. While other MPs who said much stupider things didn't get nearly so much abuse.

I also cant stand her and have not been able to since I heard her on Today about 30 years ago. Sending her kid to a private school - I dont actually have a problem with. But just refusing to answer the question about it when she was in government - just going silent? I lost all respect for her that day so hearing her opine on things over the years - yes, its built to not be able to stand her.

Plus a family member worked at houses of parliament for a while and said she was deeply unpleasant.

Doubtmyselff · 17/07/2025 21:44

Livelovebehappy · 17/07/2025 21:21

I listened to the interview. She makes things up as she goes along. Of course Jewish people are mostly visibly Jewish. We have a large Jewish community in the North, and it is absolutely obvious on most occasions. Racism is racism. Fed up of people of colour thinking they have a monopoly of the label. It really was shocking hearing the rubbish coming out of Abbot’s mouth.

As a black person, I've never heard anything but the truth come out of Abbots mouth.

Weird that, eh?

RareDeer · 17/07/2025 21:44

Livelovebehappy · 17/07/2025 21:35

Yes, which is why she should stick to discussing the racism experienced by black people, and not arrogantly think she can tell us how Jewish people feel as opposed to how black people feel. Honestly every interview she gives - the gift that keeps on giving….

Precisely. She should have talked about her own experience, instead she minimised the experiences of others whose prejudice she has never experienced.

Thatsalineallright · 17/07/2025 21:43

IncyWincyEyeroll · 17/07/2025 14:41

But it’s at best idiotic, at worse malign. Yes, you can instantly see skin colour in a way you can’t always see other things - but (a), in her constituency alone there are lots of orthodox Jewish people who, through their dress, are equally as instantly recognisable by their Judaism as anyone would be by their skin colour, (b) it suggests that people have the privilege of hiding their Judaism in a way black people can’t, which is crass (to say the least) given the history of Jewish persecution and the complete inability to hide from that persecution (not to mention that nobody should have to hide their ethnicity or see doing so as a privilege), (c) she compared Jewish people and Irish travellers to people with red hair, which is trivialising and comparing groups who have suffered genocide (Jews) and hugely low social and economic discrimination and disadvantage (travellers) with people who suffer social bullying, and (d) she did this in the context of the Labour Party being blind to antisemitism in its own ranks, including by the leadership at the time of which she was a senior part. And lastly, she said today that she didn’t understand why anyone would object to what she said, which given the discussion about it at the time must mean she hasn’t listened to anything anyone said. She doesn’t have to agree with the point of view, but to not even be able to state what it is must mean she’s either unwilling or unable to listen.

So no, I don’t think she’s right, and my sympathy is about level with the floor.

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