To ask what your biggest problem in life is at the moment

@MoonWoman69this sounds so awful, I’m so sorry you are going through this. Have they given you nutrition advice about helpful supplements and protein? Do watch your mental health, it can be so effected by these things which makes recovery even harder.

I am sat here in tears at the majority of these posts. Sending huge love and hugs to everyone who feels down, is ill or is struggling.
Nobodies worries trump anyone elses, our worries are ours, but it's good to share and I'm wishing each and every one of you positivity, strength and healing. 🌻

To the people who have given ridiculous or flippant answers, you are arseholes.

My worry totally pales in comparison, but it's dominating my life at the moment.

I ran over my right, big toe with the wheely bin accidentally a few months ago. I broke it and I also lost a huge chunk of skin from the top and then it all went black. Back and forth to the GP, was sent to hospital and admitted. They did various tests and found I had a blocked artery. Had an angioplasty. The blood flow is back into my toe, that's gone really well, so I am now going to be discharged from the vascular department and added to wound care clinic. The nail came off and from that up, the whole top part of my toe is necrotic. I cannot fault the medical care I have and am receiving, not one bit of it.
I have regular appointments at the hospital, where at each one, they nod and say the inadine dressings are doing what they should to dry it out. I have to wait now for it to self amputate. In between the hospital appointments, I have to dress it every 3 to 4 days and it knocks me sick. Big pieces are starting to come off, but it still looks horrific. I know my toe is going to be deformed for the rest of my life.
I'm just worried that I can't see an end to this any time soon. I can't drive as I don't feel safe, it being my accelerator and brake foot; the only time I'm getting out, is when my DH has a day off work; it's so sore to walk on; I can only wear my trekking sandals; I have to shower with my foot in a bread bag, taped to my leg; the rest of my toe is covered in dry skin that I can't do anything about at the moment.
I know I am really really lucky, there was talk of amputating half my foot. But looking at the toe (with blurred vision and a little "past" it as I can't look at it directly!) I can't see when it's going to look any different.
I'm just over 3 months in, going stir crazy because I can't just jump in my car and go somewhere and feeling quite down about it.
But it's nothing compared to some of the experiences shared on here 🤗

Not so long ago- maybe 6 weeks/a couple months?

Once he started going regularly it just fell into its stride and continued.

That Israel are brutally and purposefully murdering a classroom of children every single day for the last two years and committing a genocide against the native Palestinians - and all this violence and horror is supported and financed by our U.K. government. That’s my biggest problem.

I can’t save my sisters life. She’s dying of cancer. She’s 35.

Yup I’m sickened as that was always my biggest fear. I feel so betrayed. If it continues I’m off.

DS8 has finished 3 years of treatment for Leukemia this year. Living in absolute fear of a return and what that means.

Sadly that happens a lot.

They think they've got you trapped so their real personality comes out. Prove them wrong and leave.

Whether new job will authorise holiday for January for my big wedding anniversary. (We will be going anyway)

My mindset (and a DH who can’t share the load). I have a blessed life with a few challenges but I struggle to stay positive. Sorry to those struggling with serious illness and issues that can’t be solved.

I’d really recommend a book called ‘at last a life’ by Paul David (can buy on Amazon). Genuinely the only information you’ll need to recover from your anxiety. Wishing you well!

Partner had a surprise personality transplant after our baby was born

Wow, if those are your problems, I hope you realize you're very, very lucky.

With so many people facing dire medical problems, being without the money for the medical problems, coping with the death of a loved one, facing eviction, facing deportation, facing a disintegrating government, worried about the threat of war, struggling to afford groceries, unable to find a decent job ... yes, you're lucky.

Same as my dd :( yes we have that! how long was he on it for? I don’t want her to be on it on long term but as soon as she’s off it/it gets hot outside/she is slightly ill, she becomes constipated again. So so hard :(

I am already taking vitamins and it helps, but I don't feel quite like myself. I have been tested en the doctor said it's not peri.

Big hugs to everybody. 💐

Are you peri menopausal. It makes you feel like you're living outside yourself.
It could be a vitamin deficiency.
I take a pro-biotic it has helped.

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Horrible court case with a person to reclaim money I sent to them under duress (judgement in my favour) Sudden unexpected death of my grandmother who raised me, car accident where other party admitted 100% liability then decide to lie when the cost of repairs were sent, complete hair loss due to alopecia and that’s just in the last 9 months.

Granddaughter about to be discharged from hospital next week with ng tube and oxygen ventilation at night. She is six next month.

Bouts of tachycardia.
can’t hear very well.

Hi x What age are you? I had this and it was menopause-related x

Sending you love. I hope he's OK and makes a good recovery.

First my housekeeper got sick, then the nanny resigned unexpectedly, then our driver crashed our Porsche whilst out running my errands. I’m kidding, it’s the school holidays and I don’t have staff is my biggest problem.

Hey no he hasn't tried that. He's only 3 so methotrexate is the first big thing we're trying. It's definitely improving but I'll keep a note of Dupilimab. Thankyou

I'm so very, very sorry for your loss of your babies. Are you getting any help like therapy to talk through your grief, or help from a baby loss charity?

That's unbelievably hard, what you are suffering. My heart goes out to you.