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To think you can drink tap water in a 1st world country!

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Drowninginconfusion · 13/07/2025 22:10

My OH will not drink tap water and it drives me insane. He just drove 20 minutes home at 10pm because he left half a bottle of water on the side at home and no shops are open and in his words ‘I take my water seriously’

I think the reason it drives me insane is because the reason he won’t drink it is because of the hormones etc in it but yet he has spent his whole life being obese. He goes through intense phases of working out and eating really well and loses weight but ultimately he is still obese and thinks that the one time he got to 17st is some sort of achievement that he needs to tell me about allllllll the time. He drives without a seatbelt on, he took pretty hard drugs as a young man and has always drunk alcohol (although he barely does these things now) I think another reason is that he constantly watches strong men / sports personalities talking about their workouts and nutrition and he insists on telling me about things that I have no interest in and have told him as much - after many years of politely saying ‘ooh interesting’ whilst secretly thinking ‘I bet you weren’t thinking about the processed meats giving you cancer when you ate your McDonalds wrap for breakfast 😡’ or ‘I’m 9 years older than you and manage to get more done in any given day than you do despite the fact that I’m not interested in an ice bath’ I know there’s no link to obesity from tap water but Jesus Christ something has to kill you! I doubt it will be the rusty pipes or hormones in the water! He had the audacity to ask me if I felt comfortable eating a sweetie the other day (not fat shaming me, I’m not fat, more that he wanted to make the point that there were no ingredients on the wrapper, pretty sure there were no ingredients on the sweet and sour chicken from the Chinese that he ate last night either 🤪)

I also know lots of you are going to tell me to get a grip and let him live as he pleases but if you had to listen to him go on and on about it whilst he’s sat there sweating and needing 400 bowel movements a day you would find it a hard pill to swallow.

Do you drink tap water? AIBU to think that in an emergency a bit of tap water isn’t going to kill you!

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frozendaisy · 13/07/2025 22:36

why do you secretly think thoughts just say them

ilovesooty · 13/07/2025 22:34

Of course I drink tap water. I keep a filter jug in the fridge.

DelilahBucket · 13/07/2025 22:34

Hormones in tap water?!?! Really? Your DH is insane. Our tap water is perfectly fine. It's pretty much all I ever drink.

ArabiattaPrawn · 13/07/2025 22:33

Obviously drinking tap water is fine. Sounds like there are far bigger problems in your relationship than the water he drinks though.

Also why the hell is he not wearing a seatbelt in a car?

Wolfiefan · 13/07/2025 22:32

Nothing wrong with tap water. I had a child with a kidney condition so we have a plumber in fridge/freezer with ice maker and water dispenser. Even if we didn’t I wouldn’t dream of buying bottled water.

Drowninginconfusion · 13/07/2025 22:31

Blueuggboots · 13/07/2025 22:29

Tap water is fine. The plastic waste from thousands of water bottles is not..

Thank you!! Honestly I feel it’s ridiculous and only really something you can get away with doing if you treat your body as a temple at all times!

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WaltzingWaters · 13/07/2025 22:30

Blueuggboots · 13/07/2025 22:29

Tap water is fine. The plastic waste from thousands of water bottles is not..

This.

Santasbigredbobblehat · 13/07/2025 22:29

He’s a wally. What a waste of money and plastic.

Blueuggboots · 13/07/2025 22:29

Tap water is fine. The plastic waste from thousands of water bottles is not..