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Is this gift odd? (Light-hearted)

28 replies

Mummypie21 · 12/07/2025 07:45

I recently had a birthday. My colleagues were lovely and I received many gifts. One of my younger co-workers (he's in his 20s so around 10 years my junior) gave me a very cute medium-sized cuddly toy. I thought it was sweet. However, some of my friends have commented that it's an odd gift for a colleague of the opposite sex. My DH wasn't bothered and found it amusing. It is now being cuddled by my DS at night.

I am just wondering if it is a strange gift? For context, my colleague is a lovely guy and we're friendly i.e we have a laugh but there's absolutely nothing untoward.

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Katemax82 · 12/07/2025 07:55

Cuddly toys are fine. My 19 year old son collects them (loony tunes and garfield, he took sylvester and pepe le Peu plushies with him to hospital when he had an anaphylaxis shock recently) he would definitely buy a woman he barely knows a cuddly toy

Wishiwasperfect · 12/07/2025 07:54

Perhaps I'm being naive but I don't see what the problem is.

Blarn · 12/07/2025 07:51

Colleagues buying birthday gifts is a bit unusual unless you are good friends as well. Perhaps he had no idea what to buy you and settled with something completely dull and safe?