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ChattyChai · 17/07/2025 13:48

I’m 39, turning 40 at the end of the year.

My husband thinks I’m being ridiculous with what I spend, but we can afford it comfortably and it makes me feel good.

I spend £42 every 3-5 weeks on nails, and every 3 months or so an extra £15 to get my eyebrows waxed and tinted.

i spend £140 every two months on getting my hair extensions moved up, and then every 4 months an extra £77 to get my roots done.

he thinks this is silly money and an extra £110 a month we could be saving, but I work, it’s my only real splurge each month and it makes me feel great. Am I spending too much? How much do you spend?

OP posts:
VeryStressedMum · 18/07/2025 09:09

I don't get my nails done, I do my own toenails
I dye my own hair with box dye
I get my haircut twice or three times a year which is £30 (fab lady who cuts superbly she works from home)
I don't get eyebrows or lashes done
But I get Botox a few times a year £150-200 a time and I've just paid £500 for a course of 3 micro needling
I bought an led face mask to use at home
So it's probably the same as people who get all the things I don't, I choose to spend on different things

Sunaquarius · 18/07/2025 09:08

I get a haircut, maybe once a year and that's it lol. But I'm a SAHM so don't have the time or the money for these things. If I went back to work and my kids were older I'd probably happily spend £100 a month on beauty treatments.

Like you said, you work and can afford it so I don't see why not.

Cherrytree86 · 18/07/2025 09:02

tumblingdowntherabbithole · 18/07/2025 08:05

Nothing.

@tumblingdowntherabbithole

what you literally never get your hair cut?? Are you Rapunzel??

Ginmonkeyagain · 18/07/2025 08:46

£70 every three months for a hair cut, £60 once a year for a pre holiday pedicure and manicure (I do my own feet and nails the rest of the time). £100 a month on pilates and yoga classes. I probably spend about £50+ or so a month on cosmentics, make up, hair treatments, face creams etc..

If you can afford it spend the money on what you like.

ForUmberFinch · 18/07/2025 08:33

If it’s your money, why not? I am not nearly as high maintenance 😂 I have my hair done every 8 weeks (£90) and I have a hot stone massage and holistic facial every month (£100). I also attend yoga and myofascial release classes/courses. So spend about £60 on that

Hmcs · 18/07/2025 08:05

botox every 3 months £250
hair every 2 months £80
i used to spend £40 every 2 weeks getting my lashes done but i started pulling them out so stopped
same with nails i bite them off
so i only get nails and feet done maybe 4 times year at £80 a time
im probably going to get my brows microbladed in a few months

tumblingdowntherabbithole · 18/07/2025 08:05

Nothing.

Radioundermypillow · 18/07/2025 08:02

HeyThereDelila · 18/07/2025 06:56

I’m 39.

Nails: 0
Hair, cut on average once every two years: £40
Lip and eyebrow wax about once a year: £20 or thereabouts

That’s it. Not bought makeup for years and wouldn’t touch botox or fillers etc with a barge pole.

Yeah that's what I said when I was 39!

Had my first lot of botox at 57. Game changer for the frown lines and just generally look far less tired and much less resting bitch face.

TubeScreamer · 18/07/2025 07:57

Hair £40 every 5 weeks. That’s it.

I don’t have the time or inclination to do all the other stuff.

HeyThereDelila · 18/07/2025 06:56

I’m 39.

Nails: 0
Hair, cut on average once every two years: £40
Lip and eyebrow wax about once a year: £20 or thereabouts

That’s it. Not bought makeup for years and wouldn’t touch botox or fillers etc with a barge pole.

MyCoralHedgehog · 18/07/2025 06:20

Picklechicken · 17/07/2025 13:54

If you can afford it it’s fine. We all spend money on different stuff. Personally I don’t do any of that. I dye my own hair at home every few months (£11 box dye), I paint my own nails and I just pluck my brows into shape and use a brow pencil to fill them in. I worked for Clinique and then Chanel for years and years so I’ve always had access to huge discounts on beauty stuff but I’ve also learnt that spending more doesn’t alwqys equal better. I don’t enjoy salon etc so I never go to them. I get my hair cut maybe once a year just to cut the ends off. I’m 44.

I spend money on holidays, eating out and days out.

Same here

BethBynnag86 · 18/07/2025 00:04

Cut & Blow every 6 weeks or so = £15.

Golightly133 · 17/07/2025 23:45

weight loss injection £200 per month
reformer Pilates £200 per month
high lites £100 every 5 weeks
nails £40 3 every 3 weeks
eyebrows wax tint £20 6 weeks
I spent years never doing any of this then found my mojo and love it,

theunbreakablecleopatrajones · 17/07/2025 23:44

JockTamsonsBairns · 17/07/2025 22:42

I don't spend anything! Probably partly because I can't afford it but, also, I'm not really bothered about 'grooming'?

I'm 52 and would quite like to get my eyebrows tinted though. Mine are so thin, they're barely visible.
I feel a bit silly though, because I don't know what to ask for? 😳

Um, an eyebrow tint

theunbreakablecleopatrajones · 17/07/2025 23:42

RoseAlone · 17/07/2025 20:23

Don't be so ridiculous! Leave your lashes alone, listen to your husband. £110 per month on such nonsense is crazy!!

@RoseAlone

Have you read all the OP’s posts about her controlling husband. Her beauty treatments are not the issue here, the man is an arse.

Radioundermypillow · 17/07/2025 23:42

I'm 58.

130 hair every 2 months
Botox 150 twice a year
Eyebrows and lashes 55 4 times a year
Medik8 retinal 70 2 or 3 x a year

New - WLI 120 a month

So lots.

8misskitty8 · 17/07/2025 23:41

Do my nails myself with dip powders. They look just as good and last longer than gel polish I used to get which was £38 every couple of weeks.
I have a natural curve to my brows so just tweezer the strays. I tint them Myself when I can be bothered.
Ive got long eyelashes so some black mascara is enough for them to look like false ones !
Dye my hair myself. Haircut costs £50 every 3 months or so.
I do spend my money on M&S moisturiser and eye gel. Think it’s the formula range as I’m mid 40’s now and the crows feet have come out !

PrettyParrot · 17/07/2025 23:37

This thread has been a revelation 😂

Haircut - last done in December. Will go again when the ends seem too damaged (or ideally will find a brave friend to cut ends)
Eyebrows - occasionally pluck them myself.
Hair in general - remove it myself
Nails - nail varnish from supermarket

I used to go for regular arm/leg waxes, but money is a lot tighter these days....

I try not to look at myself in the mirror tbh, except for brief periods to ensure I don't look too stupid/messy

Tiredofallthis101 · 17/07/2025 23:36

Your DH is being extremely unreasonable here. Change the childcare bills to come out of the joint account- now. You don't need his permission. He doesn't have your agreement that the golf membership is a joint expense yet he did it anyway.

I think you need to find a way of convincing him that he is looking at this all wrong. Is there a couple you know who split bills proportionally rather than 50/50 who you could use as an example? Is there someone he wpuld listen to on this given clearly he isn't listening to you?

Can you get a higher paid job, will your new one lead to better options?

PurpleFlower1983 · 17/07/2025 23:34

Botox every 5 months £255
Hair every 10-12 weeks £80
I gave up my nails to pay for my botox lol

girljulian · 17/07/2025 23:32

ChattyChai · 17/07/2025 13:48

I’m 39, turning 40 at the end of the year.

My husband thinks I’m being ridiculous with what I spend, but we can afford it comfortably and it makes me feel good.

I spend £42 every 3-5 weeks on nails, and every 3 months or so an extra £15 to get my eyebrows waxed and tinted.

i spend £140 every two months on getting my hair extensions moved up, and then every 4 months an extra £77 to get my roots done.

he thinks this is silly money and an extra £110 a month we could be saving, but I work, it’s my only real splurge each month and it makes me feel great. Am I spending too much? How much do you spend?

It sounds like a lot to me (I spend about £40 to get my hair cut every 6 weeks, don't get nails done or anything else) but if you can afford it then why not?

pitterypattery00 · 17/07/2025 23:29

My hair costs about £50-60 for cut, I always have good intentions of getting it done every 3 months but never get round to it and it's more like 6+ months between cuts these days. I dye my hair myself to cover a few greys.

Have never had nails, lashes or anything else done - it's a whole world I know nothing about to be honest.

If these things make you happy and you can afford the time and money then I don't see the problem. If they are stopping you being able to do things/save money then that's more or an issue.

Flamingoknees · 17/07/2025 23:28

£30 haircut every 6 weeks. Nil else.

suki1964 · 17/07/2025 23:28

Hair cut - £20 /£25 every 2 months
Eyebrows - when I can £15
Nails - do my own using a mix of gels/dips/BIAB/ stick ons/stickers - every now and then I have a splurge on new products - £100 a year?

I tend to think Im pretty low maintenance Only get the eyebrows done because I cant see to do them myself now. But I spend a lot more time then money now

Frostiesflakes · 17/07/2025 23:24

90 a month for unlimited eyelashes tints and brow shape

120 -150 on nails Infills every other week and a pedicure once a month

Hair probably 600 a year

Botox 450 a year every 4 months

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