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To be suspicious about these very similar posts

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FfaCoff · 08/07/2025 19:29

All in AIBU, all following a similar formula all with names that are very formulaic too - 3 random words.

So is it mumsnet planting AI written posts to generate discussion?

The same person constantly name changing?

What do we reckon?

To be suspicious about these very similar posts
OP posts:
LavenderBlue19 · 08/07/2025 20:19

BedlingtonWillow · 08/07/2025 20:16

So I asked it to generate a typical Mumsnet post which I’ll paste below. It’s got a lot of typical tells, but bear in mind it’s unedited and a lot of people who use AI will edit it a little to try and make it more obvious:

Subject: AIBU to be annoyed about DH’s idea of “babysitting” his own kids?

Hi all,

Bit of a rant incoming – sorry in advance!

So DH (darling husband – although “darling” is doing a LOT of heavy lifting right now) has just texted me at work saying he’s “babysitting” the kids tonight so I can go to my friend’s birthday dinner. Which, on the face of it, sounds nice… except THEY’RE HIS CHILDREN TOO.

I mean, how is it babysitting when it’s literally just… parenting? He acts like he deserves a medal every time he’s left alone with them for more than an hour. Meanwhile, I’m expected to juggle work, school runs, packed lunches, laundry, and organising a birthday party for 25 sugar-fuelled six-year-olds while also pretending to enjoy the 17 WhatsApp group chats I’ve somehow ended up in.

Also, let’s be real – by “babysitting” he means letting them stay up late eating Wotsits while he watches Match of the Day and pretends he can’t hear the three-year-old shouting that she’s weed on the carpet again.

AIBU to find this infuriating?

(Also, just to add – he’s a decent dad most of the time and I do love him, but this mindset is driving me round the bend.)

This reads so much like so many posts on here at the moment 😂

BedlingtonWillow · 08/07/2025 20:18

AmadeustheAlpaca · 08/07/2025 20:16

Yep, there seems to be more and more AI generated posts as well as posts that are clearly made up, possibly by a human being. Then there's all the rude nasty replies when someone posts about a perfectly reasonable topic. Clearly meant to create discussion.
My personal strong dislikes are all the adverts for clothes and beauty products masquerading as genuine queries eg 'What do you think of this dress as a wedding guest outfit" or 'Did you know that a particular shop now sells xyz, it's really helped my skin' etc.

I think, even before AI Mumsnet had plants posting as genuine users, not that they’d admit it.

I also swear that they just repost old threads sometimes but with an update date. Like I can remember the initial posts and all of the subsequent replies!

aGirlLikeJesamine · 08/07/2025 20:18

i am sure i read an thread here, and it was later in a paper, of some sort,
favourite bbc personalities, lots of similarities including Jane somebody, Danny Dyer
weird

MyDogHumpsThings · 08/07/2025 20:18

Wow, that AI-generated post is right on the money!!

AmadeustheAlpaca · 08/07/2025 20:16

Yep, there seems to be more and more AI generated posts as well as posts that are clearly made up, possibly by a human being. Then there's all the rude nasty replies when someone posts about a perfectly reasonable topic. Clearly meant to create discussion.
My personal strong dislikes are all the adverts for clothes and beauty products masquerading as genuine queries eg 'What do you think of this dress as a wedding guest outfit" or 'Did you know that a particular shop now sells xyz, it's really helped my skin' etc.

BedlingtonWillow · 08/07/2025 20:16

ChoccieCornflake · 08/07/2025 20:13

Awesome, thanks!

So I asked it to generate a typical Mumsnet post which I’ll paste below. It’s got a lot of typical tells, but bear in mind it’s unedited and a lot of people who use AI will edit it a little to try and make it more obvious:

Subject: AIBU to be annoyed about DH’s idea of “babysitting” his own kids?

Hi all,

Bit of a rant incoming – sorry in advance!

So DH (darling husband – although “darling” is doing a LOT of heavy lifting right now) has just texted me at work saying he’s “babysitting” the kids tonight so I can go to my friend’s birthday dinner. Which, on the face of it, sounds nice… except THEY’RE HIS CHILDREN TOO.

I mean, how is it babysitting when it’s literally just… parenting? He acts like he deserves a medal every time he’s left alone with them for more than an hour. Meanwhile, I’m expected to juggle work, school runs, packed lunches, laundry, and organising a birthday party for 25 sugar-fuelled six-year-olds while also pretending to enjoy the 17 WhatsApp group chats I’ve somehow ended up in.

Also, let’s be real – by “babysitting” he means letting them stay up late eating Wotsits while he watches Match of the Day and pretends he can’t hear the three-year-old shouting that she’s weed on the carpet again.

AIBU to find this infuriating?

(Also, just to add – he’s a decent dad most of the time and I do love him, but this mindset is driving me round the bend.)

MyDogHumpsThings · 08/07/2025 20:16

ChoccieCornflake · 08/07/2025 20:04

We need an AI-spotters checklist! 😀

None of these things are “proof” in-and-of-themselves, but the typical hallmarks of AI-generated text (particularly ChatGPT) are:

  1. em-dashes—e.g., a double dash, often without a space before and after, like this.
  2. US spellings.
  3. Tripartite lists (I’m crossing my fingers, legs, and eyes).
  4. Oxford comma (example above)
  5. Very structured text - lots of headed paragraphs, particularly when the subheaders are bold.
  6. Concluding sentences at the end of most paragraphs.
  7. Might refer to “experts” or “studies” without specifying what they were, though this is also so common with humans that it might not belong in this list!
  8. Often follows a rigid format: introduction, three body points, conclusion — even when not appropriate.
  9. Each paragraph may be the same length or rhythmically similar.

I used AI to generate the last two points. 😅

ChoccieCornflake · 08/07/2025 20:13

BedlingtonWillow · 08/07/2025 20:12

Lots of em dashes is a good one. As is overly “neutral” language.

Lots of fillers.
Starting with phrases like “okay so” or let’s be honest.”

Repetition and filler.

Lack of personality, but also too much personality that doesn’t seem authentic.

But really, it’s just that if you read a lot of it, you can just tell. It all sounds very same-y in a way I find hard to pinpoint but can pretty regularly spot!

Awesome, thanks!

BedlingtonWillow · 08/07/2025 20:12

MyDogHumpsThings · 08/07/2025 20:07

It wasn’t religious. The layout was so formulaic, particularly the layout of the various rebuttals.

Ah, there was a religious one that had the same issues. They were also able to write really long replies really fast, which was another tell.

ChoccieCornflake · 08/07/2025 20:12

WhistlingStraits · 08/07/2025 20:10

Yes! Or ‘cube of poo’ or ‘tiny Korean woman’ 😂

Cube of poo?! Heck that sounds like a good one and I've clearly missed it!

BedlingtonWillow · 08/07/2025 20:12

ChoccieCornflake · 08/07/2025 20:04

We need an AI-spotters checklist! 😀

Lots of em dashes is a good one. As is overly “neutral” language.

Lots of fillers.
Starting with phrases like “okay so” or let’s be honest.”

Repetition and filler.

Lack of personality, but also too much personality that doesn’t seem authentic.

But really, it’s just that if you read a lot of it, you can just tell. It all sounds very same-y in a way I find hard to pinpoint but can pretty regularly spot!

realsavagelike · 08/07/2025 20:11

FfaCoff · 08/07/2025 19:53

Well the user name generator sort of makes it odder - people signing up with new accounts starting very similar posts?? And yes, the op either only posts once or twice or disappears completely.

If you read People.com you'll find a lot of stories lifted from Mumsnet

WhistlingStraits · 08/07/2025 20:10

ChoccieCornflake · 08/07/2025 19:58

I'm starting to think the only posts worth replying to are ones where the OP has either posted a few times on the tread already, or showed some other sign of being a regular. Bring back the days of stating "cutted up pear, sistine chapel, penis beaker" to establish one's credentials! 😀

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Yes! Or ‘cube of poo’ or ‘tiny Korean woman’ 😂

MyDogHumpsThings · 08/07/2025 20:07

BedlingtonWillow · 08/07/2025 20:01

Was it a post with a religious theme? If so it was blatantly AI, but then tons of posts on here are blatantly AI these days. As someone who works with AI daily, I can spot them a mile off and I have to sit on my hands not to say anything.

It wasn’t religious. The layout was so formulaic, particularly the layout of the various rebuttals.

PiggyPigalle · 08/07/2025 20:07

They're suggested names when joining. Newspapers are using that system too.

FfaCoff · 08/07/2025 20:06

LavenderBlue19 · 08/07/2025 20:01

It's generated content to drive traffic to the site. If it becomes popular it will then appear on the Mumsnet Facebook page, and might get picked up as a 'news' story which then brings more traffic to the site and increases ad revenue.

If it's free, you're the product...

I actually wouldn't object if Mumsnet were honest about it though? They should post it from a Mumsnet account. It feels deceitful (if it is them)

OP posts:
ChoccieCornflake · 08/07/2025 20:04

BedlingtonWillow · 08/07/2025 20:01

Was it a post with a religious theme? If so it was blatantly AI, but then tons of posts on here are blatantly AI these days. As someone who works with AI daily, I can spot them a mile off and I have to sit on my hands not to say anything.

We need an AI-spotters checklist! 😀

Mingenious · 08/07/2025 20:03

That’s definitely weird!

SparklyGlitterballs · 08/07/2025 20:03

Unless it's a very new post with few replies then I look to see if the OP has a "see next" on their first post. If it's several pages and OP hasn't returned then I don't even bother reading it.

WhistlingStraits · 08/07/2025 20:02

Well spotted. Definitely.

LavenderBlue19 · 08/07/2025 20:01

It's generated content to drive traffic to the site. If it becomes popular it will then appear on the Mumsnet Facebook page, and might get picked up as a 'news' story which then brings more traffic to the site and increases ad revenue.

If it's free, you're the product...

BedlingtonWillow · 08/07/2025 20:01

MyDogHumpsThings · 08/07/2025 19:46

There has been at least one post on here that generated a LOT of traffic in which I suspect the poster used AI to write the original post and most replies. It was pretty ridiculous. I have a suspicion that either mumsnet or an external party could be harvesting “advice”-type of text to create a bot of some kind.

Was it a post with a religious theme? If so it was blatantly AI, but then tons of posts on here are blatantly AI these days. As someone who works with AI daily, I can spot them a mile off and I have to sit on my hands not to say anything.

ChoccieCornflake · 08/07/2025 19:58

I'm starting to think the only posts worth replying to are ones where the OP has either posted a few times on the tread already, or showed some other sign of being a regular. Bring back the days of stating "cutted up pear, sistine chapel, penis beaker" to establish one's credentials! 😀

FfaCoff · 08/07/2025 19:53

Well the user name generator sort of makes it odder - people signing up with new accounts starting very similar posts?? And yes, the op either only posts once or twice or disappears completely.

OP posts:
ChoccieCornflake · 08/07/2025 19:47

The thing giving me the suss these days is an OP posting some issue they want advice on and then never coming back. Journalists trawling for stories vibes! Seem to be loads of them recently!