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To carry hairspray in my pocket

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Cocktailsonthebeachy · 08/07/2025 20:53

and a big stick…when I go on dog walks, just me and my 6 year old.

I live next to woods and fields, a beautiful place and usually Dh and I take the dog there and our 6 year old, I always feel very relaxed and happy when it’s all of us.

Occasionally if Dh is working late all week, I go on my own with Dd and DDog and I put a small hairspray in my pocket and usually pick up a large stick on my walk from the ground
I don’t find these walks relaxing and it annoys me that I can’t feel as free. It’s unlikely anything were to happen, but if it did, it would be hard for anyone to hear me shout or to get to a safer point quickly

Is it normal to think/act like this? Would you do the same, would you even go in the woods in the first place?

OP posts:
Cocktailsonthebeachy · 08/07/2025 20:55

Lots of our neighbours take the dogs there and I notice some women when on their own or they go running there etc, wish I could feel that free

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SaintGermain · 08/07/2025 20:55

I’m out in the wilds every day and have yet to be murdered or in fact see anyone else most days.

SaintGermain · 08/07/2025 20:54

You are being ridiculous!

Hairspray will do nothing except maybe make the rabid killer you imagine is hiding in the trees, keep his hair in place.

You are safer where you are than walking through a busy city nowadays.