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When did the narrative around warm weather change?

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Katypp · 13/07/2025 18:37

It used to be considered a lovely thing if we had a warm summer. Older people (me!) have happy memories of summer 76 and endless days playing outside in shorts during the holidays.
No it seems to be considered a bad thing, with people complaing about the heat, getting agitated about children going to school or even going outside at all. Weather forecasters wanging on about 'staying hydrated' as if we are children and delivering the forecasts as if it is a bad thing that we can enjoy nice weather for once.
Why are we so joyless, sucking on to bottles of water as if they were dummies and seemingly afraid to venture outside in case we self-combust.
Yes i know ow global warming and skin cancer but our reaction to a pleasant day is somewhat OTT i think.

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fireplaceember · 13/07/2025 21:54

Caravaggiouch · 13/07/2025 21:42

Because it was objectively not as hot. I’m sure plenty of people found 76 fucking miserable too, sounds like there are some rose tinted glasses going on. And the very fact people are still harping on about 1976 shows how rare this used to be.

My dad remembers it well and said he was miserable and it was too fucking hot. In family history he stomped outside, flung himself on the grass and slept there all night as he said it would be colder

oustedbymymate · 13/07/2025 21:52

100% people complained. It just wasn't as prolific as no social media

PickAChew · 13/07/2025 21:51

TrixieFatell · 13/07/2025 18:48

Do you mean the 1976 heatwave where there were plenty of government warnings about the weather, including new Drought Act and the new minister for drought being emoloyed. Or the one where there was an excess death rate rising to 20%. Did the fun also include standpipes being fitted in the streets and parts of the country having water supplies turned off during the day?

And the price of beer going up due to cereal crop failure.

tillyandmilly · 13/07/2025 21:48
  • my sister has had terrible migraines due to the stifling heat having to work in a hot hospital being over 35 degrees - we can’t all sit and relax in our gardens - I have been so tired and lethargic in this heat as well and trying to sleep at night is impossible ! I was ill in 76 with heatstroke but that heat was a rare occurrence - sadly I think these temperatures are going to be the norm now sadly!
Newgolddream70 · 13/07/2025 21:47

Slightly off topic but am I right in remembering we had night after night of really loud thunderstorms in the summer of 76? I was only 5 and hated them - used to get in my parents bed and sandwich myself between them both!

GoldPoster · 13/07/2025 21:45

I agree with you. People have become completely wet nowadays, whining about everything. God help us if something catastrophic did happen. But on the good side it might help people find their inner strength.

Caravaggiouch · 13/07/2025 21:42

Because it was objectively not as hot. I’m sure plenty of people found 76 fucking miserable too, sounds like there are some rose tinted glasses going on. And the very fact people are still harping on about 1976 shows how rare this used to be.

HappyNewTaxYear · 13/07/2025 21:41

There was much less obesity in 1976. If you’re obese in this weather, it’s so much more uncomfortable.

Limone81 · 13/07/2025 21:41

Buxusmortus · 13/07/2025 21:36

Climate change has meant that 30 degrees has become a normal summer temperature whereas when I was young( now 61) it was almost unheard of. A normal warm summer would be low 20s which was lovely, not the mid to high 20s and low 30s we get nowadays. The few degrees difference makes a huge difference to how the heat affects people and makes a summer go from feeling pleasant to unpleasant.

Absolutely.

At mid 20s it is glorious.

30 degrees is boiling hot miserable hell.

Out of interest, I wonder is the op retired or have grown up children? Because this weather is much more tolerable when you’re not having to head out on school runs at the hottest part of the day, or working in it.

TrixieFatell · 13/07/2025 21:40

Katypp · 13/07/2025 21:26

I think there are a fair few on here completely missing my point.
I am actually not that keen on extreme heat myself, but late 20s (mainly) is not extreme heat.
I am sure 1976 ( and I was not romanticising it by the way, just it's the best-known hot summer) brought problems, but i am sure weather forecasters were not talking about the temperatures so gravely a week n and we were not constantly bombarded with the stay hydrated and wear a hat rhetoric as if we were children.
You will not expire if you do not drink water every 10 minutes, really.
Yes, I am sure some medical conditions are made worse by the heat, the same as some are affected by the cold, but it's all negative, negative, negative.
Nothing is just nice anymore, it's always yes but, what if ...
And to the pp who said they couldn't go outside until 7pm - really? What would happen if you did? Might you feel a bit hot? Pretty extreme reaction to a pretty normal situation I would say

But there were the reminders and warnings. That's the point. This sentimentality of the good old days when people were tough and just got on with it is just a rose tinted glasses version of the truth.

TrixieFatell · 13/07/2025 21:40

Katypp · 13/07/2025 21:26

I think there are a fair few on here completely missing my point.
I am actually not that keen on extreme heat myself, but late 20s (mainly) is not extreme heat.
I am sure 1976 ( and I was not romanticising it by the way, just it's the best-known hot summer) brought problems, but i am sure weather forecasters were not talking about the temperatures so gravely a week n and we were not constantly bombarded with the stay hydrated and wear a hat rhetoric as if we were children.
You will not expire if you do not drink water every 10 minutes, really.
Yes, I am sure some medical conditions are made worse by the heat, the same as some are affected by the cold, but it's all negative, negative, negative.
Nothing is just nice anymore, it's always yes but, what if ...
And to the pp who said they couldn't go outside until 7pm - really? What would happen if you did? Might you feel a bit hot? Pretty extreme reaction to a pretty normal situation I would say

But there were the reminders and warnings. That's the point. This sentimentality of the good old days when people were tough and just got on with it is just a rose tinted glasses version of the truth.

Jennyathemall · 13/07/2025 21:39

It’s a result of the age of the internet and a back drop of climate change. In the good ole days you had the bbc telling you it was hot and to keep calm and crack on and so that’s what people did. The population was lower, there was less anxiety in general, and people didn’t have an expectation of an easy life with most having been through the war years so had more resilience or rather more tolerance to instability and disruption.

Limone81 · 13/07/2025 21:37

Katypp · 13/07/2025 21:26

I think there are a fair few on here completely missing my point.
I am actually not that keen on extreme heat myself, but late 20s (mainly) is not extreme heat.
I am sure 1976 ( and I was not romanticising it by the way, just it's the best-known hot summer) brought problems, but i am sure weather forecasters were not talking about the temperatures so gravely a week n and we were not constantly bombarded with the stay hydrated and wear a hat rhetoric as if we were children.
You will not expire if you do not drink water every 10 minutes, really.
Yes, I am sure some medical conditions are made worse by the heat, the same as some are affected by the cold, but it's all negative, negative, negative.
Nothing is just nice anymore, it's always yes but, what if ...
And to the pp who said they couldn't go outside until 7pm - really? What would happen if you did? Might you feel a bit hot? Pretty extreme reaction to a pretty normal situation I would say

When I go outside in anything over about 25, unless I’m in the shade. I very quickly get dizzy, feel sick, lightheaded and just generally like I could collapse.

Some people love hot weather, others don’t. Like I say I’m ok with temperature up to around 25 degrees.

The news is more prominent than it was in the 70s about everything.

Buxusmortus · 13/07/2025 21:36

Climate change has meant that 30 degrees has become a normal summer temperature whereas when I was young( now 61) it was almost unheard of. A normal warm summer would be low 20s which was lovely, not the mid to high 20s and low 30s we get nowadays. The few degrees difference makes a huge difference to how the heat affects people and makes a summer go from feeling pleasant to unpleasant.

Jennps · 13/07/2025 21:33

Zov · 13/07/2025 21:22

Completely bonkers! 😬

Yeah but the batshit lemmings lap up this kind of thing gleefully.

After all they were all screeching for harder, longer lockdowns for two years because of a flu like illness.

Canonlythinkofthisone · 13/07/2025 21:33

I have very fond memories of carefree playing in the garden, playing outside, chugging back pints of squash after hours of playing out.

I'm now a menopausal woman with a toddler, bills and a job to go to. My skin has been undercover for that long that I got sunburn yesterday standing outside for 30 mins in the sun 🤣🤣🤣

I'm not against the weather but I don't like being too hot as an adult these days. My daughter on the other hand is lapping it up and living her best life running round in hardly any clothes and a paddling pool and ice cream.

Perspective I guess

Littlemisscapable · 13/07/2025 21:33

Nicflowers82 · 13/07/2025 18:39

Agree. And it was always just ‘summer’ but now it’s a heatwave 🙄

Completely agree. The drama..its summer it should be sunny! In NI it has been sunny for 3 days and it is going to rain tomorow.

Jennps · 13/07/2025 21:32

Without the propaganda, how else would the taxpayer be fleeced in the name of Climate change?

FoxRedPuppy · 13/07/2025 21:30

If I went out yesterday I can feel my skin burning, immediately. It’s hard to describe but it so hot, it’s just feels unbearable. I sweat loads, hard to breathe (humidity?). I’m also a red head with pale skin, which maybe doesn’t help.

I would never book a holiday somewhere the temperature was above 25. I find 18-20 ideal.

fireplaceember · 13/07/2025 21:27

I’m 41 and a redhead, it’s always been a “thing” for me
making sure I had suncream, being in the shade, staying off school on sports day as you weren’t allowed inside and there was no shade on the field etc etc

Katypp · 13/07/2025 21:26

I think there are a fair few on here completely missing my point.
I am actually not that keen on extreme heat myself, but late 20s (mainly) is not extreme heat.
I am sure 1976 ( and I was not romanticising it by the way, just it's the best-known hot summer) brought problems, but i am sure weather forecasters were not talking about the temperatures so gravely a week n and we were not constantly bombarded with the stay hydrated and wear a hat rhetoric as if we were children.
You will not expire if you do not drink water every 10 minutes, really.
Yes, I am sure some medical conditions are made worse by the heat, the same as some are affected by the cold, but it's all negative, negative, negative.
Nothing is just nice anymore, it's always yes but, what if ...
And to the pp who said they couldn't go outside until 7pm - really? What would happen if you did? Might you feel a bit hot? Pretty extreme reaction to a pretty normal situation I would say

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dontwannadothis · 13/07/2025 21:25

Probably because you were a kid- you wouldn't have cared about hydration and skin cancer risks... The same warmings were happening you just wouldn't have noticed them the same way

Zov · 13/07/2025 21:22

Zapx · 13/07/2025 21:19

YANBU - there was someone on LBC the other day saying children should all be kept INSIDE between 11am and 6pm!

Completely bonkers! 😬

Zapx · 13/07/2025 21:19

YANBU - there was someone on LBC the other day saying children should all be kept INSIDE between 11am and 6pm!

gottalottodo · 13/07/2025 21:16

When did everyone start to overuse the word narrative??