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To aka what you think to this change of school uniform??

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HappyDaze1997 · 09/07/2025 23:40

Just curious.

My Dc primary school have announced that they’ll be changing the school uniform from September. From white polos to royal blue. With leggings, shorts, or black leggings. With plain black trainers.and their usual school jumper / Cardigan which is also royal blue . It’s for everyday of the week.. it’s to fit in with their out door play etc. lots of parents annoyed as they’ve already bought new school uniform ahead of time before it was announced.

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DashboardConfession · 12/07/2025 22:34

Spirallingdownwards · 12/07/2025 22:16

Yellow sweat marks? Even my teen boys never had those.

Good for you!

Spirallingdownwards · 12/07/2025 22:16

DashboardConfession · 10/07/2025 19:05

I disagree. Nothing but nothing gets black pen or yellow sweat marks on the collar out of the white polo DS wears one day a week for PE.but I definitely agree the OP should have been told in February, at latest.

I'm another who doesn't understand why 5-10 year olds need to look "smart". DS wears black school shorts, a red polo and black trainer-like shoes in this weather and looks absolutely fine, as do the girls in black cycling shorts and a polo or a dress. As long as it's the right colour and keeps them identifiable on school trips, who cares?

Secondary school kids look bad enough in ties, let alone primary kids.

Yellow sweat marks? Even my teen boys never had those.

user2848502016 · 10/07/2025 20:38

Much better, white polos are a PITA to wash, you’ll be able to stick everything in together now!

Agree they should have announced it earlier though and have a year of transition at least so that older kids can carry on wearing white polos that still fit

londongirl12 · 10/07/2025 19:38

I’d love to get away from white polos!!!

Zanatdy · 10/07/2025 19:21

I think its a good move, but should have been announced months ago.

JustSawJohnny · 10/07/2025 19:16

namechangeGOT · 10/07/2025 14:56

Leggings on small children are comfortable and pratical but by all means let’s stick little children in crap looking school skirts and trousers because JustSawJohnny thinks that 6 year olds in leggings look ‘chavvy’ 🙄

When a thread literally asks you what you think but people cry over what you think because boo hoo opinions 🙄

Loads of Primary uniforms look chavvy now. I hated my son's polos but at least they could wear smart shorts, which looked nice. Hardly anyone bought a sweatshirt or fleece because we all thought they looked crap. 99% of parents stuck to a smart red v neck jumper in winter instead because, well, choices and yes, opinions!

ClareBlue · 10/07/2025 19:07

Depth of Education rec 12 to 18 months to change uniform to avoid waste and financial burden on parents.

DashboardConfession · 10/07/2025 19:05

Spirallingdownwards · 10/07/2025 17:00

I disagree that blue is better than white from a stain perspective. White you can use stai removers and bleach based cleaners and bung in a hot wash and get rid of most any stain. Blue you can't.

I disagree. Nothing but nothing gets black pen or yellow sweat marks on the collar out of the white polo DS wears one day a week for PE.but I definitely agree the OP should have been told in February, at latest.

I'm another who doesn't understand why 5-10 year olds need to look "smart". DS wears black school shorts, a red polo and black trainer-like shoes in this weather and looks absolutely fine, as do the girls in black cycling shorts and a polo or a dress. As long as it's the right colour and keeps them identifiable on school trips, who cares?

Secondary school kids look bad enough in ties, let alone primary kids.

namechangeGOT · 10/07/2025 18:55

Jumpthewaves · 10/07/2025 15:55

Dd loves wearing a skirt, she finds leggings too close.

But I bet she doesn’t look ‘chavvy’ in either?!

TizerorFizz · 10/07/2025 18:49

@crumblingschools Never saw large numbers doing that in any school DDs attended or where I was a governor. Yes a few and they wear shorts under a dress. They appeared to be happy dressed as girls!

BleakHoose · 10/07/2025 18:19

Both my kid at primary and my kids at secondary have a casual uniform, especially the secondary school one. I like it, it's comfortable, and means more clothes can be used both inside and outside of school.

I agree they should have a transition period though.

Choppedcoriander · 10/07/2025 17:27

The uniform is ok, but the lack of notice is a problem. I think joggers are much better than leggings, though. Shorts for all are good, too.

RandomUsernameHere · 10/07/2025 17:17

Sounds like a great idea, it’s so much easier just to have one uniform rather than uniform and PE kit. They should allow children to wear the old uniform until it needs replacing though.

Spirallingdownwards · 10/07/2025 17:00

I disagree that blue is better than white from a stain perspective. White you can use stai removers and bleach based cleaners and bung in a hot wash and get rid of most any stain. Blue you can't.

YouCantBeSadHoldingACupcake · 10/07/2025 16:57

Should have given more notice, but the uniform itself sounds more practical than most, especially for younger children

Needmorelego · 10/07/2025 16:18

@HappyDaze1997 it sounds like parents should (very quickly as it's practically the end of term) contact the head and give their thoughts.
The most obvious to me should be that the bottom half of the uniform should be one colour (black?) and the children can choose between formal school trousers, formal school shorts, formal skirts, formal pinafore, formal culottes.
OR
leggings, pe shorts, trackies.
If it's black....then let them choose whatever style they are most comfortable with.

(Shoes should be suitable for outside play so trainers best.
Summer dresses/playsuits should be allowed.)

Jumpthewaves · 10/07/2025 15:55

namechangeGOT · 10/07/2025 14:56

Leggings on small children are comfortable and pratical but by all means let’s stick little children in crap looking school skirts and trousers because JustSawJohnny thinks that 6 year olds in leggings look ‘chavvy’ 🙄

Dd loves wearing a skirt, she finds leggings too close.

namechangeGOT · 10/07/2025 14:56

JustSawJohnny · 10/07/2025 00:14

Honestly? Sounds chavvy.

Leggings?!!

Leggings on small children are comfortable and pratical but by all means let’s stick little children in crap looking school skirts and trousers because JustSawJohnny thinks that 6 year olds in leggings look ‘chavvy’ 🙄

ShallIstart · 10/07/2025 14:44

I would be really happy.
We moved schools and went from coloured polo to white. The coloured ones are so much better to hide stains.
Joggers or leggings with trainers are a great idea for kids.

Away2000 · 10/07/2025 14:41

TizerorFizz · 10/07/2025 09:21

@TheNightingalesStarling My children got changed for PE! Even in YR. Why do dc have to go to school in PE kit? Mine liked skirts and pinafores too. This uniform is being brought in because dc haven’t been taught to dress themselves! So all have to wear black leggings?! Awful.

Probably because the school think being dressed for active playing is more important than looking smart…

LavenderBlue19 · 10/07/2025 14:37

They should allow a year of either/both as a crossover, I would be annoyed too.

However, changing to a more comfortable (and less white) uniform is definitely a good thing. I'm really hoping our school will do the same soon - they're talking about it as a way to get kids to be more active. My son hates his school trousers/shorts, they're uncomfy material and always too big on the waist (even adjusted) so he runs holding them up. Much happier on PE kit days.

If anyone knows how to get whiteboard pen out of white shirts, please do let me know because ours get ruined on a regular basis and it's a fucking pain. No-one would put small children in white at any other time. In fact I never wear white myself, I can't be trusted!

TheNightingalesStarling · 10/07/2025 14:33

DappledThings · 10/07/2025 14:06

Our school has all the options of skirts, pinafores, trousers, shorts, summer gingham dresses and those gingham playsuits. The latter being not official uniform but never been a problem.

The majority of girls choose skirts and dresses and some of them choose to wear cycling shorts under the summer dresses. Nearly all of them spend their break times cartwheeling and swinging on the bars upside down whenever they can. Unhindered by their skirts.

Choice is important. I don't see why skirts need to be banned as long as shorts and trousers are also an option

I think its clear they want the kids ready for the outdoor activities like PE or forest school at any time. Activities that skirts are not usually worn for.

They may not object to PE Skorts for example

alsobigofboob · 10/07/2025 14:19

Our primary school changed the uniform a few years ago. We were told in the February that polos would be yellow instead of red but that it wouldn’t be officially changed until August when the kids returned from summer holidays. This gave plenty time to adjust and plan for the change. It doesn’t seem right that your school are giving you 4 weeks notice (or whenever your school returns after summer). As others have said, a grace period should be allowed.

rainylake · 10/07/2025 14:14

I think the lack of notice and not allowing children to wear the old uniform until they've grown out of it is definitely unreasonable.

I'm baffled by posters complaining about children of primary age wearing leggings, shorts, and joggers though. I'd be horrified by a school which puts 4 year olds into tiny versions of old fashioned workwear with blazers, ties, and smart trousers. They should be running about and playing, getting their shoes scuffed by climbing and kicking balls at breaktime, wearing clothes that let them run and balance and jump. They should also be feeling comfortable in their clothes so that they can focus on learning. That is far more important than looking 'smart' according to some outdated adult dress code (how many of us wear blazers and formal trousers to work these days anyway?)

I'm extremely grateful to the Head of our school for her good sense whenever I read uniform threads. The children are allowed to wear either a school coloured or a white polo, they don't fuss about what they have on their legs as long as it is black or navy (and as an earlier uniform code used to specify grey, they also allow grey indefinitely as people pass down old grey trousers and shorts, recognising that reusing clothes is both better for the environment and for families' finances) and if girls want to wear a dress they can, but if they prefer not to they don't have to.

crumblingschools · 10/07/2025 14:12

I'm wondering whether getting rid of dresses and skirts removes the thorny issue of whether boys can wear them.

I know after COVID DS's school (a private school which had quite rigid uniform policy split between girls and boys) relaxed their stance and it became a single policy. It included skirts/skorts but didn't specify these were just for girls. Boys used to have to have hair off the collar but that restriction was removed and long hair was allowed for anyone but had to be tied back if a certain length or during science etc.