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PassTheCordialCordelia · 10/07/2025 20:35

I hear a lot of noise concerning how we ought to eat how our grandparent's/great grandparents did, or something of that description. We know that modern, ultra processed foods are crap, unhealthy and usually very cheap, although many foods from long ago were pretty awful too!

So just in a lighthearted frame of mind - what did yours scoff down on?

Mine were fond of home baking, scones, biscuits, etc. Most meals cooked from scratch, although grandmother was a full time housewife, with a space to grow some fruit/veg. I think the large supermarket chains were still extremely tiny when my GP's were alive, so I have no idea if they might have enjoyed more processed stuff if they had lived to see it.

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Mischance · 11/07/2025 16:07

My grandparents were born at the beginning of the last century and they ate..... greens that were boiled to death, stodgy puddings with lashings of custard, big hams thickly sliced, shepherds pie, white bread only, jellies, brawn and tongue, thick salty gravy, big fat toast potatoes and Yorkshire puds, stewed fruit (lots of prunes) .... all very unhealthy and rather delightful!!

MrsSethGecko · 11/07/2025 16:03

Ryvita are still going. I like them with a lot of butter and marmalade.

Our secondary school in the early 90s had canteen open every morning break with flapjack, biscuits, iced buns, instant soup and hot chocolate. Lunch was chips with either pizza, turkey drummers, sausage or cheese and onion pasty. Vegetable was baked beans. Every day.

There was either plain, chocolate or coconut sponge and custard every day, and there was no water provided but you could buy cans of Coke or Tango.
Vending machines in every house block had crisps, cans of pop, chocolate and Polos.

Natsku · 11/07/2025 15:50

Fundayout2025 · 11/07/2025 15:14

I think the crispbread/ryvita and pineapple cottage cheese must've been in every diet book in the 70s and 80s lol

Actually I loved ryvita as a kid Will have to look if you can still buy it

I like crispbread. Can't eat ryvita but I love glutenfree crispbread with dairylea-style spreading cheese.

Magenta82 · 11/07/2025 15:27

Fundayout2025 · 11/07/2025 15:14

I think the crispbread/ryvita and pineapple cottage cheese must've been in every diet book in the 70s and 80s lol

Actually I loved ryvita as a kid Will have to look if you can still buy it

I quite like sesame rivita, do they still make them? I can't face cottage cheese, too many bad memories of being put in a diet at age 8!

My Nan ate the pale ones that were like the texture of chipsticks. They weren't very filling so she always had to have a few more, but hey they were "healthy" right?!

Fundayout2025 · 11/07/2025 15:26

summertimeinLondon · 11/07/2025 01:06

We didn’t have lashings of sugary drinks, sweets, crisps, deserts or processed foods in the 70s 80s or 90s. Vending machines certainly weren’t a thing at school in the 80s.

Are you kidding? My big comprehensive school had vending machines chock full of mars bars, canned pop, Ringos and Nik Naks - and a tuck shop that served nothing but chocolate bars. The hot dinners were chips and pizza. There was nothing BUT processed foods at school - you couldn’t even buy a sandwich in the canteen. Why on earth do you think they didn’t have vending machines? What kind of school did you go to?

Were you even THERE in the 70s-90s? The decades notorious for bad food? Have you ever looked at the sales figures for chocolate bars, sweets and snacks in the 70s and 80s? Been to a kids’ party in the 1980s? The local pop man? Soda Stream? Endless giant bags of crisps and chocolate biscuits from Kwik Save and Safeway? A Mars a day helps you work, rest and play? Kids’ school packed lunches of Um Bongo and jam sandwiches on white bread with a Penguin biscuit? Findus crispy pancakes? Pop Tarts? Capri-Sun? Most kids in the 80s were stuffed to the gills with E-numbers. Why on earth do you think they banned artificial additives from processed biscuits, sweets and drinks in the 90s?

Postwar Britain really was the time of terrible, terrible processed food, with the health outcomes to match. I can’t remotely think you remember the 70s-90s correctly if you think people didn’t eat sweets and crisps. The entire bloody telly was full of (famous) adverts for the things. The food in schools in particular is light years better than it was then.

I was there. My whole school years were in the 70s and 80s.

In primary school we took packed lunches and there was a tuck shop that you could buy crisps or chocolate. It opened twice a week at breaking

Secondary had no vending machines. Tuck shop open every breaktime.

Dinners were cooked in school kitchens . Mainly nasty cabbage, meat mashed potatoes etc. No pizzas and chips only on Fridays ( no meat served Fri so was fish and chips)

Older kids who were allowed out at lunchtime used to go to the KFC across the road

Tintackedsea · 11/07/2025 15:23

I remember her making black pudding from scratch which was delicious. Her lamb flank soup was the stuff of nightmares though. My mother was very anti-sugar and granny used to put 4 in her tea and have an endless supply of barley sugars, creamola foam, and chocolate digestives.

bfbabe · 11/07/2025 15:19

It's interesting how many times people have said their grandparents never snacked. Mine were champion snackers! It's almost like some people think snacking is a modern invention.

Mine had at least two biscuits with every cup of tea, and cake in the afternoon. They didn't call them snacks though. They had elevenses & fourses.

Fundayout2025 · 11/07/2025 15:14

Magenta82 · 11/07/2025 14:28

I think I'll probably ignore the advice to eat like my grandmother.

She was born in 1923, in my childhood in the 80s I remember she was constantly on a diet eating crispbreads with vitalite and pineapple cottage cheese. Tinned tomatoes with sugar on toast also featured heavily.

My mum says when she was a kid in the 60s/70s Nan cooked Vesta ready meals and Fray Bentos pies and also a truly awful gritty curry that she made using whole spices she bought on an Indian run market stall and didn't grind up very well.

In her 90s she ate cake, sweets and the odd ready meal.

She always did an awesome roast chicken with piping hot plates and sugar in the pea water which she then used to make the gravy.

I think the crispbread/ryvita and pineapple cottage cheese must've been in every diet book in the 70s and 80s lol

Actually I loved ryvita as a kid Will have to look if you can still buy it

Fundayout2025 · 11/07/2025 15:10

JockTamsonsBairns · 10/07/2025 23:20

It's most definitely related to era.

I'm old enough to be a MNers's grandma, so I agree with your post if it's been written by a younger person.

My gran was born in 1901, my dad in 1932, so her diet was very different to the one you describe.

My nana was born in 1898 . She was in her 70s when I was born and lived until she was 96

Berlinlover · 11/07/2025 15:03

My mother’s parents ate a fry for breakfast seven days a week. They had a sandwich for lunch and salad for tea. On Sunday they had a roast. They never, ever snacked. They owned a pharmacy and worked until they passed away. My grandmother died of cancer at 72 and my grandfather died of old age at 89.

Dontcallmescarface · 11/07/2025 14:58

Nicotine and gin mostly.

eqpi4t2hbsnktd · 11/07/2025 14:57

Home cooked food in small portions, red wine.
Never had snacks or crisps on the table... never ate in from of the TV (maybe a quality st and Christmas).

outofdate · 11/07/2025 14:40

Small portions!

Natsku · 11/07/2025 14:40

Bog standard traditional Finnish food with lots of sweet buns and coffee.
Dunno what my other granny ate, didn't know her that well.

Magenta82 · 11/07/2025 14:28

I think I'll probably ignore the advice to eat like my grandmother.

She was born in 1923, in my childhood in the 80s I remember she was constantly on a diet eating crispbreads with vitalite and pineapple cottage cheese. Tinned tomatoes with sugar on toast also featured heavily.

My mum says when she was a kid in the 60s/70s Nan cooked Vesta ready meals and Fray Bentos pies and also a truly awful gritty curry that she made using whole spices she bought on an Indian run market stall and didn't grind up very well.

In her 90s she ate cake, sweets and the odd ready meal.

She always did an awesome roast chicken with piping hot plates and sugar in the pea water which she then used to make the gravy.

PGmicstand · 11/07/2025 14:23

Coming from a family with 12 children, my grandmother are whatever she could.
Bread and butter
Bread and dripping
Bread and jam
Potatoes with cabbage
Pork chops/lamb chops
Jam suet udding
Kidney pie
Corned beef
Apple pie
Boiled beef
Boiled onions
Tripe
Occasionally salad ( lettuce and tomato)
Usually all washed down with a cup of tea

Her drink of choice as an adult was port and lemon.

She loved sweets as they could rarely afford them in childhood

JMSA · 11/07/2025 14:17

My other grandmother (dad’s mum) was more working class and a hopeless cook, bless her. So there was lots of meals like ham, coleslaw, chips from the chippy and half a tomato 😁

JMSA · 11/07/2025 14:15

She ate very well. She was an intelligent Scotswoman who spoke several languages - as well as taught them - and travelled extensively. So there was lots of cheese and red wine! She was a true Francophile.

Allseeingallknowing · 11/07/2025 13:46

Someone mentioned malt loaf- we still eat this, nice but it welds to the roof of the mouth and teeth!

dottydaily · 11/07/2025 13:29

boiled egg for breakfast or Weetabix. dinner was meat, potato and vegetables. She would drink the broth post cooking with the meal. Evening meal was generally bread and meat with cheese or eggs or bread and jam. she always enjoyed something sweet and would have cakes in the house. She was very healthy, never took a pill!!

fufulina · 11/07/2025 13:19

My granny was a tiny woman. ‘Nerves’ apparently. She mostly smoked John Player fags (40 a day) and every morning she ate a bacon sandwich made with two rashers on thin sliced, white pappy bread (delicious) and cut into quarters. I don’t remember her eating anything else! She did drink a couple of dubonnet every night.

Everlore · 11/07/2025 13:16

My maternal grandma's favourite dish was apparently tripe. My mum, however, found tripe revolting and never cooked it for us, so I've never tried it, which I'm perfectly content with!

mondaytosunday · 11/07/2025 13:11

I have no idea. I don’t even know what my parents ate, though they did live through rationing.
But I know my grandmother on my mums side had a cook. They grew much of their own veg too. So it would have been three meals no snacks and no going in to the kitchen to help themselves. They were big in walks no matter the weather too (west coast of Ireland).
My father was born and raised in India and they probably had a book too.
All went to boarding school so can imagine the kind of food they got there in the 30s and 40s
(this is my parents’ generation).

Tryonemoretime · 11/07/2025 13:03

Oh. And one of my grans began the day with a cup of whisky laced with tea....and thus began her day in a happy frame of mind! The other one was tee total.

CrushingOnRubies · 11/07/2025 13:01

Lots of pies, offal, meat and two veg. Having to learn to be resourceful during rationing which I don’t think ever left that generation

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