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To think he’s a bit much?

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SandyBeachBum · 12/07/2025 15:47

I’ve been messaging a man for a while and met him a couple of times. He’s nice enough, I think he’s a bit lonely. But if I don’t reply he’ll text and text and yesterday he said he was “having a panic attack” when I didn’t reply and when I opened WhatsApp I had 13 messages in 2 hours.

he says he “really likes me” and worries I don’t feel the same. This has really put me off to be honest. What do you think?

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AreolaGrande · 12/07/2025 15:51

What a fucking wetwipe.

Get rid.

Pancakeflipper · 12/07/2025 15:50

Sounds like they are investing into this relationship more than you want to. Making it unequal. The more you hold back, the more they will push. That would drive me potty.

I don't think this one is for you.

RainbowAndArrow · 12/07/2025 15:48

Id be giving that a swerve to be honest.

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