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ClematisPurple · 10/07/2025 21:54

Please help, I'm dying of heat stress.
The back of my house is WEST FACING.
It is sheer hell in this heat.
The kitchen is in the back of the house.
I'm going to pieces unable to cope with the blinding tortuous sun beaming directly in through my kitchen window and back door (next to window) every single solitary day when I'm trying to make dinner.
It's so hellishly, tortuously, insanely bright and intense that I get sunburn whilst standing at my kitchen worktop preparing a meal, the backs of my calves actually burn, and I have to wear sunglasses in my kitchen, and still I am squinting like mad and getting migraines from the intensity of the sun shining in to my eyes as it shines directly in to my kitchen at 5pm, 6pm, 7pm.
My kitchen sink faces the west facing window.
My kitchen is a shitty little tiny box kitchen 10ft long x 7.5ft wide and the back wall of the kitchen is all glass because the massive window and 100% top to bottom glass door take up the full width of the entire wall of the kitchen that faces west, and I HATE IT.
We are elevated on a hill, with no natural sun screen i.e. no trees. We are completely exposed to the elements.
I feel like I'm going insane.
I can't use my kitchen between 4pm - 8pm every day in this heat.
Outside my kitchen is our tiny patio only 18 feet wide and we are boxed in by tall brick walls since my next door neighbour that we are joined on to got a 4 metre rear extension which has created a breeze less sun trap at the back of our house. I hate it. We used to have air circulating at the back of our house bit their massive rear extension has stopped this.
Today, preparing dinner for DC at 5pm made me feel sick. I still feel ill now. I got sunburnt whilst cooking at my hob/oven becausethe sun hits my oven as it drops down lower in the sky. I got a migraine from standing at the kitchen sink washing up because the sun sank lower in the sky until it was straight opposite my window above the sink.
I bought a gazebo from argos and stood it against the back of the house. It helped. It lasted 4 days then we had a windy day on Saturday and the frame snapped and it collapsed.
What should I do?
Please advise me on what is better for this situation - another gazebo or a patio awning?
What is best?
I feel ill with heat stress even now at nearly 10pm, after getting in such a state in the kitchen earlier.

OP posts:
ObliviousCoalmine · 10/07/2025 22:47

Subbyhubby · 10/07/2025 22:28

Hate to brake it to you, but even quiche needs to be cooked.
unless of course you mean buy a shop bought upf quiche, but they are revolting I don’t think anyone does that.

No, nobody buys ready made quiche, that’s why they keep making them…

Hate to break it to you.

Venalopolos · 10/07/2025 22:47

Perfect fit blinds? Or a curtain fixed to the PVC frame?

Shenmen · 10/07/2025 22:44

For the longer term plant some trees if you can. The difference between our house temp and the next door neighbour who has no tree is unbelievable.

A silver birch will grow fast!

CoralOP · 10/07/2025 22:43

Sunshineandrainbow · 10/07/2025 22:31

Really better than normal fan?

I was soooo disappointed with my shark hoover after all the hype!

Well it's definitely better than the standard £12.99 fans and it has a mister that sprays a light mist while blasting you so I'm pretty cold right now 😆
It's not just blowing hot air around, it has cold air coming out of it.
I do think £99 for a fan that isn't gold plated is a bit ridiculous but it's a godsend tonight so I'm giving it a thumbs up x

Supersimkin7 · 10/07/2025 22:43

Anti-Migraine freezer mask from Amazon, tenner. Gel hairband you chill & pull over your forehead like Batman.

Glorious. You look way cool too.

Bunniemalone · 10/07/2025 22:40

I totally get it, I got sunburnt in our kitchen in that 2018 heatwave. Long term get black out blind fitted door & window. Now get some blackout fabric shade stuff off Amazon silver side faces out black on inside. Double sided sticky velcro to attach it works wonders

Mumofteenandtween · 10/07/2025 22:36

Our next door neighbour has a permanent brick built awning attached to their kitchen window. (We are south-west facing.) I spend about 50 weeks a year looking at it horrified (it must be so dark in their kitchen in January). And about 2 weeks a year so jealous of it I could spit! We are currently in the 2 weeks.

ninjahamster · 10/07/2025 22:35

A big sheet hung over the window. Buy sticky back Velcro so you can attach to the pvc window frame.

blackbirdevensong · 10/07/2025 22:35

I can sympathise; I can hardly use the sink in the late afternoon as it's west facing and just awful.

Put nails in the wall outside your kitchen, hang a sheet or get a big blackout blind you can hang up on days like today. Stop the sun hitting the glass and you'll instantly be cooler, plus less light-initiated headaches.

FionaJT · 10/07/2025 22:32

Not an immediate fix but I have a south facing living room with patio doors that was impossible when the temp gets over about 25 degrees, and getting an awning put up a couple of summers ago has made a huge difference. It keeps the sun off the glass which keeps the room cooler as well as meaning we can actually comfortably sit on the patio in hot weather. I bought online & got a handyman to put it up, about £250 in total I think. It retracts using a manual crank.

N0sferatu · 10/07/2025 22:31

Subbyhubby · 10/07/2025 22:28

Hate to brake it to you, but even quiche needs to be cooked.
unless of course you mean buy a shop bought upf quiche, but they are revolting I don’t think anyone does that.

Don't be ridiculous. If nobody wanted shop bought quiches the shops wouldn't stock them. Not everyone wants to be baking from scratch. You do you.

Sunshineandrainbow · 10/07/2025 22:31

CoralOP · 10/07/2025 22:29

We have just bit the bullet and bought a shark flexbreeze fan, £99 in argos.
There's my husband, my son and dog all in our room with the fan going and it's pretty heavenly, get yourself one tomorrow, I think it's going to be one of them unplanned best purchases of our lives!

Really better than normal fan?

I was soooo disappointed with my shark hoover after all the hype!

littlefireseverywhere · 10/07/2025 22:31

FlippyKiYayFlippyFlipper · 10/07/2025 21:58

Mirror window film?

This, certainly a cheaper option & easy fix. Then look at a patio awning, my parents have one it was quite expensive but acts as a sunblock when they’ve got it open. Also rain proof so great for autumn being in garden etc

CoralOP · 10/07/2025 22:29

We have just bit the bullet and bought a shark flexbreeze fan, £99 in argos.
There's my husband, my son and dog all in our room with the fan going and it's pretty heavenly, get yourself one tomorrow, I think it's going to be one of them unplanned best purchases of our lives!

Subbyhubby · 10/07/2025 22:28

Putthekettleon73 · 10/07/2025 21:57

On hot days, use a slow cooker in another room, just do salad and cold meats, salad and quiche etc. Don't cook when it's unbearable. My kitchen is hot. Then don't do dishes until later in the evening when it's cooler.

Keep the windows shut when it's hot outside. Hang a white sheet OUTSIDE the windows to block out the sun and stop the glass windows acting like a greenhouse.

Hate to brake it to you, but even quiche needs to be cooked.
unless of course you mean buy a shop bought upf quiche, but they are revolting I don’t think anyone does that.

Greenalien1 · 10/07/2025 22:28

I'm in a similar position OP we've been having cold dinners aka snacks plates my son calls them. If he's still hungry he just gets snacks after. Yesterday I just shoved some nugs and fries in the air fryer and chopped up some Cucumber it didn't get hot and he was fine. I can't even use the oven or microwave without it bringing up the whole house a few degrees

1990s · 10/07/2025 22:27

@ClematisPurpleexactly same situation.

got this, not expensive and SO MUCH better

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Yaheetech-Adjustable-Retractable-Canopywith-Restaurant/dp/B0DZC4ZHFG

OfAllThePlaces · 10/07/2025 22:27

I have a south facing garden, and French doors in my lounge that lead out to it. It is roasting in the summer, like a greenhouse. I purchased a pergola with a retractable roof. It's attached to the decking, so doesn't blow over with the slightest gust of wind. It's a godsend, just pull the root closed, stops the sun from trying to kill me.

I only wish we got one the same time as we got the doors.

DuesToTheDirt · 10/07/2025 22:26

TarquinsTurnips · 10/07/2025 22:00

I see your west facing and I raise you south facing new build 😂

It was 26 degrees outside at 8pm.

The corridor, yes corridor, outside my flat is 30 degrees at 10pm.

You need an old house. Here it was 24 outside at midday, but 21 inside the house.

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persisted · 10/07/2025 22:24

Buy a big bit of white camo netting and attach to top of the walls on both sides.

Enjoy the lovely shade.

Thelostjewels · 10/07/2025 22:24

Anyone using this remener it has to outside to stop sun hitting glass a thin sheet worked wonders.

Chungai · 10/07/2025 22:23

If you can afford it, get shutters fitted on the outside.

Or next best, blackout blinds on the inside. Ikea does them and you cut them to size.

Thelostjewels · 10/07/2025 22:23

I also hung towels trapped in by window frame on the outside of my bedroom and bathroom windows again that really helped.

Sunshineandrainbow · 10/07/2025 22:22

I hear you, I have beach towels stuck over my glass door. It's unbearable.

thingsineverthoughtidsay · 10/07/2025 22:22

Aldi are selling sails at the moment. Could you attach one of those to the back of the house, and supports of some sort the other end?