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ragandbonewoman · 12/07/2025 18:26

That is it really. I suppose I’m curious as to whether people agree or disagree with me. This follows a conversation I’ve just had with a friend where we disagreed on this point, but it’s something I’ve really noticed as things (life, not just food) have become more expensive. Lots and lots of people complaining that food is “so expensive” We are actually in the fortunate position of being able to spend less than the majority of the rest of the world (relative to our income) to follow a healthy diet.

Yes food has gone up. But (and I admit this is an anecdotal observation) food waste is prolific. I think we need to change our outlook. We should be prepared to pay more, especially for meat, to ensure that suppliers, farmers, animal welfare, are all getting a fair deal. I’ve always found it ridiculous that you can buy a whole chicken for £5! How?! And then people readily admit they throw half of it away.

Is this unreasonable? Food is important. People on the absolute breadline might have little choice, but for those that can take a little slack from elsewhere, they should. And stop complaining that you can’t get a tin of beans for 9p anymore! Stop throwing food in the bin because you feel like eating something else. Or AIBU?

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Mygotupandgowent · 22/08/2025 15:18

TeenLifeMum · 12/07/2025 19:12

I can’t understand what that even means? Supermarkets sell ingredients… are we supposed to grow our own veg 🤔

I dont understand either. Are there special shops for people who can cook? I admit i dont much like supermarkets but dont have much choice now as i dont drive .
I looked after a friends son yesterday. Hes only 9 but ate as much as me! How people manage in school holidays with multiple children to feed is beyond me.

Notreallyme27 · 22/08/2025 11:38

Food is by far our biggest monthly expense (though we are mortgage free).

adlitem · 20/08/2025 13:45

How do you define expensive then op? Curious?

For us it's our second highest monthly outgoing after our mortgage. IT's gone up significantly in the last few years. It's cheaper in the UK than some other countries but in those countries wages are generally also a lot higher or taxes are lower.

BunnyLake · 20/08/2025 13:43

Co op is bloody expensive. I wish our local one would turn into a Lidl.

I know it’s not for main shopping but it’s an expensive way to top up.

madameimadam · 20/08/2025 13:24

I have a family of 4 to feed including 2 teenagers who are constantly hungry.
We shop at Aldi / Lidl. We try to have a few days meat-free per week. I batch cook at lot.

Im horrified to realise that I pay more for food per month than on my mortgage. That does include other things like toilet roll, etc but even so!! I used to be able to get a weekly shop for us all well under £100 per week but those days are long gone.

Food prices are rising on a weekly basis I’ve noticed.

BunnyLake · 20/08/2025 13:16

I am soon to be an empty nester and I’m going to be setting myself the task of spending £40 per week on food. I’ve cancelled my Tesco saver DD and will do all my food shopping in Lidl/Aldi.

5128gap · 20/08/2025 09:14

Food is much more expensive than it was, as are most things. People tend to comment more on the cost increase in food because they encounter it on a regular and visible basis. Some people on tight budgets are struggling to eat properly and healthily. They don't have the luxury of being 'prepared to pay more', as they don't have any more.
I think preaching to people about paying more for meat is particularly unreasonable.
If people can't afford to eat healthily, and you're the sort of busy body who wants to tell them how they should do better, the advice should surely be to reduce or cut out meat altogether, and focus on high quality plant foods which give a lot more value for money and health.

Sidneytogo · 20/08/2025 09:06

I take it your a farmer.

Sidneytogo · 20/08/2025 09:03

So your a farmer is that it.

caringcarer · 16/07/2025 20:47

Food can be cheap but quality food is expensive. I've got a foster son who has lived with me for about 5 months. When he first came he wanted a lot of carbs and sugar. Now he's eating and enjoying different proteins like salmon, chicken, steak and tuna steaks, lots of different fruits he had not had before and vegetables and salads as well as a portion of carbs each day. He loves berries and they cost a lot but he never got them before and now he can't eat enough. The loads of toast, chocolate spread, jam, bread and spread and pasta with just tomato sauce he used to eat was probably very cheap but not very nutritional.

ShittyHottie · 16/07/2025 20:39

Glow23 · 16/07/2025 20:05

Hi could you share more about lunchbox cake please?

It's a basic vegan sponge batter (cheap as no eggs or butter) with added fruit - usually either sliced apples or plums at the bottom of the tin, or frozen raspberries or blueberries with some lemon zest mixed in to the batter. Baked in a square tin to make it cut into lunchbox sized pieces. Wrap each piece in greaseproof paper and ta dahhh, lunchbox cake.

Glow23 · 16/07/2025 20:05

ShittyHottie · 12/07/2025 18:37

PS we have more money now and eat fancier stuff when we feel like it, but still have cheap meals regularly! Every week there's a soup night and a jacket potato night, I still make lunchbox cake on a Sunday (usually a low sugar fruit upside down cake).

Hi could you share more about lunchbox cake please?

MibsXX · 15/07/2025 08:05

RightOrAMeringue · 14/07/2025 15:59

Possibly irrelevant in terms of what the CMA found, but not irrelevant in general…actually one of the most relevant factors in the perception of expensive groceries.

https://www.which.co.uk/news/article/poorest-hit-hardest-by-inflation-as-budget-groceries-soar-in-price-awGN66n1RaHz

I was quite ashamed that, until I had this pointed out to me, I was a bit like…what’s a 15% hike on something I could already afford, and will keep on affording? You need to pay a decent price for decent food, animal welfare, etc etc etc.

I’d totally overlooked that the things I buy are already towards the upper end of the price scale, and so an increase of a couple of quid makes up a smaller proportion of the price I was already paying, and so less pain felt. If it does become a bit pricey or uncomfortable, I can downshift to a less expensive line. There’s wiggle room.

IF, however, you are already buying the budget ranges, any price increase is likely to constitute a bigger proportional increase in price…21% in this article from 2023…goodness knows what it sits at now. I’m not sure any of us could really comfortably absorb that significant an increase in our grocery bills…and that’s if if we have other areas we could sacrifice, like 4 holidays a year, 2 cars, Sky, what-have-you.

Now imagine you’re in a position where every pound needs to be budgeted for. The £50/week you were spending was what you had. Things increasing to £60/week just isn’t possible….but there’s literally nowhere to go. You’re buying the cheapest range. What do you do?

Budget ranges increasing in price at a greater rate, even just proportionally, than others is far from irrelevant.

Ok from one of those poor folk, I buy the same things through neccessity, and over half the items I get ( baked beans, tinned chick peas, the cheapest bags broken rice etc) have more than doubled in price.And the shrinkflation is becomng a joke, so many things have a third less food in them for double the price. I shop roughly every 6 to 8 weeks as I have to factor in the bus trip and thats not cheap, and every time I shop prices go up and up and up. There are no 2nd car, 4 holidays, tv subs to cut down on for wiggle room so we skip meals. An online friend who only shops at M & S reported that most of her shop has stayed the same price.

Booboomylove · 14/07/2025 23:26

Brokenforsummer · 12/07/2025 18:29

How many people are you shopping for? Are you have your daily 8 veg and fruit, 3 portions of calcium and weekly 30 different whole foods, fish twice a week and one of which is oily?

Food can be cheap but a good diet isn’t cheap. Especially if you have my children’s tastes!

Are you in the UK? It's 5 a day here love (because most of us can't even manage 3) and the 30 different foods is not part of the UK food model. The UK food model is called the Eatwell Guide.

Meadowfinch · 14/07/2025 23:19

Sadworld23 · 14/07/2025 23:09

Absolutely. Ime food prices may be cheaper than other countries, but if what you've always eaten has consistently been going up on price, food shopping seems very expensive. For example, soft cheese spread was 49p pre covid, is now £1+

I've never been a fan of cheap bread but a nicer loaf is £3 v about £1.80 in 2021.

So food is expensive compared to previous years, even if it's cheaper in UK compared to other regions.

I've given up on shop bread altogether. Waitress no longer seem to stock Heyford, and the only two bakeries in my town charge £4.50 for a large wholemeal loaf. Since January I buy a 16kg sack of wholemeal flour from a local mill and make my own, early every Sunday morning.

It's delicious, non-upf and works out about £1 for an 800gm loaf.

Sadworld23 · 14/07/2025 23:09

Snorlaxo · 12/07/2025 18:55

Food inflation has been crazy since 2020.

Food may have been cheap compared to other countries but wages have been stagnant and costs like rent/mortgage, council tax and utilities have risen loads so people can’t absorb this extra cost of food.

Absolutely. Ime food prices may be cheaper than other countries, but if what you've always eaten has consistently been going up on price, food shopping seems very expensive. For example, soft cheese spread was 49p pre covid, is now £1+

I've never been a fan of cheap bread but a nicer loaf is £3 v about £1.80 in 2021.

So food is expensive compared to previous years, even if it's cheaper in UK compared to other regions.

FullOfLemons · 14/07/2025 18:26

@Absolutely45

No idea where you get the 30% number from. Which specific profit numbers are you looking at ? A link would be helpful.

I am not here to either explain supermarket pricing strategy or defend it

However in terms of the CMA and their findings with respect to supermarket profitability it seems they are right. You haven’t disputed either the logic or the numbers in their report. And it seems neither did any of the consumer groups you were thinking of.

I do share your low opinion of our regulators (including the CMA) and agree it will get worse as their remit is expanded to include growth, however thats not what this thread is about.

Absolutely45 · 14/07/2025 16:24

@FullOfLemons
Tesco increasing profits by 30% in 23/24 but not profiteering - ok.

So why is price increases aimed at what we buy the most of? which you agree is happening.

As i said, regulators have been giving clean bills of health to the industries they regulate for many years.

Public believe the supermarkets profiteer, thats important too.

It was the CMA's Veterinary report that was met with disapproval by consumer groups, apologises.

Once again, a regulatory that backs the industry investigated... profits come first & it'll only get worse as Labour have ordered the regulators to promote growth first.

RightOrAMeringue · 14/07/2025 15:59

FullOfLemons · 14/07/2025 13:17

You are correct to say lower priced goods e.g. value ranges have seen some of the highest price increases.

However this is irrelevant.

Overall profit margins are low as explained in the CMA report, which they supported with fact based evidence.

Do you disagree with the CMA findings on profit margins ?

Are you able to name the consumer organisations that disagreed ?

No, I thought not

Possibly irrelevant in terms of what the CMA found, but not irrelevant in general…actually one of the most relevant factors in the perception of expensive groceries.

https://www.which.co.uk/news/article/poorest-hit-hardest-by-inflation-as-budget-groceries-soar-in-price-awGN66n1RaHz

I was quite ashamed that, until I had this pointed out to me, I was a bit like…what’s a 15% hike on something I could already afford, and will keep on affording? You need to pay a decent price for decent food, animal welfare, etc etc etc.

I’d totally overlooked that the things I buy are already towards the upper end of the price scale, and so an increase of a couple of quid makes up a smaller proportion of the price I was already paying, and so less pain felt. If it does become a bit pricey or uncomfortable, I can downshift to a less expensive line. There’s wiggle room.

IF, however, you are already buying the budget ranges, any price increase is likely to constitute a bigger proportional increase in price…21% in this article from 2023…goodness knows what it sits at now. I’m not sure any of us could really comfortably absorb that significant an increase in our grocery bills…and that’s if if we have other areas we could sacrifice, like 4 holidays a year, 2 cars, Sky, what-have-you.

Now imagine you’re in a position where every pound needs to be budgeted for. The £50/week you were spending was what you had. Things increasing to £60/week just isn’t possible….but there’s literally nowhere to go. You’re buying the cheapest range. What do you do?

Budget ranges increasing in price at a greater rate, even just proportionally, than others is far from irrelevant.

Poorest hit hardest by inflation as budget groceries soar in price - Which?

The Which? supermarket food and drink inflation tracker shows the cheapest ranges are rising fastest in price

https://www.which.co.uk/news/article/poorest-hit-hardest-by-inflation-as-budget-groceries-soar-in-price-awGN66n1RaHz

Boomer55 · 14/07/2025 14:59

ragandbonewoman · 12/07/2025 18:26

That is it really. I suppose I’m curious as to whether people agree or disagree with me. This follows a conversation I’ve just had with a friend where we disagreed on this point, but it’s something I’ve really noticed as things (life, not just food) have become more expensive. Lots and lots of people complaining that food is “so expensive” We are actually in the fortunate position of being able to spend less than the majority of the rest of the world (relative to our income) to follow a healthy diet.

Yes food has gone up. But (and I admit this is an anecdotal observation) food waste is prolific. I think we need to change our outlook. We should be prepared to pay more, especially for meat, to ensure that suppliers, farmers, animal welfare, are all getting a fair deal. I’ve always found it ridiculous that you can buy a whole chicken for £5! How?! And then people readily admit they throw half of it away.

Is this unreasonable? Food is important. People on the absolute breadline might have little choice, but for those that can take a little slack from elsewhere, they should. And stop complaining that you can’t get a tin of beans for 9p anymore! Stop throwing food in the bin because you feel like eating something else. Or AIBU?

Not compared to the 1970’s it isn’t. 🤷‍♀️

FullOfLemons · 14/07/2025 13:17

Absolutely45 · 14/07/2025 10:53

Yes funny how all the regulators rarely find in favour of the consumer isn't it?

Which is what i said!

But the fact is, all the SM's have hiked prices on the cheaper food stuffs we have shifted too.

Consumer organisations disagree with the CMA.

Edited

You are correct to say lower priced goods e.g. value ranges have seen some of the highest price increases.

However this is irrelevant.

Overall profit margins are low as explained in the CMA report, which they supported with fact based evidence.

Do you disagree with the CMA findings on profit margins ?

Are you able to name the consumer organisations that disagreed ?

No, I thought not

T1mesAreHardForDreamers · 14/07/2025 13:07

MibsXX · 14/07/2025 12:19

Rationed to one small meal a day here and often I skip a day else there wouldn't be enough for the others I also need to feed, I try to do healthy meals, for instance we all fancied salad in this heat but even a small amount of fresh salad vegetables came to more than I have budgeted( left after rent/ct/bills ) for the week so no healthy salad for us!

I'm so sorry you are going through this, I really hope better days are ahead for you 🌻

T1mesAreHardForDreamers · 14/07/2025 13:04

auderesperare · 14/07/2025 08:33

And yet one of our biggest health issues is obesity and childhood obesity. I remember going to a cover a shareholders’ meeting in London in the late 1980s of one of the big food manufacturers for the newspaper I was writing for. They had just launched the first ready meals. I was given some to take away. I was v young. When I got home, I excitedly showed my husband- a farmer’s son and a doctor - and he said “no. We’re not eating these”. In retrospect I’m so grateful to him. We have always cooked from scratched. I’m amazed food manufacturers get away with the food they produce.

Obesity and poverty do sadly go hand in hand, and paradoxically obesity is often seen in people who can least afford food.

It's quite easy to see why - it's much cheaper to buy a massive bag of chips, sack of potatoes or bag of pasta and have it with some cheap processed meat than it is to buy multiple ingredients, especially when you factor in things like being time poor, not having good access to facilities to cook in, not having the energy (as in gas and electric) to afford cooking meals. The mental load of putting some frozen processed food in the oven at the end of a long day is so much less than meal planning and cooking from scratch, even for somebody who likes to cook and knows how to make meals.

You then introduce more complex issues that result from food insecurity, like for example struggling to budget properly and spending more on food (especially takeaways), because when you've been eating very poorly you often crave that treat and convenience when you do have money.

I remember when my kids were very little and I was struggling financially. I vividly remember choosing to get frozen chicken nuggets and pizzas from Iceland instead of getting potatoes, a whole chicken, and veg etc like I normally would, because I was on a prepayment meter for gas and electric, and knew that if I bought the ingredients to cook the meals I wanted to, I wouldn't have the money to cook them.

It costs a lot more to roast a chicken and even to boil raw potatoes and veg on the stove than it does to put the oven on once for 20 minutes. It's really fucking depressing having to make those decisions and I'm not well off now, but I will forever be humbled and grateful that at the moment, I at least have enough to comfortably pay my bills so I can cook meals. And I still struggle towards the end of the month.

InveterateWineDrinker · 14/07/2025 12:29

Emma8888 · 14/07/2025 09:17

Apologies, thought I had said. Canada. I think everything is technically weighed and sold in grams / kg but the bag of new potatoes is 454g so I just say 1lb! Loose veg is labeled in both per lb and per kg but the per lb price is always the largest number on the label (because it seems less!) It’s a confusing dual metric / imperial system - it’s 32 degrees C today but I cooked my supper at 350F. We buy litres of petrol but measure cooking oil in cups / spoons not ml.

I'm reminded of when Air Canada went metric in 1983. 22,000lbs of fuel was entered into the computer as 22,000kg and, somewhat inevitably, a Boeing 767 ran out of fuel somewhere over Manitoba.

InveterateWineDrinker · 14/07/2025 12:26

As a general rule I find in the UK that quality and wholesome food is very expensive, but highly processed crap is relatively cheap by global standards, although this masks a number of nuances.

I spend a lot of time in Portugal and do similar food shops in both places. I spend significantly less in Portugal even adjusting for average incomes in each country but that's because my diet is largely Portuguese - fresh fish, fresh seasonal fruit and vegetables, legumes etc. If I ate mostly frozen ready meals, tins, out of season produce, and processed breakfast cereals it would be a lot cheaper in the UK in absolute terms, and even more so relative to wages. To give one example I've used before - 500g of dried cannellini beans is £2 (€2.30) in Tesco, but only €1.05 in Intermarché in Portugal. But a 400g can of cooked beans is 49p (€0.57) here and €0.89 in Portugal.

By European standards the UK grocery market is actually quite competitive, which helps keep prices down compared to peers like the Netherlands or France. However, because our housing costs are much, much higher and we earn less because we're simply less productive the disposable income available a typical British family to spend on food is significantly less.

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