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Parents choosing not to vaccinate their children

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MidnightPatrol · 13/07/2025 08:39

A child has died in Liverpool as part of an outbreak of measles. 17 are currently hospitalised with it in the city, as part of a wider outbreak.

73% of children in Liverpool are vaccinated against measles - vs an England average of 84%.

A rate of 95% immunisation is required for herd immunity. No child in the UK needs to be getting measles - we can vaccinate against it.

In Liverpool, there is a risk of a widespread measles outbreak due to this low rate of immunisation - it is very infectious, so the risk to the population is significant.

If you are a parent that doesn’t get your child vaccinated, why?

Should the government not be using further incentives to encourage people to take up vaccination - are a third of Liverpudlians really against vaccinating their children?

Should non-vaccinated children be limited from accessing nursery or schools (as in other countries)?

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whynotmereally · 13/07/2025 16:30

MC846 · 13/07/2025 08:45

It's astounding to me. I grew up in the 70s though when measles was much more common and I had it myself when I was 4, the vaccine hadn't been around long and uptake was poor. I can remember how ill I was. People have forgotten what an awful illness it is because vaccine uptake was so high in the late 80s until recently, it was largely stamped out. Unfortunately, as more children die or suffer from this awful illness you'll finally see uptake start to increase again.

Exactly I had measles, German measles and mumps and was quite poorly each time. Why would anyone put their child (and others) at risk?

Lavenderflower · 13/07/2025 16:23

PepsiMaxCherryAddict · 13/07/2025 16:18

Yeah, I totally agree, and equally people are allowed to think some of those opinions are illogical.

Agreed.

PepsiMaxCherryAddict · 13/07/2025 16:18

Lavenderflower · 13/07/2025 16:13

People are allowed to have a different opinion.

Yeah, I totally agree, and equally people are allowed to think some of those opinions are illogical.

Alpacahacker · 13/07/2025 16:17

Lavenderflower · 13/07/2025 16:13

People are allowed to have a different opinion.

That point of view is based on no evidence at all though. Opinions can be harmful if people spout them loudly enough.

Lavenderflower · 13/07/2025 16:13

PepsiMaxCherryAddict · 13/07/2025 15:58

You make no sense. If, by your logic, babies cannot cope with a vaccine, how in the hell do you think they’d fare catching an actual disease that vaccines protect against?

Babies have been receiving vaccines for decades with no ill effects but you’re suggesting leaving vaccinations as long as possible and therefore giving them greater opportunity to catch a disease at nursery, school, play centres etc when mixing with others is arguably the most vital for learning? When you’re arguing that their immunity is weaker.

Have you actually heard yourself? Jesus Christ.

People are allowed to have a different opinion.

Lavenderflower · 13/07/2025 16:12

Dinkytoy · 13/07/2025 15:18

Yes there's loads of data. It differs throughout the UK though. In England, which has higher levels of multiculturalism and immigration vaccine uptake ranges from 90% in children born to white British mothers and reduces to 61% in children born to black mothers, with all children to born to those in minority groups having much lower levels of vaccine uptake..
It's not quite a simple as tik tock videos and hippies not vaccinating their DC.
As our demographics change we are losing our herd immunity.
Uptake in Scotland is much higher overall, near the 95% needed. They have much lower levels of immigration/multiculturalism though and reduced uptake is generally down to poverty, those DC living in poverty are 10% less likely to be vaccinated.

This isn't surprise as minorities are more distrustful of medical professionals. Many significant medical advancements have been made possible through the contributions, experiences, and exploitation of Black people both as scientists and, historically, as subjects of unethical research.

Lavenderflower · 13/07/2025 16:08

Lafufufu · 13/07/2025 15:22

😲😲😲
I’m not sure why but these stats really surprise me… I supposed I just always assumed it’s white MC crunchy mums with kids called things like Tiberius and Amelia who don’t bother to vaccinate

every day is a school day…

I could be wrong but this study look like it was related to covid and not childhood vaccinations.

Lavenderflower · 13/07/2025 16:03

Dinkytoy · 13/07/2025 15:18

Yes there's loads of data. It differs throughout the UK though. In England, which has higher levels of multiculturalism and immigration vaccine uptake ranges from 90% in children born to white British mothers and reduces to 61% in children born to black mothers, with all children to born to those in minority groups having much lower levels of vaccine uptake..
It's not quite a simple as tik tock videos and hippies not vaccinating their DC.
As our demographics change we are losing our herd immunity.
Uptake in Scotland is much higher overall, near the 95% needed. They have much lower levels of immigration/multiculturalism though and reduced uptake is generally down to poverty, those DC living in poverty are 10% less likely to be vaccinated.

I live in a wealthy part of London which is predominately white British. They have one the lowest vaccination rate in London and UK.

StrangledVowels · 13/07/2025 16:02

It’ll be the fault of all those independent free-thinkers who do their own research. You know, the ones who believe any old shit the internet serves up for them.

The human race is rapidly heading down the plug hole.

PepsiMaxCherryAddict · 13/07/2025 15:58

Lavenderflower · 13/07/2025 12:39

I personally would feel more comfortable if they got vaccines at a later age - if most people were getting vaccinated then there would be less risk of them contracting diseases.

You make no sense. If, by your logic, babies cannot cope with a vaccine, how in the hell do you think they’d fare catching an actual disease that vaccines protect against?

Babies have been receiving vaccines for decades with no ill effects but you’re suggesting leaving vaccinations as long as possible and therefore giving them greater opportunity to catch a disease at nursery, school, play centres etc when mixing with others is arguably the most vital for learning? When you’re arguing that their immunity is weaker.

Have you actually heard yourself? Jesus Christ.

Robinredd · 13/07/2025 15:43

I have a friend who is an anti vaxxer. It was covid that brought out her fanatical side but she fell out with any family members who even considered the vaccine.

I thought when we'd moved on from covid that things would have improved but she's even worse now so I've totally distanced myself especially since she claimed that the medics that worked during covid were murderers killing their patients with Etizolam during the pandemic to up the number of deaths for the government. That's when I basically cut her off.

She's one of these people who always thinks she's right despite being of fairly substandard intelligence.

Lafufufu · 13/07/2025 15:22

😲😲😲
I’m not sure why but these stats really surprise me… I supposed I just always assumed it’s white MC crunchy mums with kids called things like Tiberius and Amelia who don’t bother to vaccinate

every day is a school day…

Moederbuffly · 13/07/2025 15:19

Sorry, not read the full thread... I was born before the vaccines were widely available and had measles and German measles as a child and remember being very ill. I caught mumps in early pregnancy as a young adult, the virus affected the development of my babies brain, years later, I'm providing full on 24/7 care to a profoundly disabled adult, dual sensory impaired, under 3 months developmentally, medically fragile etc... So to those of you deciding not to vaccinate your children, that's your choice,but it may not be now that you see the consequences of your actions.

Dinkytoy · 13/07/2025 15:18

TheWisePlumDuck · 13/07/2025 14:10

Is there any data of the ethnicity of the children who aren't vaccinated?

It seems to be people with English as a second language missing their babies vaccination appointments in this area.

Yes there's loads of data. It differs throughout the UK though. In England, which has higher levels of multiculturalism and immigration vaccine uptake ranges from 90% in children born to white British mothers and reduces to 61% in children born to black mothers, with all children to born to those in minority groups having much lower levels of vaccine uptake..
It's not quite a simple as tik tock videos and hippies not vaccinating their DC.
As our demographics change we are losing our herd immunity.
Uptake in Scotland is much higher overall, near the 95% needed. They have much lower levels of immigration/multiculturalism though and reduced uptake is generally down to poverty, those DC living in poverty are 10% less likely to be vaccinated.

TheWisePlumDuck · 13/07/2025 15:06

Thank you, this pretty much reflects my personal experience too.

titchy · 13/07/2025 15:05

Alpacahacker · 13/07/2025 14:03

If you google it there are several clinics offering it as a single vaccine 🤷‍♀️

Not mumps.

menopausalfart · 13/07/2025 15:01

I had the measles a week after my first birthday. My Mother said I nearly died, I was very fortunate. I would never intentionally put my children through that.

steff13 · 13/07/2025 14:54

Alltheyellowbirds · 13/07/2025 09:17

That man has so much to answer for when he meets St Peter at the pearly gates. He seems to have become a celebrity in America, does speaking tours and such. No-one there seems to have any idea that his “research” was discredited to the point of him actually being struck off.

Where is he on tour in the US?

OurMavis · 13/07/2025 14:54

Lafufufu · 13/07/2025 14:29

I'd be so interested to see interviews with the parents of these children...

Do they have regrets?
do they wish they had vacinated their kids?
are they doubling down on vaccines all being a big pharma conspiracy for bill gates to put chips in us?
What is going on in their brains?

I am yet to be made aware of any campaigners who are in the "i was antivaxer but then my child died..." camp but thry must exist

I imagine sunk cost fallacy kicks in.

BiggestCoat · 13/07/2025 14:52

@BoredZelda I haven't described it - that's the point. However you not believing something doesn't make it untrue - a lesson many should heed!

Annoyeddd · 13/07/2025 14:46

TheWisePlumDuck · 13/07/2025 14:10

Is there any data of the ethnicity of the children who aren't vaccinated?

It seems to be people with English as a second language missing their babies vaccination appointments in this area.

Where I worked it was the children whose families originated from other countries especially Indian subcontinent and much of Africa who had the highest vaccine uptake

Needlenardlenoo · 13/07/2025 14:37

Poverty rates have gone right up as these vaccination rates have gone down. I had a quick look at the research earlier and there's a clear association with deprivation.

There could well be some (let's face it, mums) who were more focused on food and housing, safety...

Maybe a well advertised catch up campaign rolled out through food banks.

Please don't jump all over me if this already exists!

Kirbert2 · 13/07/2025 14:36

Skippydoodle · 13/07/2025 13:54

Everyone should have free choice. If you & your kids are vaccinated then it’s no skin off your nose, why get in such a knicker twist about something that absolutely won’t affect you - because you are vaccinated.

My child had cancer and during chemotherapy had no immune system until he could be revaccinated.

It absolutely does affect some people.

PermanentTemporary · 13/07/2025 14:35

I just listened to the excellent podcast on BBC sounds about the tragic death from untreated cancer of the young woman whose mother was that nurse who was always on a megaphone about Covid and now makes a living selling shitty health nonsense online. I mean, Wakefield was a genuine doctor before he was struck off. There are both misguided and wrong people in every profession.

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