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naturalcrackle111 · 16/07/2025 13:01

New bathroom needed
dh needs a car

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TheEveningReport · 16/07/2025 14:53

MuggleMe · 16/07/2025 13:08

SEN daughter not coping at mainstream but doesn't meet threshold for special needs.

Snap. DS at the start of this journey. Currently awaiting assessment and school refusing and he is breaking out in hives with the stress.

NotQuiteUsual · 16/07/2025 14:53

Whether or not I'm in psychosis again. I'm so tired of trying to gauge what's reality and what's in my head.

ForFunGoose · 16/07/2025 14:51

Life isn’t turning out how I thought.
Everything feel hard! Peri menopause sucking the life out of me.

Friendofdennis · 16/07/2025 14:51

Trying to get through chemotherapy. Taking it one day at a time. But unfortunately life’s other worries don’t stop for this

MoveOverToTheSea · 16/07/2025 14:48

FurForksSake · 16/07/2025 13:02

I am on long term sick leave and housebound 95% of the time.

Me too @FurForksSake

And I’m not going to get much better either. Trying to get my head around a life lived at home, mostly lying down

CoralOP · 16/07/2025 14:43

WednesdaysChild50 · 16/07/2025 14:36

Yet you still posted 😡

Completely unnecessary post, this lady has stresses like everyone else but then read others and realised she has it OK showing empany for others and appreciation for her life.
no need for your little angry faces.

SmudgeButt · 16/07/2025 14:42

holiday that should have been very memorable got hijacked a couple of weeks in by my toxic brother and I don't know how to sort that.

Malakion · 16/07/2025 14:41

ForgottenPasswordNewAccount · 16/07/2025 13:05

Garage told us, not point in repairing the car not eccomically viable and if it was theirs, they would get rid of it.

4 years left on the loan

What car is it ? (Trying to make the atmosphere lighter ).

ManchesterLu · 16/07/2025 14:41

So sorry to hear about everyone's issues. Mine pale in comparison, but I currently owe £10,000 on a credit card after messing up with an interest free offer, and have no idea how I'll pay it back before it starts adding interest onto it in 2 months time. Balance transfer will only allow me half of it.

reversegear · 16/07/2025 14:40

Being in hospital sat in a bay next to a lady in nappies and trying to chat and be kind when it smells like a sewer.

DriveMeCrazy1974 · 16/07/2025 14:40

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Don't be 'that' person. Really no need for it, is there?!

Cremefraicheeee · 16/07/2025 14:39

Asthenia · 16/07/2025 14:21

I’m in 35k of credit card debt and spend every waking moment worrying about money. All my own fault so nothing I can do really. Reading some of the responses on here really puts my problem into perspective - sending everyone so much love.

Just to let you know you aren't alone, I was in the same boat. Follow debt camel on instagram, get a plan together. It feels shit now, but it's not forever. xx

BeamMeUpCountMeIn · 16/07/2025 14:38

My DC with SEN may not get into college in autumn if they get low GCSE grades but be forced to do a vocational course instead. Feel sick at the thought of them being failed yet again. Not sleeping or able to concentrate at all.

Needsleepneedcoffee · 16/07/2025 14:38

Everyone's health I guess.
My physical and mental health are bad, I've got 3 kids, 2 are autistic and I've just about been keeping my head above water for so long... I need help, desperately.
The only one who will help is my ex husband but I know he brings other issues with him. It can never be as cut and dry as him taking responsibility. He will start to want to borrow money, or somewhere to live, and that will cost me peace in a different way.

WednesdaysChild50 · 16/07/2025 14:36

holachicatita · 16/07/2025 13:25

Was going to type that my biggest worry right now is the extension we are building. And taking four kids abroad soon and the stress of it all. Now I realise how blessed I am and I really don't have any worries.

Yet you still posted 😡

Illjusthavethebreadsticks · 16/07/2025 14:36

My autistic child being out of school for two years with no hope of a place at a specialist school.

ForeverDelayedEpiphany · 16/07/2025 14:34

My health is gradually getting worse, with perimenopause symptoms that are exacerbating my movement disorder symptoms too.

I was the picture of health a decade ago, ran half marathons, slim, ate well.

Now a decade later, after 3 pregnancies and c-sections, and horrendous concussions and post concussion syndrome, plus being injured permanently by an off label antipsychotic after the first concussion, i have been living with a movement disorder called tardive dyskinesia that is like Tourette's and Parkinson's disease combined.

It's been hell on earth at times and I've often wondered why I was born sometimes 😪

YesThatsATurdOnTheRug · 16/07/2025 14:33

My DH left for another woman recently. This feels like absolute child's play after reading this thread. My absolutely wonderful mother is starting a very familiar journey into Alzheimer's, in the footsteps of her parents, which is a grief I can't even begin to face.

LoudPlumDog · 16/07/2025 14:30

So deep in grief from my 21 year old daughter who passed away suddenly 8 months ago. I will never be the same person I was before. I’m sad 50% of the time and less sad the other 50% .

ExercicenformedeZ · 16/07/2025 14:30

Pllystyrene · 16/07/2025 14:23

My 13 year old nephew unexpectedly died in April, just after his birthday and before our trip to Disney. My children are completely broken especially my 14 year old. They were best friend, raised together like siblings. I genuinely loved that boy like my own. My sister is a single mum and he was her entire world. My entire family is devastated and I can't help anyone. My 6ft 3 son woke me up in a state the other night and I sat on the stairs and held him while he sobbed in my arms. I'm so worried about them all, I wish I could do something.

OMG my heart goes out to your family. How cruel life can be.

PistachioTiramisu · 16/07/2025 14:30

I've got Covid for the first time and feel terribly unwell - the continuous cough is wearing me out and stopping me sleep. I just want to feel normal again!

inezname · 16/07/2025 14:28

I've read every post and my heart breaks for those suffering. I really wish you some relief Is you struggles Flowers

I don't really have problems currently but I know life can usually turn in an instant. Happiness is not a permanent state and mine can vanish tomorrow.

Startstarry · 16/07/2025 14:28

I have a lot of trauma in my past and lack quite a few things many people might take for granted - living/supportive parents or good relationships with siblings - I’m an only child with one dead parent and one I no longer see (addiction issues/abusive behaviour). DH’s family is also a shit show of dysfunction 🤪

But reading some of the daily challenges people are facing on here makes me realise how good we have it in our own immediate family unit. I guess my most pressing worries at the moment are money/our financial future and my career, which is at a bit of a scary make or break stage…

YourBrickTiger · 16/07/2025 14:28

naturalcrackle111 · 16/07/2025 13:08

How stressful 😣

If you can, please get a second opinion. The same thing happened to me at the start of this year. I love my car but they were telling me no more repairs and said it wasn't worth it. Went somewhere else on the off chance and they fixed it for less than half of what the first place quoted me!

Yodeldodeldo · 16/07/2025 14:28

Worried I'll be made redundant.

Compared to some of the challenges on here it seems trivial. 2014 was one hell of a year for my family and I've always appreciated the good times since.

Wishing everyone strength to cope x

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