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Parents choosing not to vaccinate their children

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MidnightPatrol · 13/07/2025 08:39

A child has died in Liverpool as part of an outbreak of measles. 17 are currently hospitalised with it in the city, as part of a wider outbreak.

73% of children in Liverpool are vaccinated against measles - vs an England average of 84%.

A rate of 95% immunisation is required for herd immunity. No child in the UK needs to be getting measles - we can vaccinate against it.

In Liverpool, there is a risk of a widespread measles outbreak due to this low rate of immunisation - it is very infectious, so the risk to the population is significant.

If you are a parent that doesn’t get your child vaccinated, why?

Should the government not be using further incentives to encourage people to take up vaccination - are a third of Liverpudlians really against vaccinating their children?

Should non-vaccinated children be limited from accessing nursery or schools (as in other countries)?

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beebee25 · 15/07/2025 19:12

I think anyone who doesn't vaccinate their children should not be entitled to NHS support if their child has issues from this decision

beebee25 · 15/07/2025 19:08

They are ignorant beyond belief. I had a friend when my son was small who was anti vax and said that if her kids had measles she would treat them homeopathically. I know 100% if her kids had measles she would expect the NHS to sort it out. Beyond annoying uniformed people who jump on a bandwagon

sleepwouldbenice · 15/07/2025 19:04

Petitchat · 15/07/2025 07:22

So Liverpudlians think people who have a different opinion to others are idiots?

Okay.......

That's not what was said
You see you are coming across as someone completely blinkered, rather than someone who wants to have a wider discussion

sleepwouldbenice · 15/07/2025 19:02

Petitchat · 15/07/2025 07:05

Maybe that's because I personally know vaccine damaged people. That must make a difference to one's mindset surely?

Of course you will be very conscious of the problems that vaccines can cause. And I support that this needs to be talked about, fears discussed etc
But the evidence, and statistics simply mean that the need to vaccinate is overwhelming the right course of action

CurlyKoalie · 15/07/2025 17:53

fireplaceember · 13/07/2025 13:17

In fact here you go, first few comments and posts when I searched measles

I am so sick of hearing about the measles out break!! There is measles EVERY year around the first quarter of the year!! And guess what?!? These kids contracting it, 💉 or not, are getting the real antibodies needed to be forever immune. Measles is not a deadly illness by itself. It’s a vitamin A deficiency and can be resolved fairly quickly when vitamins A and C are administered to help the body recover.
The media is being paid to bring huge attention to the cases and cause mass hysteria. Please stop the madness, do not feed into it.

that is correct! The antibodies that are created from measles can in fact fight cancer cells. The problem is it has to be a true strain of measles and not the fabricated strain that comes from 💉

For my non-vaxing friends - if you’re feeling fear mongered by the unfortunate “measles” death that gave absolutely 0 info aside from being unvaccinated.. go read the comments in the link below. & then also, remember this. Vaxxed children 100% can and will likely contract measles. The unvaxxed didn’t bring this “outbreak.” We have plenty of resources and a massive community of people to help tackles this together and plenty of doctors and nurses that back and support not vaxxing. 🫶🏻

Measles is one of the contagious human diseases,it has been around decades and we all survived it,why the sudden scare mongering

Here we go again. Poison pushing

Never heard anybody refer to measles as a vitamin deficiency. What a load of bo**ocks.
Measles is caused by a virus. You can't "cure it " or "reduce it's effects," with multi vitamins. You have to vaccinated against it or be prepared to suffer the consequences of catching the disease.
Historically, ports such as Liverpool have often been the entry point for disease in the UK.That still can't be avoided as many countries can't afford free vaccinations for their citizens, disease is more common in these places and travel is quite commonplace. Mass vaccination provides a buffer against the spread of disease and protects the minority who medically cannot have the vaccine.
I remember my mother who was a nurse from the 50's to the 80's ( not far from Liverpool coincidentally) telling me that nobody would be anti- Vax if they had nursed babies suffering the complications of measles, polio or diphtheria.
Too many little white coffins summed up her feelings.
She viewed it as the actions of a responsible parent/citizen to get your children vaccinated. The majority of parents in Liverpool and elsewhere do vaccinate their children and so probably feel the same duty of care.

SemperIdem · 15/07/2025 17:03

With the exception of parents whose children cannot be vaccinated for medical reasons, I have absolutely no respect parents who do not vaccinate.I don’t care what people’s “personal reasons” for not vaccinating may be, religious or otherwise. They’re not good enough reasons.

No, vaccines are not risk free and vaccine damage can and does happen. It is extremely rare, but it is real. But you know what else is real? That children can die of the diseases the vaccines protect against. Not only can die, they do die, and historically did so in vast numbers.

Vaccines do not pose a greater risk than the diseases they’re designed to protect against.

Kchs232 · 15/07/2025 16:55

HumphreyCushionintheHouse · 15/07/2025 01:12

Here in the US you have to show proof of vaccinations to be allowed to attend preschool and school.

Really? How much longer do you think that will be a requirement given the current government?

Kchs232 · 15/07/2025 16:53

It's terrible that innocent child will die because parents are choosing not to vaccinate. But it is their choice, and they will have to live with the consequences of their decisions. Unfortunately some innocent parents will also have to live with the consequences of these decisions.

We cannot force parents to vaccinate, but I think it being a mandatory requirement for nursery/school places is a good start.

titchy · 15/07/2025 16:04

Petitchat · 15/07/2025 07:22

So Liverpudlians think people who have a different opinion to others are idiots?

Okay.......

Anyone who ignores the overwhelming evidence that vaccines are far safer than letting your kid get diseased is an idiot yes.

Parker231 · 15/07/2025 07:53

Petitchat · 15/07/2025 07:05

Maybe that's because I personally know vaccine damaged people. That must make a difference to one's mindset surely?

Do you accept the statistics as to how safe vaccines are?

HerVagestyTheQueef · 15/07/2025 07:42

Petitchat · 15/07/2025 07:22

So Liverpudlians think people who have a different opinion to others are idiots?

Okay.......

No they don't.
The idiocy is in risking your child's life instead of vaccinating against a deadly disease.

Are you aware a child has just died of measles and others are very ill?

FortheloveofCheesus · 15/07/2025 07:40

I think there are a lot of people who have this sensible concern

If it was a valid concern, the nhs would not give the injections the way they do. There is research that goes into the way vaccines are given and combined, and its about maximising getting them into babies/children in a timely way. Feeling unwell after is not a reason not to vaccinate against a disease that kills.

If you really do feel you want to have single vaccines - pay and have them. You can do so via private doctors.

Petitchat · 15/07/2025 07:22

Livpool · 14/07/2025 22:57

I’m in Liverpool and completely agree - these parents are idiots

So Liverpudlians think people who have a different opinion to others are idiots?

Okay.......

FishersGate · 15/07/2025 07:16

Petitchat · 15/07/2025 07:05

Maybe that's because I personally know vaccine damaged people. That must make a difference to one's mindset surely?

Your ignoring plain statistics and science. The overwhelming majority of vaccinations do not cause serious illness. Balance that against the now influx of very poorly children from very presentable illnesses. I guess you go through life drug free? Every drug has serious extremely rare side effects. You haven't stated what vaccines they received either which is interesting just a blanket statement

Petitchat · 15/07/2025 07:05

sleepwouldbenice · 15/07/2025 00:42

@Petitchat sick of you ignoring simple maths and refusing to consider a wider picture. Funny how you don’t respond to more detailed questions.
You act as though everyone has said vaccines never cause harm or cause issues, when everyone has talked about a wider balance
you are very selective in your mindset

Maybe that's because I personally know vaccine damaged people. That must make a difference to one's mindset surely?

HumphreyCushionintheHouse · 15/07/2025 01:12

Here in the US you have to show proof of vaccinations to be allowed to attend preschool and school.

Devianinc · 15/07/2025 00:43

I think they should have a minimum 15 day jail sentence and a 5000 dollar fine for vaccine refusal and their kids should not be allowed into public schools or anywhere really. They have no right to put other autoimmune people at risk bc of their fake science.

sleepwouldbenice · 15/07/2025 00:42

@Petitchat sick of you ignoring simple maths and refusing to consider a wider picture. Funny how you don’t respond to more detailed questions.
You act as though everyone has said vaccines never cause harm or cause issues, when everyone has talked about a wider balance
you are very selective in your mindset

sleepwouldbenice · 15/07/2025 00:39

Here we are…. Well that’s ok then. Let’s just blame someone else instead of taking responsibility ourselves then

Jumpingthruhoops · 15/07/2025 00:02

SheepInMyShed · 13/07/2025 09:05

Covid vaccine and the way people were treated around it has increased anti vax feelings, and it’s quite obvious why.

Those expressing concern over the vaccine were treated badly, shut down, called idiots and worse, the Covid board here was awful for it. The discussion was completely shut down. Any topic, particularly those involving our own health, should be open to discussion. The shutdown, insults and accusations only go to strengthen people’s feelings that they are being lied to, or something is being hidden to suit some agenda. The obvious psychological tactics used by the government around all this only made this worse.

See also - the current rise of anti immigration that correlates to discussion of problems within the sphere of immigration (illegal immigrants, Pakistani rape gangs) being shut down and calling anyone racist bigots for suggesting there’s a problem. This has only made perceived racism worse.

I’m not an anti vaxxer, but there needs to be a balance here. If we want to reach certain vaccination targets then we need to find a way to reach those who stopped trusting them, whether it was Andrew Wakefield or Covid. Find a way to explain the science in layman’s terms, show the research results. Stop calling people fucking idiots and murderers, you’re never going to increase vaccination rates that way.

100 per cent this! 👏👏

Many people said at the time that the 'stance' during Covid would lead to some parents becoming hugely sceptical of traditional vaccines. Those commentators too were shut down and told they were being ridiculous.

Yet, here we are...

HerVagestyTheQueef · 14/07/2025 23:44

Petitchat · 14/07/2025 21:52

Not much of a consolation if it's YOUR child who is permanently brain damaged?

But anyone who wants their children to be at risk of becoming collateral damage, go ahead.

Edited

I despair. Are you wilfully misunderstanding?
An unvaccinated child has just DIED from measles.

The instances of damage from vaccines is vanishingly rare. If we all stop vaccinating then actual deaths from measles will be HIGH. In Pre-vaccination times there were many child deaths and lifelong complications from measles.
People died. Children died. Without vaccination this could happen again.

Petitchat · 14/07/2025 23:06

Livpool · 14/07/2025 22:57

I’m in Liverpool and completely agree - these parents are idiots

Which ones?
The parents who risk their kids having permanent brain damage from vaccines?

I have seen this for myself. It's not a fallacy.

Livpool · 14/07/2025 22:57

I’m in Liverpool and completely agree - these parents are idiots

Petitchat · 14/07/2025 22:34

Coolasfeck · 14/07/2025 22:03

Hard disagree. Sick of this crap about trying to protect the feelings of people spouting stupidity.

Ditto....

Sick of this crap about people showing no empathy to vaccine damaged children.

sleepwouldbenice · 14/07/2025 22:06

Petitchat · 14/07/2025 21:21

I personally know a child and an adult with permanent vaccine damage.
Brain damage and physical.

That's not the media scaring, is it?

Both parents wish they hadn't allowed vaccines, obviously.

Every ill effect or death, either with or without a vaccine is of course a tragedy
But it's about statistics and what is more likely to happen.
And then on top of that what you can contribute to, in wider society ( eg measles outbreak)
If you choose not to believe statistics, and put others at risk, you will be despised, and ridiculed

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