NC as its embarrassing. I'm a very long-term poster.
I drove hours to spend the weekend with a new love interest (it's long distance but I've known of him 20+ years) and I've just had the most unsatisfying sex I've probably ever had.
After years of celibacy and suspecting I might be Asexual, I finally connected with somebody I had those feelings for and was so excited to rediscover that part of a relationship.
I bought some gorgeous underwear, no expenses spared, and it started well (once he could drag himself away from his phone, who the hell deals with work admin then inane chat with friends on a Sunday when you're supposed to be on a saucy weekend?!)
He finished after 10 minutes or so but I hadn't. I asked him to 'help' me (sorry, I'm already cringing I don't want to be graphic) and he does for a few minutes then stops because he couldn't be arsed. I'm still not there.
Right OK, I thought, I'll do it myself then and tell him such.
He then pisses about trying to make me lose my stride, so to speak. Grabs my legs and pulls me down the bed, arsing about and taking the piss.
This is after I mentioned needing to keep the 'aid' in a certain position to get there.
Then says he's going for a cigarette. Killed it stone dead.
I'm actually annoyed.
He comes back in and says "Don't worry, that was only round 1"
I said "nah, you're alright. The moment has passed"
AIBU to feel so annoyed about this? Am I over reacting? How would you feel?