Please give me a sense check as I can't tell if I am being reasonable or if I need to give my head a wobble! Partner and DD (12) are both autistic. Partner and I have been together 3 years. I am possibly also autistic, am currently considering looking into referral for an assessment.
Last night DP put on a film, Back to the Future 2. I said oh this is DD's favourite, I'll ask her if she wants to come and watch it. DP said no she has to watch the 1st one first. I said she's watched both before,this is her favourite, I'll ask her if she wants to watch it. He said no let's watch something else, I replied Eh? What's the problem?? So he turned the TV off. I left the room and said, watch it on your own, you can bu**er off! (Not my finest moment). I spent the evening with the kids then went to bed and was asleep before he came up. He woke early and left for work early whilst I was in the bathroom, he never leaves without speaking to me. He got home from work and I had fell asleep on the sofa because it is boiling. I have avoided him all evening and am fuming and he hasn't come to talk to me but is being chatty with the kids, why exclude my DD when we were about to watch a film? I honestly don't understand but excluding her has made me so cross with him. Am I being ridiculous?