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To report benefit fraud?

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DylanKeogh · 14/07/2025 22:09

I work for a charity who support a vulnerable subsect of people. I've been asked to support a person who cares for a vulnerable individual to complete PIP review paperwork. The PIP review was for HIM not the vulnerable person.

I have completed the review form filling in details that he asked me to. Handily for him, he had all his PIP and DLA applications dating back to 1997 (that I could see, maybe earlier).

I had to paraphrase the 2016 application so his disabilities and care needs looked consistent. The version of events given in 2016 did not match the person our charity has been supporting for a while now. For example, 'cannot leave the house without his son for support.' He doesn't speak to his son. His kids haven't spoken to him for years he frequently claims. 'Cannot walk more than 10m without stopping and not at all without a stick.' We've never seen a stick and our building he visits weekly is more than 10m away from his car, and of course more than 10m in length. There was not a stick on show in the house, nor one by the front door. He showed me photos of a day out last weekend that "was a huge place to walk around." No stick in the photos!

I did say at the time that I was just going to have to copy the previous application or it will look like he's been miraculously cured. He agreed to it. I felt dreadful at the time as I'm thinking he is bare faced lying. I said to my Dad that I've lied terribly. He said I hadn't lied as they weren't my words, nor was it my signature.

Do I forget about it? Everybody is entitled to do what they want, not my place to judge. I did the job I'm paid to do and if he wants to commit benefit fraud, that's on him?

Or do I have a moral obligation to report people who are dishonestly depriving the state and tax payers? I support so many people who genuinely have never and don't believe they should claim benefits. They really do struggle.

YABU - Keep your sticky beak out

YANBU - Report away, it looks like he's been taking money for almost 30yrs!

OP posts:
Miley23 · 14/07/2025 23:20

Could it be that your client's condition has improved and he has just not reported this change? Despite all disability award letters telling people they must report changes it does seem to be something that people seem to forget ! Just thinking he may have had more problems originally ?

Miley23 · 14/07/2025 23:17

Miley23 · 14/07/2025 23:11

I'm not going to say much as will be pounced on as I have been on previous threads, but just wanted to say I do a similar job to you and am very shocked by a lot of what I see . It makes me feel very uncomfortable and causes me massive dilemmas, but at the end of the day that person is signing the form to say the information is correct and they do have to supply medical evidence before the benefit is awarded so to have been awarded that benefit for 30 years, they must have supplied medical evidence unless what they have told medical professionals is also untrue ?? If the DWP have not checked medical evidence properly then they are at fault.
I am currently supporting an elderly man who has been in receipt of higher rate DLA mobility for many years with a motorbility car yet all his recent GP letters say he can walk almost a mile. Unbelievable ! If he has improved, he clearly hasn't let them know.

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Sorry that last bit should say hospital letters..

Miley23 · 14/07/2025 23:11

I'm not going to say much as will be pounced on as I have been on previous threads, but just wanted to say I do a similar job to you and am very shocked by a lot of what I see . It makes me feel very uncomfortable and causes me massive dilemmas, but at the end of the day that person is signing the form to say the information is correct and they do have to supply medical evidence before the benefit is awarded so to have been awarded that benefit for 30 years, they must have supplied medical evidence unless what they have told medical professionals is also untrue ?? If the DWP have not checked medical evidence properly then they are at fault.
I am currently supporting an elderly man who has been in receipt of higher rate DLA mobility for many years with a motorbility car yet all his recent GP letters say he can walk almost a mile. Unbelievable ! If he has improved, he clearly hasn't let them know.

vipersnest1 · 14/07/2025 23:10

Many people who genuinely have a disability would tell you that you have a duty to report the truth as you have seen it.
My DC2 had a severe visual impairment (and is registered blind, but has useful vision) and has had to fight the scepticism that these people generate.
I would report the truth in a heartbeat. It makes me sick to my stomach to hear of people falsely claiming disability benefits and therefore stigmatising those who really need the help.

Helpmeplease2025 · 14/07/2025 23:00

The answer is always report.

HoskinsChoice · 14/07/2025 22:59

Report, report, report! He is literally stealing money from others who actually need it.