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I’m so tired of people with dangerous dogs ruining the park for everyone else.

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Purplehat123 · 15/07/2025 13:35

I’m so tired of people with dangerous dogs ruining the park for everyone else.

Every time I take my children and our small cavapoo to the park, there’s always someone with an intimidating dog off the lead. Yesterday it was a man with a huge German Shepherd (and I mean huge), a bully breed on a lead, and an Akita off the lead just wandering around.

This is a busy, very suburban park, full of families and young children. And there I am, trying to scoop up my two toddlers, push the pram with the baby, grab the dog, and move away as fast as possible because I am not taking the risk of one of those dogs attacking. And let’s be honest, if something did happen, I’d have to sacrifice my dog to protect my children.

Even the two dogs that were technically on a lead, if they decided to go for another dog or child, there’s no way he could have held them back. They were enormous, powerful breeds.

And don’t get me started on the Akita. It was off-lead, trotting around freely as if that’s totally normal. Akitas were originally bred to guard property and hunt large game, including bears. They are strong, territorial, and known for being aggressive toward other dogs. They can be incredibly unpredictable and are not the type of breed you let wander freely in a public park full of children and pets.

Today it was a woman with a giant Rottweiler off-lead, paying absolutely no attention while she scrolled on her phone. Again, no control, no awareness. Rottweilers were originally bred to drive cattle and guard livestock, and they are incredibly strong, protective dogs. They have a natural guarding instinct, which can easily turn dangerous when not properly controlled. It’s no coincidence that they feature in so many fatal dog attacks, especially involving children. The number of child deaths caused by Rottweilers is horrifying and well-documented. It doesn’t matter how sweet you think your dog is at home but when a dog like that turns, it’s too late to stop it.

Far too many times my own dog, who is a total wimp and literally gets bullied by a chihuahua, has been attacked by dogs whose owners claim, “Oh, they never normally do that.” It’s always after the fact, once the damage is done.

And honestly, it’s the complete lack of awareness that really gets me. You might think your dog is friendly, but when you’re letting it freely wander up to children and other dogs, especially massive, powerful breeds, it’s terrifying. It might not scare you, but to everyone else, it’s incredibly intimidating.

I love dogs. I grew up with them. But this constant anxiety when I take my children out is exhausting. I shouldn’t have to be on high alert every time we go to the park because someone refuses to take basic responsibility for an animal that could cause serious harm.

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TheGreatDownandOut · 20/07/2025 22:22

So we put the toaster on the front porch to guard the house and keep the gothic robo-pig purely for the purpose of dangerous granny deterrent?

CoubousAndTourmalet · 20/07/2025 22:21

hungryduck · 20/07/2025 22:17

Sorry, no can do. You're not allowed to give it purpose. It must be kept for happiness only. The only killing machines with purpose are the deadly toasters.

Oh damn. That's a dealbreaker for me, sorry. I do need a new guard dog though, so I'll have to take the toaster. The current guard dog doesn't even bark 🙄 she's never awake long enough 😴

hungryduck · 20/07/2025 22:17

CoubousAndTourmalet · 20/07/2025 22:11

I'll have the one on the left please, it looks sufficiently darkly gothic and menacing to keep dangerously aggressive grandmothers away. When it's not cooking, it can live in the front porch and be a guard pig.

Sorry, no can do. You're not allowed to give it purpose. It must be kept for happiness only. The only killing machines with purpose are the deadly toasters.

CoubousAndTourmalet · 20/07/2025 22:14

lollypop42 · 20/07/2025 22:12

@CoubousAndTourmalet no, your dog

My dog is always on a lead in public, for her own safety. Thank you for your concern for her wellbeing, but I won't allow her off lead anywhere there are likely to be dangerous grandmothers at large.

lollypop42 · 20/07/2025 22:12

@CoubousAndTourmalet no, your dog

CoubousAndTourmalet · 20/07/2025 22:11

hungryduck · 20/07/2025 21:56

This is exactly what AI was made for...

I'll have the one on the left please, it looks sufficiently darkly gothic and menacing to keep dangerously aggressive grandmothers away. When it's not cooking, it can live in the front porch and be a guard pig.

TheGreatDownandOut · 20/07/2025 21:58

hungryduck · 20/07/2025 21:56

This is exactly what AI was made for...

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

hungryduck · 20/07/2025 21:56

This is exactly what AI was made for...

I’m so tired of people with dangerous dogs ruining the park for everyone else.
I’m so tired of people with dangerous dogs ruining the park for everyone else.
CoubousAndTourmalet · 20/07/2025 21:50

lollypop42 · 20/07/2025 21:15

@CoubousAndTourmalet i would say it needs to be on a lead at all times when out

Ummm, sorry, but what does? A robot pig?

TheGreatDownandOut · 20/07/2025 21:47

@CoubousAndTourmalet and @hungryduck sitting here chuckling at your posts

hungryduck · 20/07/2025 21:42

lollypop42 · 20/07/2025 21:17

@TheGreatDownandOutyou’ve just proved my point about entitlement. Dogs bite, children don’t

You've never worked in a pre-school or nursery, have you? 😂

CoubousAndTourmalet · 20/07/2025 21:37

OonaStubbs · 20/07/2025 21:30

Laugh all you want but in 25 years dogs will have disappeared from our streets, and will only be seen in zoos.

So will vegans.

CoubousAndTourmalet · 20/07/2025 21:36

TheGreatDownandOut · 20/07/2025 21:35

I can confirm that you can program it to cook fake bacon. Coming soon to an Argos near you. Just waiting on funding, patent pending.

It’d make Crufts pretty surreal wouldn’t it?

To be fair, Crufts is pretty surreal already...😬

TheGreatDownandOut · 20/07/2025 21:35

CoubousAndTourmalet · 20/07/2025 21:32

It sounds brilliant! my pup would love this as a friend, (provided it's fake bacon that it cooks). Where can I get one?

I can confirm that you can program it to cook fake bacon. Coming soon to an Argos near you. Just waiting on funding, patent pending.

It’d make Crufts pretty surreal wouldn’t it?

CoubousAndTourmalet · 20/07/2025 21:32

TheGreatDownandOut · 20/07/2025 21:27

So we are creating a robot miniature pig that plays chess, cooks bacon, is NOT a toaster, wears a muzzle, is always on a lead and doesn’t look at grandchildren whether or not on private land.

It sounds brilliant! my pup would love this as a friend, (provided it's fake bacon that it cooks). Where can I get one?

OonaStubbs · 20/07/2025 21:30

Laugh all you want but in 25 years dogs will have disappeared from our streets, and will only be seen in zoos.

TheGreatDownandOut · 20/07/2025 21:29

CoubousAndTourmalet · 20/07/2025 21:01

I'm confused. Is the miniature pig a living creature, or a robot pig, or don't we know?

It’s a robot pig that’s on a quest to become a real pig. That’s a movie that writes itself.

TheGreatDownandOut · 20/07/2025 21:28

lollypop42 · 20/07/2025 21:17

@TheGreatDownandOutyou’ve just proved my point about entitlement. Dogs bite, children don’t

I literally have no idea what you’re going on about

TheGreatDownandOut · 20/07/2025 21:27

So we are creating a robot miniature pig that plays chess, cooks bacon, is NOT a toaster, wears a muzzle, is always on a lead and doesn’t look at grandchildren whether or not on private land.

BlankBlankBlank14 · 20/07/2025 21:17

YeOldeGreyhound · 20/07/2025 21:09

And on private land.

And if it makes a noise, than another poster will beat it with her walking stick.

Or if it looks at grandkids!

lollypop42 · 20/07/2025 21:17

@TheGreatDownandOutyou’ve just proved my point about entitlement. Dogs bite, children don’t

lollypop42 · 20/07/2025 21:15

@CoubousAndTourmalet i would say it needs to be on a lead at all times when out

CoubousAndTourmalet · 20/07/2025 21:11

BlankBlankBlank14 · 20/07/2025 21:03

I’m hoping for a real creature, I think recall may be difficult to teach though.

Not much different to a Pyrenean then, so I'd be fine.

YeOldeGreyhound · 20/07/2025 21:09

BlankBlankBlank14 · 20/07/2025 21:04

And on a lead…

And on private land.

And if it makes a noise, than another poster will beat it with her walking stick.

BlankBlankBlank14 · 20/07/2025 21:04

TheGreatDownandOut · 20/07/2025 21:00

Only if it’s muzzled

And on a lead…