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After dogs - anyone ever said no more dogs and stuck to it with no regrets?

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ThatsABitExcessive · 16/07/2025 16:55

I feel a bit guilty posting this but anyway - I really regret getting dogs. I have two - 9 and 6 years old. The eldest is lovely, he’s an absolute breeze and spend most of his time sleeping but he completely destroyed our house in his younger years - pissing and shitting everywhere until he was 6 years old. He would piss up furniture and has ruined a coffee table, a dining room table and a computer desk doing this as well as ruining multiple flooring beyond repair. On top of this he ruined two sofas, two doors and the stair banister. Nothing has been replaced or repaired as there is just no point whilst he’s still with us.

Our youngest barks constantly, I can’t have windows or doors open as she’ll bark at the slightest noise. We have lovely patio doors onto the garden but can never use them. She doesn’t destroy things though and is a clean dog apart from the constant shedding. Dog hair absolutely everywhere, even upstairs where she isn’t allowed.

im getting to the point where I daydream about being dog less - clean tidy house, no holes in the sofa, no smell, patio doors wide open - has anyone else been through this? I love them of course but I’ll never get another. Everyone says I will - but I don’t think I’ll go back on if this time.

Another bug bear - fancy a quick weekend away? Kennels “that will be £100 please” costs more to put the dogs in kennels than the bloody break costs 😂

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Dotto · 16/07/2025 17:20

Sharing a house with actual animals is a bit mad and feral really, when you think about it.

YANBU and I wish pet ownership would reduce, for many reasons. We definitely won't get more when these go.

TheDogsMother · 16/07/2025 17:17

We lost our dog five years ago at age 15 (his age, not mine !). We adored him but he wasn't the easiest of dogs and since then we've been making the most of travel and days out without worrying about getting back. After we lost him we signed up to Borrow My Doggy and have been looking after a lovely dog one day a week during that five years. It's perfect as we get a dog fix without the commitment. I can't really see us getting another dog now.

Whatton · 16/07/2025 17:14

Im right there with you even though my dog isnt hard work. No destruction, no barking, easy going, hair is a nightmare but after 11 years im looking forward to being dog free. I know it sounds awful but getting a dog wasnt a sole decision but im now a sole owner as ex "cant have dogs" at his property and its easier to get my kids watched than it is the dog. I feel awful putting him in a kennel and hes not the most warming to other people, although not aggressive he wont settle, so dog sitters are out.

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