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To ask what did your granny eat?

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PassTheCordialCordelia · 10/07/2025 20:35

I hear a lot of noise concerning how we ought to eat how our grandparent's/great grandparents did, or something of that description. We know that modern, ultra processed foods are crap, unhealthy and usually very cheap, although many foods from long ago were pretty awful too!

So just in a lighthearted frame of mind - what did yours scoff down on?

Mine were fond of home baking, scones, biscuits, etc. Most meals cooked from scratch, although grandmother was a full time housewife, with a space to grow some fruit/veg. I think the large supermarket chains were still extremely tiny when my GP's were alive, so I have no idea if they might have enjoyed more processed stuff if they had lived to see it.

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OurMavis · 10/07/2025 21:58

My grandmother was born in 1911, got married in 1929.
As a child in the 60s I spent a lot of time at her house.
Home made bread, home made cake, jam, puddings. Her pastry was awesome (rough puff). Everything was home made. Fruit and veg was often home grown.
Dinner was at lunchtime and was meat and two veg. Sunday roast was rehashed into four meals. Cold meat on Monday, meat pie Tuesday and minced meat with baked dumplings Wednesday. Puddings were fruit pies, crumble, home made rice puddings.
Tea was a sandwich and a cake.

No rice or pasta or anything spicy. Much smaller portions than most have now.
Never, ever ate out except perhaps at a wedding, certainly not a cafe or restaurant.

Three meals a day but no snacks, ever. She worked until she was 70 and was always as thin as a rake.

I eat very similar in many ways, mostly home made and a fair bit home grown but more variety than meat and two veg and I'm happy to eat the odd ready meal.

Neighbours87 · 10/07/2025 21:58

Porridge every morning and lots fish. She passed away this year at 102. Dh granny lived until 103 and she had porridge very morning aswell.

ElBandito · 10/07/2025 21:57

Life was less sedentary, but the benefit of this was probably better health generally than weight loss.

The older generations didn't snack the same way we do. My gran had one biscuit every day with her morning coffee and one square of chocolate in the evening with her hot milk. She always had pudding but it would be a small piece of cake, a scoop of ice cream.

These days instead of biscuits we eat large cookies. Rather than a scoop of ice cream we have a magnum. Instead of a square of chocolate it's a whole bar. Instead of a small fairy cake it's a chocolate muffin or a cake with a fuck ton of butter icing on the top.

Then we wonder what's gone wrong 🤷‍♀️

PhilosophicalCheeseSandwich · 10/07/2025 21:57

Pork pies and beetroot, beef stew, ham sandwiches, cream cakes. That's about it really.

shellyleppard · 10/07/2025 21:55

My nan grew up on a farm. She was a very hard working lady, cooked all her meals from scratch. So breakfast was cereal, fry up and toast. Mid morning tea and cake. Lunch. Afternoon tea....tea and cake. Main evening meal.....meat, potatoes and veg. Plus pudding 🤣 always remember she had a big Kenwood mixer always going. Also she used to keep ill baby lambs in the aga oven when she was hand rearing them. Miss her....a real character

FlutteryButterfly · 10/07/2025 21:55

My Grandparents were born 1910 and it was meat and 2 veg plus dessert.

My mum also served up similar and then things like shepherd's pie, toad in the hole, bubble and squeak, pies, casseroles etc. Then we has desserts like treacle tart, lemon meringue pie, jam tarts, suet pudding and spooty dick and custard.

We never snacked at most we had a clementine or apple.

I cook most of the above however I'm more adventurous and cook a variety of different cuisines aswell. I don't do dessert though!

Bryonyberries · 10/07/2025 21:55

I looked after a lady of 99 in very good health for her age. She always had a cup of tea, strawberries and real cream each day as part of her afternoon snack. I think back then they used real food rather than ‘alternatives’. Most of the clients 80+ at the time were in much better actual health than many of the 60/70yos which makes you wonder what changed in the 20 years or so. For example, of the older ones none had diabetes or similar life style disabilities it was just purely age related care needs rather than health needs.

aintnospringchicken · 10/07/2025 21:54

Mince and tatties
Stew
Homemade soup
Roast chicken
Fish on a Friday
Tinned corn beef with sweetcorn relish and mashed potatoes.Sounds like an odd mixture ,but I actually enjoyed that as a young child.
Carros,peas,green beans,turnip,cabbage,cauliflower
Sausages with a fried egg

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 10/07/2025 21:53

Phann · 10/07/2025 20:45

The only particular thing I remember my grandmother consuming was gin martinis.

🤣

LaudCodec · 10/07/2025 21:53

Mine was born in 1917.

Mostly home cooked stuff, from scratch. A lot of root veg, and cheaper cuts of meat and offal. She used to buy pigs trotters and chase us round the house with them!

My granddad used to eat tripe.

She did a lot of home baking - cake, rock buns, scones.

Tinned meat like corned beef.

Cod in parsley sauce (boil in the bag).

DeffoNeedANameChange · 10/07/2025 21:53

My other nana, I swear to god I never saw her eat anything that wasn't on toast.

Blarn · 10/07/2025 21:52

Maternal side: very traditional. Meat, potatoes, veg. Meat, potatoes, pickled beetroot in summer. Shepherds pies, homemade chips, stews, roast on a Sunday. Loved cheap sliced bread, I guess the convenience trumped taste (the same way she was aghast that I would willingly use cloth nappies!).

Paternal side: all traditional but would also try lots of new things. She made chocolate mousse, served tacos in the early 1990s when they were very unusual and was the first person to give me Pringles when they started selling them here! She wasn't adverse to trying new foods and loved cooking new recipes.

They both ate breakfast, lunch and dinner though and neither were against snacks of crisps or chocolate bars. Both sets of grandparents were born in the 1920s and I think the rationing had a lasting effect. They bothweee sensible with portions and leftovers and would never eat to excess but enjoyed sweet things (one bought bananas every week) possibly because they remember foods not being freely available.

lljkk · 10/07/2025 21:52

My dad's mom (b. 1925) raised a large family on lots of white bread, white sugar, packaged foods, cheap quality meat. That's what she could afford.

Her last kid was born in 1964 and her cupboards were crammed with packaged instant-mash type foods in the 1970s.

My mom's mom was born 1903 and probably ate a lot more by cooking from scratch, although her cookie jar was full of only store bought cookies in the 1970s.

PassTheCordialCordelia · 10/07/2025 21:52

and lived for thirty years after that just grazing on Mr Kipling cakes and sweet tea.

I can see me skirting horribly close to this Grin

Humour aside, excellent post.

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TheeNotoriousPIG · 10/07/2025 21:52

Oh, and she still keeps dripping in the fridge!

Up until she left home, she drank raw milk straight from the cows or the goat, as she grew up on a small farm.

ManchesterLu · 10/07/2025 21:51

I think the difference is what they put in food these days. The ingredients would have been much purer back then. There's nothing wrong with fat or sugar. And as people have said, they rarely snacked unless on fruit, which was seen as a treat.

Plus, lifestyles were much more active, which balanced things out too.

My granny always tells me how she had to do her washing in the tub and hang it out etc, much more effort needed than these days.

SP2024 · 10/07/2025 21:51

Definitely remember tongue sandwiches 🤢 Plus all bran, lots of vitamins, and lots of tea!

DeffoNeedANameChange · 10/07/2025 21:51

I only just lost my beautiful grandma this year, in her 90s. I don't know what she ate as a child, but as an older lady she was rather fond of m&s ready meals and pre-mixed g&t/Margherita etc in a can ❤️

Ellmau · 10/07/2025 21:51

The other one was a terrible cook who overcooked everything. She served shop bought cakes and malt loaf for tea.

Ellmau · 10/07/2025 21:50

She put milk in her mashed potato, liked rich tea biscuits, and drank sherry every day. Can't remember much else.

Questionsquestions23 · 10/07/2025 21:49

Road kill, I kid you not, if they saw a pheasant that was Sunday lunch.

Gduonloudc · 10/07/2025 21:48

Meat, boiled potatoes and two veg, meat being things like chops and braised cheaper cuts of meat. Fish on Fridays every week. Plate salad in summer with boiled eggs and beetroot with salad cream. Or ploughman's lunch for dinner on a hot day.
Ham egg and chips. Stews and soups. Sometimes a home made corned beef or cheese pie. Corned beef hash. Roast dinner most Sundays with leftovers the next day made into cottage or shepherds pie. Mince and mashed potatoes.
Instant whip or tinned fruit and evaporated milk for pudding.
Home made fruit cake and scones.
Never ever ate rice or pasta. Or yogurt. Never ate snacks like crisps but had a biscuit barrell which would come out along side a big pot of tea. Biscuits were always plain ones like nice biscuits or malted milk.
Breakfast was always cornflakes in summer and porridge in winter with eggs and bacon on weekends.

BogRollBOGOF · 10/07/2025 21:48

It was said that the M&S ready meal was the best thing that ever happened to her diet. She had a reputation for making food inedible with excessive salt or burning things like boiled potatoes. I was in my 20s when she died (b early 1910s) but I never ate anything at her house.
She lived to early 90s, but I only ever remember her (so from early 70s) as a shrunken, little old woman which with hindsight would be poor muscle mass and bone density. She seemed to live a long life based on being in energy conservation mode. Genes probably were on her side; her siblings all made it to their 90s too.

Granddad (other side of the family) was a basic cook- meat, potato 2-veg type. Liked his pints of bitter. Smoker. Lived to 85 when he was taken out quite efficiently by a stroke. He had a fairly active old age until the final week pottering around the shops/ pub daily. It was a shorter old age, but better quality of life.

PracticallyPeapod · 10/07/2025 21:47

summertimeinLondon · 10/07/2025 21:36

The thing about eating like your grandparents is total bollocks. A few rationing years notwithstanding, diet was stunningly bad for most working people in postwar Britain - full of very processed food, tinned/canned stuff, cheap ingredients. A few people might have cooked nice food from scratch, but in their working-class community my grandparents, like most others, ate cheap food that was just as bad or worse than any UPF foods today. Spongy white bread with the cheapest meat paste on it, cheap jam, processed cakes (Mr Kipling and so on), builders’ tea nonstop with four sugars a cup, Fray Bentos pies, crab sticks, deep fried chips, processed hamburgers, Spam, Club and Penguin biscuits. A vegetable or fruit was rarely in evidence apart from a very rare banana, tinned peaches, and the odd glass of Vimto or Ribena (Ribena was originally a wartime supplement designed to stop British children getting scurvy).

Neither of my grandmothers were good cooks. Boiled potatoes (the cheap waxy kind with eyes) and a canned suet pie were their staples. One of my grandmothers simply gave up cooking at all in her sixties, and lived for thirty years after that just grazing on Mr Kipling cakes and sweet tea.

Processed foods made out of industrial food waste are much older than most people think. Why do you think Margaret Thatcher was busy using her chemistry degree working on soft serve ice cream? Cheap meat paste was made from connective tissue meat slurry long before Turkey Twizzlers were invented. Spam and other canned meat products were chock full of processed animal fats. Margarine and lard were staples for baking and for just about everything else.

Cooking decent food from scratch was something that was much more an interest of my parents’ boomer era. If you were middle class or lived in the country between the forties and the nineties then maybe you ate a decent diet. Most postwar working class people really didn’t — same problems as today, in which it was far cheaper to get spongy white bread, tinned food and eat chips, fried egg and marg, than to be eating fresh seasonal produce (plus, before the mid to late 80s/early 90s, air freighted or hydroponic-grown food was quite rare: it wasn’t yet the era of strawberries and grapes all year round).

If you’re wondering why they were less fat than today, it was largely portion size. And in postwar Britain everyone smoked like chimneys. Remember the days when leftovers were the norm? In my childhood it was rare to eat something you liked every day — you ate what was there or what needed using up, not what you fancied.

Today, we not only can access a huge variety of foods, but expect to eat things we feel like eating at every meal, as well as multiple helpings of it. It’s nicer, we don’t smoke so much, we have abundant food, we eat too much as a result. I for one certainly wouldn’t eat as much as I do, if what was on offer was the diced tinned swede, lumpy boiled spuds and grey flat hamburgers with thick Bisto that my maternal grandmother used to produce; or the gristly meat paste sandwiches on cheap Kwik Save bread that my paternal grandmother used to dish up. (Even with a Blue Riband biscuit or a Mr Kipling fruit pie with Elmlea for afters.)

Edited

Totally agree with this. We now give kids meals they actually like. Even if they’re healthy meals they eat too much which is why even middle class kids are overweight.

When I was a kid most meals were plain and boring - mince in Oxo, lumpy mash, lentil soups.

SabrinaThwaite · 10/07/2025 21:47

Allseeingallknowing · 10/07/2025 21:16

Yes, boiled, eaten on their own, using fingers!

As they say, you can eat everything apart from the oink.

My DM made a great pig’s head brawn.

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