To think that my appearance is no one else’s business?

Well done on all the positive changes. Sounds like you're healthy and happy. I voted YANBU.
Tweakments are not for me but I understand why others might want them however they can divide opinion as you often see on here. The important thing is it's what you want for you. I think shutting down conversations about your appearance with the family is the way to go. Eg
Mum: What have you had done to your lips?!
You: I've had lip filler recently. I'm really happy with the results but I don't want to discuss it further. Have you seen the weather today? What are you eating for dinner?

You can use this technique for other topics they disagree with too. Perhaps they don't agree with tweakments and that's totally fine, it's dealing with the conflict when it arises.

You look gorgeous! And what beautiful skin and hair. The lips look lovely too!

well done on turning your life around, stay happy, it suits you

Really? Because over the years, especially in the relationships board, I have seen many examples of this situation. Some families can get very peculiar when members step out of their lane (as they see it).

And I think the OP has confirmed that this dynamic is in play. As well as her sister being a conspiracy theorist.

You do you OP and ignore everyone else.

Including the lazy posters who slap out the word 'jealous' like a seal hitting a keypad.

Whatever other people's reasons are for trying to get into your business, it's your business so just ignore them.

I think this is the oddest opinion and conclusion I've read on MN.

Much much more likely is they are concerned about the hazards of a procedure carried out by someone who is not a doctor, or simply that they don't think the OP needs such things and are concerned for her mental health or confidence.

However op is an adult and is free to do as she pleases, and can just ignore the comments.

I don’t think a tummy tuck is vanity in your case.

fuck em. Your body your choice

I don't like lip filler so I don't get it done. That's my body and my choice.

You are entitled to do what you please to your body. It is absolutely no one's business. Ignore your family, OP.

You can consider a feminist perspective and be critical of things like surgery, beauty treatments, and make up, without being a dick and dragging down/insulting other women.

OP’s lips look good though. As long as she doesn’t go into trout pout territory they look really nice.

Lip fillers look ridiculous and I have no idea why lovely young women feel they need to mutilate themselves in this way. I think it's really sad. They look a mess, they stick out stupidly from the face in profile. So if I were your mum, I would be saying the same.

Nothing to do with jealousy.

Great if it enhances you and you don’t go down the route where everyone looks the same (Love Island type looks) or Liberace. I was just thinking earlier today how David Beckham has mucked about with his face and I wondered what he would have looked like without it, probably very good.

I had a little bit of filler and botox done a few year’s ago and loved the result but it was just a one off (couldn’t afford more). It took ten years off me but in a way that just made me look fresh.

Good luck with your updated look, hope you enjoy it. Your family are probably just worried you'll go all Wildenstein.

Congratulations on your weight loss.
I don't think your family are jealous or want to spoil things for you.
Many people find cosmetic procedures concerning for many different reasons. For example, your lips look bruised and sore in the picture you share, and I would be upset to see someone had hurt themselves to that extent in the pursuit of "beauty" Nothing to do with not wanting you to look good.

I’ve gone from size 22.. to size 8/10 over 17 months. With the miracle drug that is Mounjaro. First and foremost.. my blood pressure has gone from 180/120. To 117/73. That alone is enough for me to feel happy - along with cholesterol 1.8 mmol/L
However that weight loss left me with an apron of skin hanging below my pubis .. hideous and no clothes fitted . Size 8/10 everywhere except round the waist . Which was still a 18. I had a tummy tuck.
was is dangerous ? Yes . Like all operations. Was it vane ? . Absolutely. Were my kids worried ? Yes .. very . BUT they also knew how much the excess skin hurt (sores, infections .. anytime the temperature increased and sometimes just by exerting myself) . They all ‘got it’ and helped me research surgery/ understand the risk and make my decision.
The best scariest decision that I have ever made . They have all.. (adult kids, Husband , boyfriend & friends ) have ALL been completely supportive.

Would I like more for the saggy arms and baggy breasts ? Yes of course . Will I do more ? No. Not at the moment . However , if I do .. then it’s my business and no one else’s. My body. My choice !!

Well done on the weight loss, could even go with the eye job, I have similar issue but am nearly double your age! Definitely going the way my father was with hooded eyes and my eyes even feel tired from trying to hold up that skin!

But the lip fillers, I dunno, you look fine from the front and I often see people like that but then when they turn sideways you see that ridiculous duck like pout and the blurring of the actual upper line of the lip into the surrounding skin. Now maybe I have just seen bad ones and maybe the good ones I haven't noticed but I'd never judge on a front photo, I'd be more interested in side profile.

Op, if you don't mind me asking, who have you booked for your blepharoscopy?

Congratulations on your weight loss and body confidence OP x

Of course it's not their business - tell them to let it go!

I will be honest, I can't say whether your family have made those comments because they are genuinely concerned or jealous as other posters have mentioned.

However, you are a grown woman and you should do whatever you want with your own body once you have done your own research and assessed any risks involved : )

If they were really concerned about you they'd have had a quiet, calm word with you. Sounds to me like they're jealous. I don't like lip fillers at all but yours look natural.

Why did you rush to jealousy?

I dont know the op, but it is possible that her "improvements" may look like Katie Price.

And even if they don't, some people just don't like the fake look (not saying op is fake looking, but maybe)

If your eyelids are affecting your vision you could get a blepharoscopy on the NHS. If you have it done at 34 and have naturally dropping eyelids you're likely to need it done again when you're older. Of course it's your body and your face but everybody who goes too far started with a little tweak, so your family's concern is not unexpected.

Well done on the weight loss and a bigger well done on feeling better about yourself.

Im not one for filler and the like, and I might judge you in private but as long as you can afford it and feel happy with it, then it really is your business.

I think you look gorgeous!

Have you tried the sticky eyelid tape? I did once and looked really odd. But I wonder if anyone has tried it to good effect.