To ask what your biggest problem in life is at the moment

My Mum has lung cancer- and my brother is having a nervous breakdown because of it. I'm just bracing myself because it is going to be bumpy.

I have bpd, anxiety disorder, depressive disoreder, a skizophrenic and bpd child, im a single mum of 3, feeling detatched and exhausted and totally bored of everything, will keep plodding on little donkey, lost my job because of my bpd, i find it difficult to hold down work, and keep the house and look after everything i feel like im always failing. Im legally signed off from work due to my brain but i cant afford not to work because benefits are not enough and also i want to contribute to society, need some help with companies that are good with this sort of thing

After two surgeries earlier in the year I am struggling to keep working FT - 65 next birthday. Am having to fight for even minor adjustments to help me keep working. Long to retire but can't afford to do that, as still have a mortgage to pay off after an unwanted divorce.

If ever a thread was the definition of "walk a mile in someone else's shoes...."
Sending love and strength to everyone x

I am struggling emotionally. I feel like my entire personality is slowly changing into something (or someone) I don't recognize. I struggle with routine and I struggle to stay focused. I have already let go of most of the struggle and there are many moments where I let the chips fall where they may.

I am worried it will get me into to trouble in the long run though, especially at work. I feel I am less reliable than I used to be. I also feel largely detached from the world at the moment. Some of it is deliberate. I can't stand watching the news at the moment and part of me just feels flighty, as though I am not really here.

Somehow I still get things done, but I often don't know how. On the one hand it is peaceful, but on the other it is scary and I feel out of control.

Ask her to move out, you need to keep your sanity for your education.
Rentals are like gold dust, you'll find another tenant who isn't going to ruin your life.
10 years from now, you'll be sorry that you let her stay.

Champagne problems but…
major problem is a friend moving in bc dp and I can’t afford rent. Now shes moved in she is picky, pinning her mh on me (I have too many books on my bookshelf and it’s upsetting her (no I’m serious))
minor things but I just graduated UG and I’m now doing a PG, I’m worried I won’t get onto PhD program once I’m done with PG
worried about DPs career. He’ll get it sorted, he’s got a brilliant mind but it’s early days and stuff needs to be arranged
worried we might need to do long distance if I get a PhD far away :(

I just have a nagging worry I'll lose my job, not be able to get another one, and fall into massive debt/poverty. I have OCD, ADHD, anxiety and a tendency to catastrophise though (which in itself is pretty hard to live with, like a hornet's nest living inside my head).

Husband has cancer in his 30s. We have a baby and a toddler. I’m on SMP so money is draining. Life with two young kids is draining as it is. We are happy though sad at the prospect we might not have forever.

Hello, has he tried dupilimab ? Methotrexate didn’t work for my sibling who also has chronic eczema but dupilmab cured him.

The government’s inability to act on the climate crisis. It’s truly terrifying to see all these babies and young children and more and more being born every day without a thought of the home we are leaving them. 🥲

It might be long Covid x

To fit?? A plumbing course would be cheaper.

Mother in law has terminal cancer
Daughter has got out of a horrible dv relationship and just cannot get a job

My husband has been out of work since December and although he is applying for several jobs a day he has only had two interviews

I’m caring long distance for a 96 year old who I don’t like very much..

Pericoronitis.

7 month old son just had open heart surgery…. Biggest worry is hoping he’s ok and will live a normal life

The bastard only got four years?? I'm so angry on your behalf 😒. I hope your daughter is OK x

Ask me anything. Stage 5 kidney failure, dialysis,transplant,failed transplant,back on dialysis. I'm here if you need advice.

The piece of scum who raped my daughter when she was 15 is getting out of prison soon (4 years on).

Same DD was pregnant and has just lost the baby, so supporting her and her (lovely) bf through this.

Debt.

Aging mothers, one with dementia in a home and one still living fairly independently but needing increased support.

Sending love to everyone struggling, remember nothing lasts forever and bad times always pass xxxxxxx

Everything. Life. It’s all one big giant shit-show, every aspect of which is trying to kill me.

I have had 19 quotes.

Cheapest was 6k.

Toilet/shower/bath/sink and unit/extractor/full tile.

My bathroom continues to fester.