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AIBU to agree with Diane Abbott

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Elephantiner · 17/07/2025 14:18

I cannot stand Diane Abbott, she has a lazy, patronising manner which riles me, but she has said that people visiblybof a different race (e.g. black people) experience a different sort of racism than those who’s race is not visually obvious (travellers, Jewish people etc). She has a point, doesn’t she? Am I missing something here?

Obviously all types of racism are utterly abhorrent.

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nomas · 18/07/2025 12:39

NeedToKnow101 · 18/07/2025 12:25

@nomasI do understand what systemic means. If a culture is in place where raped girls get arrested, instead of protected, when found abused, naked and drunk in the company of men decades older than them, when police and social services and councils consistently criminalise these girls and their families instead of the perpetrators; I would say that is systemic.

I agree there is systemic racism and misogyny within the police. But your post was saying the rapists had systemic power (that the police were in their pockets). This patently untrue. Vile and racist as the rapists were, they do not have systemic power, which refers to the collective structures and practices system of the UK.

SharonEllis · 18/07/2025 12:35

nomas · 18/07/2025 12:17

Are you seriously trying to pretend that anyone on this thread has said anti-semitism or other racism doesn’t exist?

No one has said that.

It’s possible to see the black community as the most targeted and disenfranchised and as the victims of structural, institutional and systemic racism AND know that racism toward Jews, Muslims, Asians exists as well. The two are not mutually exclusive.

Whay are you setting up a hierarchy and identifying the criteria that most relate to one community? How many black churches routinely have security guards? Very few. Yet most synagogues do and have done for years. Racism impacts in different ways.

Latest figures for religious hate crime show the Jewish community by far the worst affected. A rate of 121 hate crimes per 10k population. Next most affected group 'other' with 14 and Muslim with 10.

If you go to racially aggravated hate crime the rate is 41 per 10k for black, followed by 24 for asian. Jews are not identified as an ethnic group so don't show up.

https://www.gov.uk/gwww.gov.uk/government/statistics/hate-crime-england-and-wales-year-ending-march-2024/hate-crime-england-and-wales-year-ending-march-2024

Hate crime, England and Wales, year ending March 2024

https://www.gov.uk/government/statistics/hate-crime-england-and-wales-year-ending-march-2024/hate-crime-england-and-wales-year-ending-march-2024

EasternStandard · 18/07/2025 12:34

nomas · 18/07/2025 10:39

But the reality is that the risk of exposure to it for the relevant community and the racist attitudes spike or decrease depending on what is happening at any given time.

I don't think this is true.

Black people are always the most targeted in stop and search.

Black people are 16 times more likely to be prosecuted under joint enterprise than white people.

Black students in some contexts face disproportionately high rates of poverty, discrimination, and systemic inequalities.

I'm not black but even I can see that the racism against black people is consistent and systemic beyond what any other community (including my own) experience.

Here @nomas

On reading @Longingdreamerexperience do you agree with Abbott?

FortheloveofCheesus · 18/07/2025 12:27

Yanbu. Clearly a black person cannot hide their ethnicity in a job interview, while some other marginalised ethnicities can.

NeedToKnow101 · 18/07/2025 12:25

@nomasI do understand what systemic means. If a culture is in place where raped girls get arrested, instead of protected, when found abused, naked and drunk in the company of men decades older than them, when police and social services and councils consistently criminalise these girls and their families instead of the perpetrators; I would say that is systemic.

nomas · 18/07/2025 12:23

EasternStandard · 18/07/2025 12:22

Where have I said that?

I’m asking if reading posts from Jewish posters makes you adjust your view on Diane Abbott being right as you poster earlier.

I’m wondering how you and Abbott know what the experience is for a Jewish person.

I’m asking if reading posts from Jewish posters makes you adjust your view on Diane Abbott being right as you poster earlier.

Are you confusing me with a different poster? Where did I post that?

EasternStandard · 18/07/2025 12:22

nomas · 18/07/2025 12:17

Are you seriously trying to pretend that anyone on this thread has said anti-semitism or other racism doesn’t exist?

No one has said that.

It’s possible to see the black community as the most targeted and disenfranchised and as the victims of structural, institutional and systemic racism AND know that racism toward Jews, Muslims, Asians exists as well. The two are not mutually exclusive.

Where have I said that?

I’m asking if reading posts from Jewish posters makes you adjust your view on Diane Abbott being right as you poster earlier.

I’m wondering how you and Abbott know what the experience is for a Jewish person.

nomas · 18/07/2025 12:17

EasternStandard · 18/07/2025 12:04

Here you go @nomas does it alter your earlier view at all?

Are you seriously trying to pretend that anyone on this thread has said anti-semitism or other racism doesn’t exist?

No one has said that.

It’s possible to see the black community as the most targeted and disenfranchised and as the victims of structural, institutional and systemic racism AND know that racism toward Jews, Muslims, Asians exists as well. The two are not mutually exclusive.

EasternStandard · 18/07/2025 12:04

Longingdreamer · 17/07/2025 22:36

As a Jewish person, I have experienced racism, because of the way I look. My children have been verbally abused and threatened with physical violence in public, most recently in the past month, and my children experience constant Anti-semitic at school. Anti-Semitism is endemic in London currently, with weekly hate marches which makes the majority of zone 1 unsafe for Jews.

My family were murdered in the Holocaust for being Jewish, despite not being religious. It was down to their race. The survivors then experienced death threats and had to leave their country. They left with only the clothes on their back.

Prior to this, their relatives were murdered in pogroms.

So yes, we do experience racism.

I cannot speak for her experiences of racism , and nor can she speak for mine.

Here you go @nomas does it alter your earlier view at all?

Livelovebehappy · 18/07/2025 12:01

Beanee · 18/07/2025 05:48

You stand by what you said?

You may think there is no hierarchy of racism, but your deleted comment is the most racist comment on this thread. And says something telling about you and the poster who agreed with you. Disgusting.

Nope. It wasn't racist at all. And you suggesting there is a 'hierarchy' of racism proves my point. There us no hierarchy. By saying that, you're minimising the feelings of all other none black groups who suffer awful racism and prejudice. Their feelings are equally as traumatising to them as those suffered by black people. Your comment is disgusting.

nomas · 18/07/2025 11:54

NeedToKnow101 · 18/07/2025 11:06

She was wrong and as she represents Hackney, home to London’s community of Hasidic Jews, who ARE instantly recognisable as Jews, and in the current awful antisemitic climate, she was disgustingly wrong.
And to ignore the Holocaust in her letter only a decade earlier, talking about Black people’s treatment in 50’s America, is pretty unforgivable.

Re: rape of white girls and systemic racism. The police and council seemed to be in the pockets of the rapists; some were also in positions of local power themselves. So I think they created their own anti-white system which operated outside of our own laws and systems.

I don't think you understand what systemic means.

OpheliaWasntMad · 18/07/2025 11:41

NeedToKnow101 · 18/07/2025 11:06

She was wrong and as she represents Hackney, home to London’s community of Hasidic Jews, who ARE instantly recognisable as Jews, and in the current awful antisemitic climate, she was disgustingly wrong.
And to ignore the Holocaust in her letter only a decade earlier, talking about Black people’s treatment in 50’s America, is pretty unforgivable.

Re: rape of white girls and systemic racism. The police and council seemed to be in the pockets of the rapists; some were also in positions of local power themselves. So I think they created their own anti-white system which operated outside of our own laws and systems.

Yes - I agree .
I do think her own experiences have distorted her understanding - her Jewish constituents must feel very let down and angry ( particularly in the current climate)
Its sad because in other respects she has done a lot of good

Bumble6 · 18/07/2025 11:20

I don't seem to remember people being rounded up and sent to work/concentration camps because they have red hair....

NeedToKnow101 · 18/07/2025 11:06

She was wrong and as she represents Hackney, home to London’s community of Hasidic Jews, who ARE instantly recognisable as Jews, and in the current awful antisemitic climate, she was disgustingly wrong.
And to ignore the Holocaust in her letter only a decade earlier, talking about Black people’s treatment in 50’s America, is pretty unforgivable.

Re: rape of white girls and systemic racism. The police and council seemed to be in the pockets of the rapists; some were also in positions of local power themselves. So I think they created their own anti-white system which operated outside of our own laws and systems.

OpheliaWasntMad · 18/07/2025 10:59

Needtosoundoffandbreathe · 18/07/2025 10:50

All racism is abhorrent and all races are capable of being racist to other races. Diane Abbott clearly apologised in the past only in order to be able to stand as Labour Party candidate in the last GE. She's a liar because she's now backtracked on her apology and doubled down on her original comments. Having done and achieved so much as a black woman in politics this is a sad end to her career.

I think Diane Abbott has received so much horrendous racial abuse over the course of her career it has distorted her perspective .
I don’t think she should be castigated or suspended. Instead I think her statements should be used as a useful way to bring to light misinformation/ misunderstandings about racism.
I hope that she will issue a clarification and apology

nomas · 18/07/2025 10:59

LBFseBrom · 18/07/2025 10:52

You are definitely right about that, nomas.

Thanks LBF

neveragainforreal · 18/07/2025 10:56

nomas · 18/07/2025 10:49

I experience racism directly so I don't need your patronising comments.

But I still have eyes and ears and can see what's happening around me and I know that black people experience racism systemically on a level that no other community does, including my own.

Edited

Thanks for further proving my point. Much appreciated.

TempestTost · 18/07/2025 10:53

It seems to me that DA's comment is reductive and simplistic.

People who can easily be identified as part of a certain group will find that people respond to that in a way that will not be quite the same with someone who is not obviously a member of a defined group.

What that actually looks like in either case will vary a lot.

It's foolish to think the only way people are identifiable as "other" is skin colour. There are also other ways, ethnicity can be visible other ways, cultural indicators, accent.

And the response to skin colour isn't uniform or universal. I don't think people from the Caribbean are seen in the same way as people from southern India, or Korea, for example.

Seagullsandsausagerolls · 18/07/2025 10:53

Not sure how my post saying how antisemitism on here and in real life and the legal definition of traveller are often questioned even if defined in law and giving the experience of MY family was deleted.

LBFseBrom · 18/07/2025 10:52

nomas · 18/07/2025 10:49

I experience racism directly so I don't need your patronising comments.

But I still have eyes and ears and can see what's happening around me and I know that black people experience racism systemically on a level that no other community does, including my own.

Edited

You are definitely right about that, nomas.

Needtosoundoffandbreathe · 18/07/2025 10:50

All racism is abhorrent and all races are capable of being racist to other races. Diane Abbott clearly apologised in the past only in order to be able to stand as Labour Party candidate in the last GE. She's a liar because she's now backtracked on her apology and doubled down on her original comments. Having done and achieved so much as a black woman in politics this is a sad end to her career.

nomas · 18/07/2025 10:49

neveragainforreal · 18/07/2025 10:44

The way I read it is that you understand racism against black people but not other kinds of racism. It is clear that there is a lack of understanding about eg antisemitism from reading your post. Always good to understand one's biases and lack of knowledge.

I experience racism directly so I don't need your patronising comments.

But I still have eyes and ears and can see what's happening around me and I know that black people experience racism systemically on a level that no other community does, including my own.

nomas · 18/07/2025 10:48

EasternStandard · 18/07/2025 10:43

Did you read @Longingdreamerpost?

I read the post of the person I responded to.

neveragainforreal · 18/07/2025 10:44

nomas · 18/07/2025 10:39

But the reality is that the risk of exposure to it for the relevant community and the racist attitudes spike or decrease depending on what is happening at any given time.

I don't think this is true.

Black people are always the most targeted in stop and search.

Black people are 16 times more likely to be prosecuted under joint enterprise than white people.

Black students in some contexts face disproportionately high rates of poverty, discrimination, and systemic inequalities.

I'm not black but even I can see that the racism against black people is consistent and systemic beyond what any other community (including my own) experience.

The way I read it is that you understand racism against black people but not other kinds of racism. It is clear that there is a lack of understanding about eg antisemitism from reading your post. Always good to understand one's biases and lack of knowledge.

EasternStandard · 18/07/2025 10:43

nomas · 18/07/2025 10:39

But the reality is that the risk of exposure to it for the relevant community and the racist attitudes spike or decrease depending on what is happening at any given time.

I don't think this is true.

Black people are always the most targeted in stop and search.

Black people are 16 times more likely to be prosecuted under joint enterprise than white people.

Black students in some contexts face disproportionately high rates of poverty, discrimination, and systemic inequalities.

I'm not black but even I can see that the racism against black people is consistent and systemic beyond what any other community (including my own) experience.

Did you read @Longingdreamerpost?