BIL is refusing to come to our house to visit the kids ( 20 month old twins).
He has only ever met them once in a car park when they were 3 months old.
BIL is insisting that DH brings them miles away to the house of the mothers of his younger kids.
I find this really strange as DH has always visited his kids regularly.
Apparently BIL dosent like me and believes I have “taken his brother away” from him since we have had the children.
I also refused any of the mothers of his his numerous kids to meet DC when they were born as they are no relation to DC and I don’t want to be involved or getting DC involved in dramas with the mother of his children, - something he didn’t like.
I have told DH to do what he wants but to not expect me to make any kind of effort with BIL’s kids or to buy them Xmas and birthday presents as he usually does.
AIBU?
I am quite surprised at BIL’s attitude as I haven’t seen him properly for 3 years other than the car park.
I don’t know what I have done wrong.