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This is it - climate change is really beginning to bite

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Wowwee1234 · 11/07/2025 16:29

We know the climate is changing and it is us. This particular heat wave feels like the next step up after a winter of devastating storms.

YABU - It's just too hot
YANBU - This is the taste of things to come.

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offtocalifornia · 12/07/2025 15:48

Pessimism is such a danger because people who don't realise their own power think it's pointless to change.

But there is so much that can be done - to pull out of the worst of the crisis, in time, and to help those who need help to adapt.

We can absolutely pull together and do this. I really believe in our collective power to make things better.

SerendipityJane · 12/07/2025 15:42

taxguru · 12/07/2025 14:15

Yup, the "movement" started in the 80s, but people were laughed at and ridiculed.

My DM started in the 60s, thank you very much. I grew up among books on self sufficiency, healthy eating, and a long exposure to recycling and (as I say) "saving the planet" as it was called then. Maybe this is why I have a very low threshold for todays eco bollocks.

Wowwee1234 · 12/07/2025 15:28

SerendipityJane · 12/07/2025 11:10

It's hard to comprehend the level of narcissism and idiocy that believes it is in anyway remotely possible to control the climate.

Imagine splitting a group of people on a desert island into two groups. One says: "Right, we need: shelter, water, food. Let's get cracking".

The other group says: "If we work hard to not have any fires, just sip from rockpools and wait for something to eat to drop past we'll be OK". Presumably before deciding to use leaves as currency.

That's a strawman that doesn't hold up.

The main issue is you are wilfully refusing to understand or think about how different molecules ('chemicals') work. The hole in the ozone layer was down to small numbers of deodorants and fridges using CFCs. It took some time to work out CFCs cause runaway reactions that destroy ozone. Insufficient ozone means higher uv, which we all know causes sunburn. We've changed things up to stop this and didn't think the svientists were wrong then.

You wouldn't want small amounts of additional nuclear radiation throughout the atmosphere, because you know that is deadly and causes cancer. We don't question that scientists understand nuclear physics.

So, yes, the addition of extra carbon dioxide, methane, and some other gases can change the entire atmosphere. We have for around 150 years been releasing large quantities which took millions of years to accumulate (fossil fuels). They sit in the higher atmosphere and trap in the heat radiating back from the earth.

There is no narcissim here. Or idiocy. Unless you think you know better than thousands of scientists?

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Boomer55 · 12/07/2025 15:27

Wowwee1234 · 11/07/2025 16:29

We know the climate is changing and it is us. This particular heat wave feels like the next step up after a winter of devastating storms.

YABU - It's just too hot
YANBU - This is the taste of things to come.

I remember this sort of weather decades ago. No need to panic.🤷‍♀️

WaryCrow · 12/07/2025 15:26

^ been doing most of that for decades. I’ve always done what I can, while being poor and so not having much control over energy supplies (beyond picking one - I still remember my joy when I actually got that option from a landlord and went for a green option before they were compulsory).

It is the well off who can afford SUVs and foreign holidays who have done the most damage and are continuing to do so despite having the most power over choices. Sort yourselves out! And be told!

Ihateboris · 12/07/2025 15:19

Wowwee1234 · 12/07/2025 15:13

Yes I do think we are tipping further and furthet dangerous feedback loops.

What we can do is both minimal and maximal. Think of it as each of us as stars in a night sky. The more stars there are, the less dark the night. And we can help more and more people to shine.

Practically, we need to ditch the nonsense that just recycling is our bit for the climate / environment done.

Everyone has their pet things to do, so pick a few and then add more as you get comfortable. Long list coming up of the things I have / am doing but this is 25 years of gradual additions....

Second hand clothes / vinted
Reduce overall consumption e.g reusing wrapping paper, giving vouchers or cash not items, donating to charities at Christmas, buying chocolate bars not eggs at easter (less wrapping, better value)
Stopped at 2 children
Not flying for leisure
Holidaying in the uk
Holidaying by train
Wildlife garden
Solar panels (electric) (via low cost loan)
Solar thermal (hot water)
Draft insulation
Cavity wall insulation
Local organic veg box (1/2 weekly shop, £20)
Electric vehicle (leased through work)
Helped various community wind power projects
Written to MP
Written to United Nations
Organised non violent denomstrations
Voted with my beliefs
Plant based washing up liquid and detergent
Plant based toiletries
Fairtrade tea / coffee
Eating seasonally
Vegetarian diet (vegan is a too big stretch for me)
Fabric bags
Washing clothes at 30 or 40°c
Wood pellet boiler (using sustainable pellets)
Cycling and walking where I can
No pets
Upcycling wood into furniture
Reusable bottles, cups
Staying fit and healthy (NHS is a huge consumer of energy)
Terry nappies - lasted two kids from birth to toddler, now rags
Home compost

I am far from perfect btw! Just showing things can be done by all of us with some changes.

Thank you, that is a brilliant post. I don't and won't be having children, I don’t fly anywhere, and try my best to recycle. Never ever buy new clothes etc (always charity shops and Vinted), and don't buy the shite from Shein, Temu etc, so I'm doing my bit!

anyzee · 12/07/2025 15:19

We are currently experiencing the not uncommon feature of the Azores High, along with other countries in its path.

Nothing unusual about it. Its been around since Adam was a boy.

Wowwee1234 · 12/07/2025 15:13

Ihateboris · 12/07/2025 13:56

Do you think we have come to the point of no return? If so, is there any point in aiming for net zero? I'm not being graduate, just genuinely interested and wondering what I can do personally.

Yes I do think we are tipping further and furthet dangerous feedback loops.

What we can do is both minimal and maximal. Think of it as each of us as stars in a night sky. The more stars there are, the less dark the night. And we can help more and more people to shine.

Practically, we need to ditch the nonsense that just recycling is our bit for the climate / environment done.

Everyone has their pet things to do, so pick a few and then add more as you get comfortable. Long list coming up of the things I have / am doing but this is 25 years of gradual additions....

Second hand clothes / vinted
Reduce overall consumption e.g reusing wrapping paper, giving vouchers or cash not items, donating to charities at Christmas, buying chocolate bars not eggs at easter (less wrapping, better value)
Stopped at 2 children
Not flying for leisure
Holidaying in the uk
Holidaying by train
Wildlife garden
Solar panels (electric) (via low cost loan)
Solar thermal (hot water)
Draft insulation
Cavity wall insulation
Local organic veg box (1/2 weekly shop, £20)
Electric vehicle (leased through work)
Helped various community wind power projects
Written to MP
Written to United Nations
Organised non violent denomstrations
Voted with my beliefs
Plant based washing up liquid and detergent
Plant based toiletries
Fairtrade tea / coffee
Eating seasonally
Vegetarian diet (vegan is a too big stretch for me)
Fabric bags
Washing clothes at 30 or 40°c
Wood pellet boiler (using sustainable pellets)
Cycling and walking where I can
No pets
Upcycling wood into furniture
Reusable bottles, cups
Staying fit and healthy (NHS is a huge consumer of energy)
Terry nappies - lasted two kids from birth to toddler, now rags
Home compost

I am far from perfect btw! Just showing things can be done by all of us with some changes.

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WaryCrow · 12/07/2025 15:09

Speaking of climatic changes impacts on humans, try something closer to home.
The ancient temple culture of Malta may well have collapsed due to that 4.2 ky event. It may also have driven the bell beaker folk to spread widely across Europe (and send their culture everywhere they didn’t physically go). They’re likely the reason we have Indo-European languages everywhere today.

JenniferBooth · 12/07/2025 15:06

VaccineSticker · 11/07/2025 23:17

Ironically those windows and doors that are supposed to be there for your safety are also the detriment to your own health in highly dangerous temperatures like today. It reached 34 degrees outdoors in the shade here. Indoors was worse. This country is not designed for extreme heat.

something else that defeats the object is when the walls get hot. The walls that have light switches and plug sockets attatched to them.

WaryCrow · 12/07/2025 14:43

mylovedoesitgood · 12/07/2025 08:49

I hadn’t thought before about climate refugees. How the fuck will we able to financially support them when AI by then will already have taken most of our jobs?

Climate refugees are already on the move.

It’s worth remembering that AI is driving vast energy use and water use - doubling Googles environmental footprint. This is technology that we cannot afford, and I question its value added anyway.

We could not have had a worse concatenation of events with tech and economic global ideologies at the same time. We need to pull back on the economic ideologies. But yes, too many people can’t think won’t think and just want the convenience of being told what to do by AI. I despair.

PeloMom · 12/07/2025 14:32

HelpMeGetThrough · 11/07/2025 17:08

And it’s bloody lovely.

Especially if you moved with the times and installed air conditioning

WasThatACorner · 12/07/2025 14:31

ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera · 11/07/2025 18:31

I don't think it helps to be too dramatic about these things. Climate change is inevitable - it will require our children to have a stoic outlook and the ability to adapt. It won't be helped by being raised by chicken littles who induce anxiety by descending into misery on a lovely day.

You think their stoicism will be boosted by looking back and knowing we knowingly ignored the experts in pursuit of profits and a tan?

Does it make you feel better to make fun of people who are making changes in their own lives to try to slow this down? At least you'll never know the sky is falling if you keep your head buried in the sand.

JennyShaw · 12/07/2025 14:26

PencilsInSpace · 12/07/2025 10:28

You can carry on living as if those things will make a difference. That is one way of living your life as if life will continue and it's not a bad way.

Maybe not berating people for being selfish and uneducated though. That never won anyone over anyway, you'll just piss people off and make yourself cross.

I'm not sure what you're trying to say here. Are you saying that reducing emissions of CO2 and methane won't make a difference to the increase in temperatures?

I'm not trying to 'win over' selfish and uneducated people. They won't be won over, they need to be stopped from what they are doing. Selfish people are going to be pissed off because they don't care about the rest of us. They want to continue doing what they are used to doing. And if I 'make myself cross' then that would be a small price to pay for restricting emissions and giving future generations a better future.

We berate selfish people all the time. They get pissed off. They are forced to change and society benefits.

Ihateboris · 12/07/2025 14:19

Ihateboris · 12/07/2025 13:56

Do you think we have come to the point of no return? If so, is there any point in aiming for net zero? I'm not being graduate, just genuinely interested and wondering what I can do personally.

Goady..not graduate 😁

taxguru · 12/07/2025 14:15

SerendipityJane · 12/07/2025 13:44

50 years ago, my DM was trying to do her best to save the planet.

Yup, the "movement" started in the 80s, but people were laughed at and ridiculed.

taxguru · 12/07/2025 14:14

Finteq · 12/07/2025 11:03

One of the most selfish articles I ever read was by a journalist over 60 I think.

He was someone who had flown all over the world multiple times a month. Had been to multiple countries etc etc.

But now he had come to his senses.

And he was lamenting the state of the world. Judging people who want to go one maybe 1-2 holidays a year. How people fly too much and he was going to stop using aeroplanes, get ris of his passport and everyone should do the same- or else climate change.

I thought- OK for him to say that at his age when he's pretty much seen most of the world isn't it.

Yup, typically "oldie" pulling up the draw bridge behind them! It was OK for them to "enjoy" things, but not for the next generations! Sheer hypocrisy!

JennyShaw · 12/07/2025 14:06

SerendipityJane · 12/07/2025 11:00

Climate has always changed but it doesn't happen at random.

<pedant alert>But it is chaotic.

Weather is chaotic. Climate isn't. Unless you're talking about positive feedback loops. We don't know if and when they will happen but they can be avoided by limiting the amount of CO2 and methane emitted.

Ihateboris · 12/07/2025 13:56

Do you think we have come to the point of no return? If so, is there any point in aiming for net zero? I'm not being graduate, just genuinely interested and wondering what I can do personally.

UmbrellaEllaEllaElla · 12/07/2025 13:54

I have no idea but I do know at this point it's irreversible and the climate in one way or another has always changed. We were warned for a long time. We just have to manage with it as best we can now.

SerendipityJane · 12/07/2025 13:44

Figmentofmyimagination · 12/07/2025 12:38

20+ years ago I watched a TV programme about the role of the gulf steam and what will happen if it weakens and fails. It certainly stayed with me. It will be the end for us, basically.

50 years ago, my DM was trying to do her best to save the planet.

DdraigGoch · 12/07/2025 13:40

EasternStandard · 11/07/2025 18:28

Are you pretty good about not taking holidays or limiting dc etc?

It's possible to have holidays without wrecking the planet. I haven't flown in a decade, yet I've had adventures everywhere from Helsinki to Valletta, County Mayo to Bucharest.

EveSix · 12/07/2025 13:32

Finteq · 12/07/2025 11:03

One of the most selfish articles I ever read was by a journalist over 60 I think.

He was someone who had flown all over the world multiple times a month. Had been to multiple countries etc etc.

But now he had come to his senses.

And he was lamenting the state of the world. Judging people who want to go one maybe 1-2 holidays a year. How people fly too much and he was going to stop using aeroplanes, get ris of his passport and everyone should do the same- or else climate change.

I thought- OK for him to say that at his age when he's pretty much seen most of the world isn't it.

This sentiment was heard quite a bit around 2018-19 when Extinction Rebellion mobilised tens of thousands across the country and journalists were exploring the widening of the Overton window in endless column inches. Many, both activists and commentators, were mature men and women who had indeed benefited from frequent travel to remote places, seen the many wonders of the natural world, and were now suggesting we all curtail our flying for the good of the planet. "Hypocrites!" cried many. "That's all very well for you!".
And of course "I'm not having anyone telling me what to do."
And "I bet they have children though."
And "Did you type that on a smart phone?"
And "You drove to work, didn't you?"

This illustrates the purity trap which people try to set, effectively removing any sense or expectation of personal responsibility. You can call anyone a hypocrite and be done.

The truth is, of course, that the writer which Finteq is referring to correct. It would be better if we all stopped flying. There is no way to argue that this isn't so. "But now he had come to his senses" -yes, that's it. And truth often exists independently of what feels fair. Science has made us more aware if the scale of the problem and better equipped to find ways to solve it. These don't necessarily align with what we want for ourselves or feel we somehow deserve because people before us had those things, while living in blissful ignorance.

EveSix · 12/07/2025 12:54

@PencilsInSpace I think my post may have come across as a bit po-faced and much harsher than I intended; I'm in no way saying that we ought to live in despair, only that, if despair arises in our awareness in response to the heating climate, we allow ourselves to feel it. Ditto anger, helplessness and all the rest of it. That said, of course we continue to live day to day, finding joy and comfort and inspiration in the ordinary things we experience. Like you say, we can hold both the dread and the delight simultaneously. I too take comfort in my relative smallness and the transience of all things. Far from living in despair, there is a lot of joy in my life.

My post was really a direct comment on a PP's post, where a woman expressed worry about the climate and mused as to whether she ought to adopt another poster's somewhat more glib outlook. I was suggesting that we're generally better off allowing ourselves to feel what we feel rather than trying to convince ourselves otherwise.

Figmentofmyimagination · 12/07/2025 12:38

20+ years ago I watched a TV programme about the role of the gulf steam and what will happen if it weakens and fails. It certainly stayed with me. It will be the end for us, basically.