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To refuse to buy bleach?

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Eastie77Returns · 08/07/2025 11:41

First world problem alert.

Our cleaner has asked demanded that I add Domestos bleach to my cleaning products. There's been a bit of an ongoing issue for a while now as I have trialed various eco-friendly cleaning products over the last few months and she generally doesn't like them. I have changed a couple of times in the hope she will get on better with a new range but she has a preference for products that contain high levels of chemicals. I understand they are the go-too products that she trusts but I just don't want to use them.

At the moment she is begrudgingly using the Ecover products I most recently bought. Now she is insisting she needs bleach to clean properly because Ecover doesn't really cut it. I said no as I just can't have it in the house. The smell is one thing but it's so toxic and dangerous (I'm absolutely haunted by an acquaintance whose young child inhaled some). She is a really good cleaner and in high demand. I'm aware she's already given notice to two households on our street because they did not fall in line with her requests (not cleaning product related, something else).

Has anyone used any of the 'natural' bleach products currently out there and were they effective?

OP posts:
Buxusmortus · 08/07/2025 15:30

gamerchick · 08/07/2025 14:22

You're not supposed to use bleach down the toilet though. It wrecks your pipes.

It has to be some sort of psychological thing with people thinking bleach = clean and nothing else will do

Since when has bleach wrecked toilet pipes? I still have an original 40 year old bathroom in my house which gets bleached every week, pipes are completely fine. No plumber has ever told me not to use bleach.

Brefugee · 08/07/2025 15:25

Buxusmortus · 08/07/2025 14:09

Dilute it to wipe over toilet seats and toilet exterior.
Neat to clean inside of loo bowl.
Neat down plugholes to stop smells.
Spray bleach to clean cat litter tray.
If cat has peed/ vomited on floor use diluted to clean.
Diluted to clean stinking inside of food and compost caddy if the bag has leaked.
Diluted to clean fly eggs from rim of wheelie bin.
Neat on top of left out cat food put into bag in bin where fly had laid some eggs.

Those are some things I've used it for recently. Wouldn't know what to use instead ( don't say zoflora, I can't stand artificial floral smells). Bleach smells fine to me.

white vinegar. For all of them.

Notaripoff · 08/07/2025 15:22

JudgeBread · 08/07/2025 12:33

You know that all the "natural" cleaning products you've bought also contain chemicals right?

If you don't want to have bleach in your house that's fine and your choice, but if she feels she can't do her job properly without it you're obviously not a good fit for eachother! Might be time to shop around for a new cleaner.

Well it's not just natural cleaning products. Literally every.single.thing. is a chemical. H2O is one of my favourite chemicals... I voted YABU simply because of the phrase "high level of chemicals" - but it's one of my pet peeves.

Morgenrot25 · 08/07/2025 15:16

Eastie77Returns · 08/07/2025 12:35

Yes, I'm aware they are not 100% natural.

Even 100% natural still contains chemicals, because absolutely everything is composed entirely of chemicals. Nothing is chemical free, and 'natural' isn't always better.

Jabberwok · 08/07/2025 15:16

PalePinkPeony · 08/07/2025 14:15

The toilet! Genuinely how do people take a shit / have other members of their family take a shit and then not use at least a small bit of bleach down the loo 🤢🤮 Please don’t tell me you have one of those poo particle toilet brushes that sit by the loo with human waste on them all day- particularly if you don’t use bleach on that either 🤢

Finally someone not taken in by the "oh I only use eco products man"...it's like the new cif ad which says it can clean yellow and round things....not a mention of actually killing germs. You know those little bugs that actually kill humans.
bleach also gets my white shirts white, not a dull yellow.

Ontheedgeofit · 08/07/2025 15:16

The only reason I don’t buy bleach is because unless you are VERY careful with it then well… things get bleached. Bath mats, towels, washing lying on the floor. Just a little drop accidentally spilt and an item is ruined and I am speaking from experience. The only person who uses bleach in my home is me because I’m the only one who is careful enough with it 🤬

Morgenrot25 · 08/07/2025 15:12

I have no issue with bleach for certain jobs, but clearly you do. If it's a hill you're both prepared to die on then so be it. You need a new cleaner and she needs a new job.

EviesHat · 08/07/2025 15:11

Get yourself a ToucanEco (or one of the copycats - just make sure it does what it claims) and make up a batch of your own cleaner. It smells like a weak bleach due to the salt added and if you stick a label on the bottle saying bleach and tell her it’s a house-safe formula, you may get away with it!

And yes, it really works.

Pass an electric current through slightly salty water and you get a powerful disinfectant. Larger commercial units are used by places such as prisons around the world, places where you may not want to have bottles of bleach lying around in case the wrong person gets hold of it but you absolutely do need to get things clean.

The cleaner is temporary, if left for a week or so it reverts back to salty water, so you need to make up a batch regularly.

https://toucaneco.co.uk/household/

Toucan Eco kills up to 99.999% of germs using just water, salt and electricity.

Toucan Eco is a sustainable cleaning product that makes a powerful, safe and eco-friendly disinfectant cleaner, replacing most chemicals and the plastic bottles they're supplied in.

https://toucaneco.co.uk/household/

Eastie77Returns · 08/07/2025 15:10

Completely accept it’s up to her to refuse to use my products and ask for bleach. My question is has anyone used the ‘natural’ Bleach alternatives and were they less toxic, effective etc? This isn’t about me making the cleaner do something she doesn’t want to. She’s self employed and can leave whenever she wants. I’m just looking into a possible compromise.

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SummerSunAndFun · 08/07/2025 15:08

Citric acid is good

Hodgemollar · 08/07/2025 15:08

I can’t believe the posters saying she just needs to use elbow grease! She’s not cleaning her own house, she’s cleaning several all day long! Why would you/ should she make her job harder than necessary?
There are many things bleach deals with quickly.
If you have such an issue with it look for a cleaner who’s happy to only use natural products.

Mummykit96 · 08/07/2025 15:08

Used eco-over toilet cleaner multiple times and personally it’s one of my favourites but I do also use normal bleach
your house your rules

TheignT · 08/07/2025 15:03

Well you are entitled to say you won't but bleach. She's entitled to say she feels she needs bleach to do the job the way she wants to do it.

I suppose it's a who blinks first scenario.

ladydoe · 08/07/2025 15:01

Clean it yourself

LieInsAreExtinct · 08/07/2025 15:01

I don't like bleach, don't like the smell, the damage to fabrics etc from accidental splashes, and potential environmental unfriendliness. Also, limescale is a problem in my area, and bleach doesn't remove it, it just bleaches it! I prefer eco limescale removers for the toilet and sinks, and diluted disinfectant for the hard. floors. I have this disagreement with my partner who likes the smell, isn't used to hard water, and thinks bleach is the only thing that cleans germs on floors.
I had a cleaner years ago who insisted on me buying the disposable 'fluffy dusters ' and it used to really grate... but she wasn't doing a great job tbh. I also had a childminder who wouldn't take on my son using cloth nappies, so that was a deal breaker for me at the time.
In your situation I would say you really don't like ibleach (smell, danger, horror story) and maybe you could accept her cleaning standards being slightly lower in the areas she would normally use it in. And if you are in a hard water area make sure you have something which tackles limescale!

ThymeandBasil · 08/07/2025 15:00

When I worked as a cleaner many, many years ago the company I worked for had a policy of not using bleach because it is a hazardous substance.
We were employed in various business premises.
Some clients weren't happy about this policy and would actually buy bleach themselves and try and get us to use it. So it was a bone of contention even back then.

Muffinmam · 08/07/2025 14:59

I can’t use the typical bleach I used to use because I developed an allergy to it.

However, it’s just the fumes - I can still use toilet bleach.

Are you stating that you won’t even buy toilet bleach??

PalePinkPeony · 08/07/2025 14:58

dontgetmestartedwillu · 08/07/2025 14:56

I don't like the thought of a toilet brush either but how on earth do you clean your toilet then (unless you use bleach)? I'd genuinely want to know.

Small squirt Bleach every other day at least. Deeper clean with cif and a rubber glove

godmum56 · 08/07/2025 14:58

Wavescrashingonthebeach · 08/07/2025 14:35

I wasn't aware it wrecked pipes. I put it down loo for keeping the toilet fresh and white.
I've got a friend who tries using it for blocked drains though and it really wont work for that. Thats what drain cleaner is for. It's something totally different.

it doesn't unless you have really old lead or copper pipes.

Ireallywantadoughnut36 · 08/07/2025 14:58

Can you find out what specifically she needs it for!? I use the bower collective pine toilet cleaner and their limescale remover and much prefer both to bleach and viakal. Their glass cleaner is great too.
I also think Method is a good in between, as slightly more eco friendly but still strong scents and probably not as eco as they make out.
I don't use bleach and I run air bnbs, there's no need really, it's a disinfectant so not actually a very good "cleaner", I find specific products like limescale remover, toilet cleaners and surface sprays much gentler and better for actual dirt. Bleach I occasionally use for stains on sheets but that's all.

PalePinkPeony · 08/07/2025 14:57

Wavescrashingonthebeach · 08/07/2025 14:53

If that works for you, fair enough.
I have a visceral reaction to toilet brushes haha.

I think the final straw for me came when one day I was bent down slightly with the toilet brush scrubbing trying to get under the rim etc when I accidentally pulled the brush back and got flicked / showered with a face full of toilet water droplets including on the lips. Yeah. That was it for me.

Eastie77Returns · 08/07/2025 14:56

LuckyAnt · 08/07/2025 14:42

But @Eastie77Returns, as other posters have asked, what in your house actually needs a full scale bleach every week/fortnight? (Or however frequently she cleans your house.)

This isn't an attempt to shame you, it's to understand what she's insisting will only respond to bleach?

She hasn’t said any specific areas need bleach, just “I prefer”. She doesn’t speak English very well.

I actually pre-clean the loo before she comes in case there is kind of embarrassing mess. Everywhere else just needs a general clean, nothing extreme.

OP posts:
dontgetmestartedwillu · 08/07/2025 14:56

PalePinkPeony · 08/07/2025 14:54

Toilet brush. Good lord. I chucked mine in the 90’s when it suddenly occurred to me that I was sitting multiple times a day right next to flakes of the rest of the family’s turds. Foulest things ever.

I don't like the thought of a toilet brush either but how on earth do you clean your toilet then (unless you use bleach)? I'd genuinely want to know.

godmum56 · 08/07/2025 14:56

MageQueen · 08/07/2025 12:09

This is one of those things where you're at impasse. Your view is perfectly reasonable and valid, and it is YOUR house.

Her view is also perfectly reasonable and valid, and it is HER job.

So you can choose to refuse, and she can choose to leave. Easy as that.

This.

PalePinkPeony · 08/07/2025 14:54

Bonbonthechewyone · 08/07/2025 14:41

I'm not a domestic goddess by any means but my home is clean without the use of bleach. People mentioning dirty toilets - that's what a toilet brush is for.

It's your home, bit rude of her to insist on using something you don't want.

Toilet brush. Good lord. I chucked mine in the 90’s when it suddenly occurred to me that I was sitting multiple times a day right next to flakes of the rest of the family’s turds. Foulest things ever.

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