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To think children shouldn’t be naked at the beach?

180 replies

Dolliebobs · 09/07/2025 18:05

Been at the beach most of the day and I can not believe how many small children are walking around completely naked. Is this still a thing?

OP posts:
legolegoeverywhereandnotadroptodrink · 09/07/2025 19:14

ah and here’s me thinking peados enjoy pictures of children being abused. Didn’t realise watching them
play on a beach was dark web fodder

TonTonMacoute · 09/07/2025 19:13

I’m torn on this, and think little ones look so cute naked - it’s the way they are so completely unselfconscious about it.

DS loved running around naked in summer in our garden, but I was always more careful in public places, more because I know some people don’t approve rather than any fear of paedophiles. I think a lot of people worry about toileting accidents and don’t particularly want to see that!

Orderofthephoenixparody · 09/07/2025 19:13

Papering · 09/07/2025 18:06

Why not?

Potential sunburn

minnienono · 09/07/2025 19:13

Completely normal in many countries, and I should add there’s nothing wrong with adults being naked either on designated beaches, i personally like swimming in the sea sans clothing

Hobnobswantshernameback · 09/07/2025 19:12

Why else would anyone post this?
and even if the op is "innocent " the sort of grim weirdos posts like this attracts is 🤢🤢🤢

SerafinasGoose · 09/07/2025 19:10

Hobnobswantshernameback · 09/07/2025 19:08

One post wonder op gets all the wank fodder they need without any effort 🤢🤢🤢

I wasn't about to type this openly. It's impossible to be sure. But it's very, very interesting how quickly the 'apologists' home in to threads of this nature.

PeapodMcgee · 09/07/2025 19:09

fuzzyfeltfan · 09/07/2025 19:05

ffs even your username is an anagram of peado!

Look up 'what is an anagram' again...

SerafinasGoose · 09/07/2025 19:09

fuzzyfeltfan · 09/07/2025 19:08

im starting to think many posters on this thread are not and it needs reporting.

I am quietly suspecting that some of them need their hard drives checked.

Sadly, it's a pattern on these threads.

Notouchingmybhuna · 09/07/2025 19:09

fuzzyfeltfan · 09/07/2025 19:08

im starting to think many posters on this thread are not and it needs reporting.

Yep-there are no way some of these posts are real.

SerafinasGoose · 09/07/2025 19:08

PeapodMcgee · 09/07/2025 18:58

Nope, if someone is sad enough to snap my naked child, it's none of our business. Pathetic dicks. I will not curb our freedom out of fear. I say that as an abuse survivor with years of therapy behind me, by the way. I dare you to come at me.

I think those worried about image capture would be best to buy a few of these, given how skimpy and figure-hugging children's swimwear is, and how easy Photoshop manipulation is..

I'll willingly come at you. I was also a victim of child abuse and was twice raped - I've written about this at length on this site. It's not a get out of jail free card.

I believe you are wrong, misguided, and that this is a dereliction of basic parenting. That the child doesn't know images of its genitalia are circulating on the dark web does not make this any less of a violation. It's only responsible to protect children from any risk of this eventuality.

The skimpy, sexualisation of children's clothes is a separate issue and also unconscionable.

fuzzyfeltfan · 09/07/2025 19:08

Dominoeffecter · 09/07/2025 19:06

Are you for real??

im starting to think many posters on this thread are not and it needs reporting.

Coolpotatoface · 09/07/2025 19:08

DwarfBeans · 09/07/2025 18:26

I’m guessing the posters shrugging have never been abused themselves.

Weird how they can’t see that they could attract the wrong person who could take photos or god forbid become obsessed. Stop being lazy and at least put pants on your child. If you don’t care about predators then at the very least it will stop them getting sand up their arse.

So only people who have being abused should think this is wrong? Weird perception.

Hobnobswantshernameback · 09/07/2025 19:08

One post wonder op gets all the wank fodder they need without any effort 🤢🤢🤢

Dominoeffecter · 09/07/2025 19:06

fuzzyfeltfan · 09/07/2025 19:05

ffs even your username is an anagram of peado!

Are you for real??

alexalisten · 09/07/2025 19:06

fuzzyfeltfan · 09/07/2025 19:05

ffs even your username is an anagram of peado!

🤣🤣🤣

Dominoeffecter · 09/07/2025 19:06

YABVVU and a bit odd frankly 🤢

Hedgehogshelp · 09/07/2025 19:05

10-20 years ago I would be fine - but there are so many openly perverse people these days I wouldn’t allow my child to be naked sadly

fuzzyfeltfan · 09/07/2025 19:05

PeapodMcgee · 09/07/2025 18:58

Nope, if someone is sad enough to snap my naked child, it's none of our business. Pathetic dicks. I will not curb our freedom out of fear. I say that as an abuse survivor with years of therapy behind me, by the way. I dare you to come at me.

I think those worried about image capture would be best to buy a few of these, given how skimpy and figure-hugging children's swimwear is, and how easy Photoshop manipulation is..

ffs even your username is an anagram of peado!

alexalisten · 09/07/2025 19:05

PeapodMcgee · 09/07/2025 18:58

Nope, if someone is sad enough to snap my naked child, it's none of our business. Pathetic dicks. I will not curb our freedom out of fear. I say that as an abuse survivor with years of therapy behind me, by the way. I dare you to come at me.

I think those worried about image capture would be best to buy a few of these, given how skimpy and figure-hugging children's swimwear is, and how easy Photoshop manipulation is..

You dont speak for all abuse survivors. It absolutely is my business if anyone is taking photos of my child naked. My job as a parent is to protect them

SerafinasGoose · 09/07/2025 19:04

fuzzyfeltfan · 09/07/2025 18:45

So its ok for the child's image to be used by some pervert to get off on as long as the child doesn't know.
Wow, are you on a fkin wind up.
The mind boggles.

I'm not sure where these apologists have come from on this site of late - or how they manage to home in on these threads like messenger pigeons within minutes of they're appearance - but they are there and becoming more common.

Witness the thread some weeks ago in which an OP was advised to allow her child to have contact with a father at her child's school, a paedophile, because he'd paid his dues and 'deserves a chance to rehabilitate'. With someone else's child as his stalking horse.

Fuck. That. And it wasn't just a rogue poster making that point, either. So - either this is an even more common phenomenon than I previously thought, or women - and mothers - will fall over themselves to facilitate men's sexual predilections and make every excuse for them in the book.

They're out there, and it's necessary that people here should know they are out there.

MorningLarkEchoes · 09/07/2025 18:59

Papering · 09/07/2025 18:10

I think you have a very simplistic view of how predators think and behave.

And I’m amazed at the naivety of some people.

PeapodMcgee · 09/07/2025 18:58

fuzzyfeltfan · 09/07/2025 18:54

well it sounds like some of the parents on here wouldn't give a shit if peados were using their kids images.

Nope, if someone is sad enough to snap my naked child, it's none of our business. Pathetic dicks. I will not curb our freedom out of fear. I say that as an abuse survivor with years of therapy behind me, by the way. I dare you to come at me.

I think those worried about image capture would be best to buy a few of these, given how skimpy and figure-hugging children's swimwear is, and how easy Photoshop manipulation is..

To think children shouldn’t be naked at the beach?
Ymiryboo · 09/07/2025 18:55

The vast bast majority of SA happens within the home and with people known to the children. Children are snatched or abused by complete strangers in exceptionally rare cases due how to abuse works.

As long as you are talking to your children about consent in an age appropriate way and body autonomy I see no reason why they shouldn't be naked if they want and are appropriately protected from the sun.

I am much more concerned about the lack of sea and cliff/cave safety amongst society and the risks people take with their kids.

fuzzyfeltfan · 09/07/2025 18:54

Notouchingmybhuna · 09/07/2025 18:29

It’s all part of the cool mum persona. People have such a sanitised view of the modern world and where these pictures can end up and in what form. I’d love to see the real reactions if the police knocked on their door to inform them images of their naked toddler were part of a wider investigation.

well it sounds like some of the parents on here wouldn't give a shit if peados were using their kids images.

MidnightPatrol · 09/07/2025 18:53

thischarmimgwoman · 09/07/2025 18:49

You can get plenty of sun exposure whilst wearing knickers and a vest.

I’m replying to a poster saying children need to be wearing rash vests / suits to protect them from UV, not saying they need to be completely naked to get some sun exposure.

The British children are always very obvious abroad - in their ankle to neck swim suits and hats. It’s from one extreme to another IMO (and I am guilty of it too…!)