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How do people in hot countries continue to populate?

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dontcomeatme · 10/07/2025 21:43

Honestly, even just the thought of having sex in this heat has me running away in sweat drenched disgust. I have under boob sweat, arsehole sweat, my knickers are gross, my hair is wet, I feel disgusting and I am far far too hot! How do hot countries manage? I couldn't think of anything worse than sex right now! Thankfully my OH is in complete agreement 🤣 we can barely tolerate our clothes touching our body never mind sharing heat 🤣
What's the consensus? Does the heat affect your libido? Or are you lot all lying in a pool of combined sweat and continuing as normal?
Shamelessly posting in AIBU for traffic.

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dontcomeatme · 14/07/2025 22:07

KnittyNell · 14/07/2025 21:47

I’ll get the hot choc and biccies in. 😊

There is nothing better 🥰

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KnittyNell · 14/07/2025 21:47

dontcomeatme · 11/07/2025 15:05

We can be friends.

I’ll get the hot choc and biccies in. 😊

smithsgj · 13/07/2025 16:34

Can’t believe I’ve read the whole damn thread and nobody’s spotted the typo in the thread title.

The person who made the overweight comment should be spit roasted btw

Simonjt · 13/07/2025 08:26

MsNevermore · 12/07/2025 00:56

We have air conditioning 🤷🏻‍♀️😂

My DH runs hot. I’m the opposite: I’m always cold.
I tell him all the time the chances of me getting my kit off would be much higher if our bedroom A/C wasn’t set to the fucking Arctic circle 🫠🫠🫠🫠

My husband is like that, I’m always thankful of a heatwave as it means he’s hot enough to take his kit off, rather than taking of as few clothes as possible!

dontcomeatme · 13/07/2025 08:07

JohnTheRevelator · 12/07/2025 23:29

I feel the same as you OP! The thought of DTD' in this heat is unthinkable. Thankfully I'm happily single so it's one thing I don't have to worry about, thank goodness. About 10 years ago,I had a partner who LOVED this sort of weather (he was originally from a hot country) and unfortunately the heat made him horny. The complete opposite of how I felt. I got absolutely sick of him keeping pawing at me, trying to coerce me into having sex. I swear it was a miracle I didn't end up murdering him..

Aw no! My OH knows not to so much as touch me in this weather! Thankfully we're very compatible that way, or I'd have LTB years ago 😅

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JohnTheRevelator · 12/07/2025 23:29

I feel the same as you OP! The thought of DTD' in this heat is unthinkable. Thankfully I'm happily single so it's one thing I don't have to worry about, thank goodness. About 10 years ago,I had a partner who LOVED this sort of weather (he was originally from a hot country) and unfortunately the heat made him horny. The complete opposite of how I felt. I got absolutely sick of him keeping pawing at me, trying to coerce me into having sex. I swear it was a miracle I didn't end up murdering him..

OutdoorQueen · 12/07/2025 23:22

InWalksBarberalla · 12/07/2025 23:08

20! There's such a difference in living in cold climates and hot climates. My heating is still on at 20, and I'm looking forward to it getting to summer and the 30s again.

I love the cold, I love the sun too, but from being a child I’ve always loved a cooler room, I just sleep better in them.
It’s not the end of the world like when camping etc but I like to be comfy at home

InWalksBarberalla · 12/07/2025 23:08

OutdoorQueen · 12/07/2025 18:10

I understand what you are saying but if it goes above 20 I like the aircon on. I’ve always liked a cold bedroom so I can get cosy in the bed, I still like a duvet on me abroad 🤣

I love the sun / heat but I just like a cold room too

20! There's such a difference in living in cold climates and hot climates. My heating is still on at 20, and I'm looking forward to it getting to summer and the 30s again.

Bec1968 · 12/07/2025 20:24

I'm like that in the winter too 🤣🤣

Mumtobabyhavoc · 12/07/2025 18:58

I spent the summer in Greece once and the temps were 38c-42c or so. I got used to it, but didn't really notice that I did until it "cooled down" to 30c and I was putting on jeans and a light sweater. 😂

RhiRC · 12/07/2025 18:50

DH is Mexican from a part of the country where it doesn’t really get below 30° year round and 35/36 in the summer. They don’t have AC or anything, or even glass in their windows so it’s always as hot (or hotter) inside than out 😅 but a fan makes a nice breeze and when you live somewhere hot you adapt to it and it doesn’t feel the same as it does for us when we’re used to it being cooler. He struggled with the cold when he first moved here but has mainly adapted now

dontcomeatme · 12/07/2025 18:49

Mumtobabyhavoc · 12/07/2025 18:45

Sounds like you're a bit of a bitch, no?

🤣🤣 love it

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Mumtobabyhavoc · 12/07/2025 18:45

Tartantotty · 11/07/2025 08:46

Sounds like you're overweight if you have all these sweating issues.

Sounds like you're a bit of a bitch, no?

PapaPerspective · 12/07/2025 18:11

OutdoorQueen · 12/07/2025 18:10

I understand what you are saying but if it goes above 20 I like the aircon on. I’ve always liked a cold bedroom so I can get cosy in the bed, I still like a duvet on me abroad 🤣

I love the sun / heat but I just like a cold room too

I like a cold room too. And fortunately I get that the vast majority of the year by opening the window. I get that right now Aircon would be of benefit though.

OutdoorQueen · 12/07/2025 18:10

PapaPerspective · 12/07/2025 16:10

Britain is a relatively cold island on the north Atlantic Ocean. On the rare occasions it's warm through the day I like to enjoy it. There's probably only 5 nights per year where I find it somewhat uncomfortable of an evening to sleep. In my life the heat has only stopped me sleeping on one occasion. I'd rather put the money towards a new. Kitchen.

I understand what you are saying but if it goes above 20 I like the aircon on. I’ve always liked a cold bedroom so I can get cosy in the bed, I still like a duvet on me abroad 🤣

I love the sun / heat but I just like a cold room too

PapaPerspective · 12/07/2025 17:29

SerendipityJane · 12/07/2025 17:22

“The Atlantic circulation is really important for Britain because it transports a lot of heat ultimately from the tropics up towards the UK,” says David Thornalley, Professor of Ocean and Climate Science at UCL. “And if you have major changes in ocean circulation, you are clearly going to be interrupting that transport of ocean heat, which will have an effect on weather systems.”

https://www.ucl.ac.uk/climate-change/stories/what-would-britain-be-if-gulf-stream-changed-course

I'll see if I can find a separate study for London.

What you have said doesn't address my points about this being a cold island. You have just given some good factual evidence of how it could be colder though.

Willoo · 12/07/2025 17:22

IMissSparkling · 10/07/2025 21:53

Oh yes, great, let's make a boiling planet even warmer by using MORE power.

🙄

SerendipityJane · 12/07/2025 17:22

PapaPerspective · 12/07/2025 17:13

@SerendipityJane I said Britain. Not London. Britain is generally considered to be a cool or temperate island, not a hot one. Its climate is classified as temperate maritime, experiences mild summers and cool winters. Britain has an average annual temperature of just 9.2°C, much lower than most of Western Europe and well below the global average of 14.96.

I acknowledge London shares its latitude with many cities that experience much colder climates. But that doesn't make it a warm place. New York City is much farther south (about 40.7° N), yet often has colder winters than London due to its continental climate.

If you had heating and aircon but lived anywhere in Britain, what would you use more often?

An incredible, factually incorrect statement to suggest this is a warm island at an average of 9.2°C.

“The Atlantic circulation is really important for Britain because it transports a lot of heat ultimately from the tropics up towards the UK,” says David Thornalley, Professor of Ocean and Climate Science at UCL. “And if you have major changes in ocean circulation, you are clearly going to be interrupting that transport of ocean heat, which will have an effect on weather systems.”

https://www.ucl.ac.uk/climate-change/stories/what-would-britain-be-if-gulf-stream-changed-course

I'll see if I can find a separate study for London.

What would Britain be like if the Gulf Stream changed course?

UCL researchers are studying whether the famous warm water current could be waning and what this might mean for our weather and people.

https://www.ucl.ac.uk/climate-change/stories/what-would-britain-be-if-gulf-stream-changed-course

PapaPerspective · 12/07/2025 17:13

@SerendipityJane I said Britain. Not London. Britain is generally considered to be a cool or temperate island, not a hot one. Its climate is classified as temperate maritime, experiences mild summers and cool winters. Britain has an average annual temperature of just 9.2°C, much lower than most of Western Europe and well below the global average of 14.96.

I acknowledge London shares its latitude with many cities that experience much colder climates. But that doesn't make it a warm place. New York City is much farther south (about 40.7° N), yet often has colder winters than London due to its continental climate.

If you had heating and aircon but lived anywhere in Britain, what would you use more often?

An incredible, factually incorrect statement to suggest this is a warm island at an average of 9.2°C.

SerendipityJane · 12/07/2025 16:38

PapaPerspective · 12/07/2025 16:10

Britain is a relatively cold island on the north Atlantic Ocean. On the rare occasions it's warm through the day I like to enjoy it. There's probably only 5 nights per year where I find it somewhat uncomfortable of an evening to sleep. In my life the heat has only stopped me sleeping on one occasion. I'd rather put the money towards a new. Kitchen.

Er, it's the other way round. Britain is a relatively warm island etc, etc.

If you want the proof, follow the latitude around the globe from London and see where else is our parallel friend ...

If it weren't for the gulf stream, we'd be a hell of a lot colder. And if we manage to kill the gulf stream, heatwaves will be the least of our worries.

PapaPerspective · 12/07/2025 16:10

OutdoorQueen · 12/07/2025 12:59

Another smug poster here with aircon 🤣

We have it in all bedrooms & lounges. Still sleeping with my pjs & a duvet on.

Honestly don’t know why more UK homes don’t have it!

Britain is a relatively cold island on the north Atlantic Ocean. On the rare occasions it's warm through the day I like to enjoy it. There's probably only 5 nights per year where I find it somewhat uncomfortable of an evening to sleep. In my life the heat has only stopped me sleeping on one occasion. I'd rather put the money towards a new. Kitchen.

dontcomeatme · 12/07/2025 13:27

asrl78 · 12/07/2025 12:29

The primary issue for me in the UK is that when it gets hot, there is no escape. I can tolerate high temperatures during the day if I have the opportunity to cool down at night, but that is not possible when my house is 26-30C inside and with no wind outside, opening windows does nothing to get cooler air into the house, so I am stuck with dealing with repeated poor quality sleep.

Same. I feel exhausted but just can't sleep properly!

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Tink3rbell30 · 12/07/2025 13:08

I was thinking this with the weather in the UK right now. Sweaty flaps, sweaty balls, changing the sweaty bed constantly, the smell of the room after. Gross!

OutdoorQueen · 12/07/2025 12:59

Another smug poster here with aircon 🤣

We have it in all bedrooms & lounges. Still sleeping with my pjs & a duvet on.

Honestly don’t know why more UK homes don’t have it!

asrl78 · 12/07/2025 12:29

The primary issue for me in the UK is that when it gets hot, there is no escape. I can tolerate high temperatures during the day if I have the opportunity to cool down at night, but that is not possible when my house is 26-30C inside and with no wind outside, opening windows does nothing to get cooler air into the house, so I am stuck with dealing with repeated poor quality sleep.