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To refuse to buy bleach?

420 replies

Eastie77Returns · 08/07/2025 11:41

First world problem alert.

Our cleaner has asked demanded that I add Domestos bleach to my cleaning products. There's been a bit of an ongoing issue for a while now as I have trialed various eco-friendly cleaning products over the last few months and she generally doesn't like them. I have changed a couple of times in the hope she will get on better with a new range but she has a preference for products that contain high levels of chemicals. I understand they are the go-too products that she trusts but I just don't want to use them.

At the moment she is begrudgingly using the Ecover products I most recently bought. Now she is insisting she needs bleach to clean properly because Ecover doesn't really cut it. I said no as I just can't have it in the house. The smell is one thing but it's so toxic and dangerous (I'm absolutely haunted by an acquaintance whose young child inhaled some). She is a really good cleaner and in high demand. I'm aware she's already given notice to two households on our street because they did not fall in line with her requests (not cleaning product related, something else).

Has anyone used any of the 'natural' bleach products currently out there and were they effective?

OP posts:
myplace · 08/07/2025 12:55

What hygiene risk is there from sink overflows and drains? You don’t stick your hands in them or eat off them. They don’t need to be sterile.

An occasional splash of hot water, or vinegar and bicarb, will prevent any build up and odours.

Bleach kills wildlife.

ArtTheClown · 08/07/2025 12:55

I have a septic tank so bleach is a no, and our house is spotless. A friend actually runs a cleaning company and she won't let her cleaners use bleach because of the risk of damage to some surfaces.

Bananalanacake · 08/07/2025 12:53

Does it have to be Domestos, Would a Tesco value brand be OK for her,

myplace · 08/07/2025 12:52

I don’t use it, except specifically for bleaching whites once a year and mildew in window corners. Sealant doesn’t really work as it’s in and behind it where the bleach can’t get. I remove the sealant and resell when it happens. Best way to avoid it on the shower/bath is to wipe it dry after use.

I do get build up under the water line of the loo, especially since I swapped to silicone loo brush. Basically you need the power of a nylon brush regularly and/or bleach monthly below the waterline.

Tryingtokeepgoing · 08/07/2025 12:51

ByLemonFish · 08/07/2025 12:31

Quite right, Good cleaners don't use bleach
Plus she obviously isn't insured. If she was she wouldn't be using bleach

I don't understand people who employ cleaners who don't have insurance.

Accidents happen and can be extremely costly

I'd be looking for someone else

Obvious in what way that she's not insured...? Many policies include it, and y you should be making sure that that they have a "damage to property worked on extension, which I would expect any reputable cleaner to have, and which would cover any damage caused by bleach

DancingNotDrowning · 08/07/2025 12:49

I’m always using bleach - amazed so many people aren’t.

mostly I use it for disinfectant - it goes in the toilets and round/down plug holes. It stops sealant going mouldy and keeps sinks clean.

but then I’m definitely not prepared to use elbow grease and I’m quite sure my (also very demanding) cleaner would leave if I refused to buy it.

Tryingtokeepgoing · 08/07/2025 12:46

tempacct · 08/07/2025 12:26

It bleaches stains and discolouration

Sodium hypochlorite, the active ingredient in most domestic bleaches, also disolves organic matter, so it does rather more than bleach stains!

queenofthesuburbs · 08/07/2025 12:44

Apparently bleach free toilet cleaners are a lot more toxic than bleach.

PersephoneSeethes · 08/07/2025 12:42

tempacct · 08/07/2025 12:28

It removes stains and discolouration from surfaces, grout, plugholes etc

PinkStuff paste, gloves, a power brush and a green scouring pad works wonders for these spots.

ParadiseLaundry · 08/07/2025 12:42

I'm all for natural cleaning products wherever possible but I do understand her need for a bit of bleach as nothing beats it for certain jobs.

You said she's a good cleaner so I would just suck it up and buy it, maybe just ask her to use it in moderation if you're worried.

PrepStarRunner · 08/07/2025 12:40

YANBU as others have said bleach is not a cleaner - just a disinfectant and a bleaching agent. Most of the time even when it makes stains disappear it hasn't actually stopped the root cause anyway.

Time to get a new cleaner.

ButtSurgery · 08/07/2025 12:39

tempacct · 08/07/2025 12:28

It removes stains and discolouration from surfaces, grout, plugholes etc

I don't get any of that though? How are you getting these things stained so badly that only bleach works?

I use bar keepers friend on my kitchen sink for tea stains, and that's about it. A basic scrub with a scrubber and soapy water does for everything else.

Isthisnormal10000 · 08/07/2025 12:38

Find a nee cleaner. Some specialise in eco friendly product usage.

Eastie77Returns · 08/07/2025 12:35

JudgeBread · 08/07/2025 12:33

You know that all the "natural" cleaning products you've bought also contain chemicals right?

If you don't want to have bleach in your house that's fine and your choice, but if she feels she can't do her job properly without it you're obviously not a good fit for eachother! Might be time to shop around for a new cleaner.

Yes, I'm aware they are not 100% natural.

OP posts:
JudgeBread · 08/07/2025 12:33

You know that all the "natural" cleaning products you've bought also contain chemicals right?

If you don't want to have bleach in your house that's fine and your choice, but if she feels she can't do her job properly without it you're obviously not a good fit for eachother! Might be time to shop around for a new cleaner.

Zebedee999 · 08/07/2025 12:33

sorrynotathome · 08/07/2025 11:50

I have never bought bleach and I'm over 60. There is no need if you're prepared to use elbow grease.

Largely you are right. But bleach is great down the plug holes when they start to smell, or under toilet rim and so on.

ByLemonFish · 08/07/2025 12:31

gamerchick · 08/07/2025 12:13

Good cleaners don't use bleach. The bloody stuff doesn't clean. What on earth is she using it on?

Quite right, Good cleaners don't use bleach
Plus she obviously isn't insured. If she was she wouldn't be using bleach

I don't understand people who employ cleaners who don't have insurance.

Accidents happen and can be extremely costly

I'd be looking for someone else

tempacct · 08/07/2025 12:28

ButtSurgery · 08/07/2025 12:15

I haven't bought bleach in over 20 years. What is everyone using it for?!

It removes stains and discolouration from surfaces, grout, plugholes etc

Bimblebombles · 08/07/2025 12:27

Weird. I would stand my ground on this. I couldn't tell the difference between a counter top or floor cleaned with hot soapy water and one cleaned with bleach.

YANBU for wanting to reduce harsh chemicals in your home.

tempacct · 08/07/2025 12:26

Flippityflops · 08/07/2025 12:19

I didnt think that bleach actually cleans but stops germs?!!!

It bleaches stains and discolouration

Stef3 · 08/07/2025 12:23

I never use bleach personally but our cleaner does and it does make a difference - makes the sink a bright white and shiny again. I have yet to come across really effective eco cleaning products unfortunately so keen to hear about any too.

eqpi4t2hbsnktd · 08/07/2025 12:23

I do think I would want bleach if I was scrubbing someone else's poo.

DiscoBob · 08/07/2025 12:23

It's your house so why does she care if you want Eccover etc only?

You're not claiming the house is dirty after she's used it are you?

She sounds crap if she won't just use what you ask.
Plus even if she wants bleach why the high end branded one? That's obviously missing the point, haha.

But yeah, either she uses what you like or you part ways.

eqpi4t2hbsnktd · 08/07/2025 12:22

Let her use bleach - you're not using it.
I used to buy eco stuff for me to use and chemicals for my cleaner (her request... I wasn't trying to kill her).

Honon · 08/07/2025 12:19

I never use bleach. I mostly use white vinegar or eco products. I don't think they make cleaning more difficult. She sounds somewhat inflexible in general so I'd be looking for a new cleaner.