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To think parents should be given a proxy vote for their children

155 replies

OldLondonDad · 11/07/2025 10:08

Bit of a random topic for AIBU, but since we've had a few threads recently on politics and taxes, why not?...

A decade or so ago I thought it seemed that those who will impacted most by today's policies have the least (no!) say in them. Our politics are largely shaped by the vote of the oldest section of society and the youngest just have to live with it.

Solution? Give parents an extra vote per child. They will be highly likely to use it in the way that benefits their child, so the country's policies will be more likely to favour the young (and the future of the country) rather than the old.

There's a name for the concept - demeny voting. It gets considered here and there in various countries, but what does mumsnet think?

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Demeny_voting

(no I'm not a journalist / politician / think-tank analyst etc., just a regular dad)

Demeny voting - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Demeny_voting

OP posts:
WasThatACorner · 11/07/2025 10:15

No but parents should be talking to their children about politics and be helping them get registered to vote, research different parties and candidates.

The number of young people not voting or don't know how to vote is very worrying.

elliejjtiny · 11/07/2025 10:10

No. I have 4 dc under 18, why should i get extra votes?

WondererWanderer · 11/07/2025 10:10

YABVU

You have no idea where your kids will stand politically. You just want extra votes for your own agenda.

How about higher taxes for parents who use more resources than the childfree?

Dontwanttobeanebsnamum · 11/07/2025 10:10

Well mumsnet is made up of millions of individuals.

aGirlLikeJesamine · 11/07/2025 10:10

no,
what about those with no children
why dont they get any spare votes,