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To refuse to buy bleach?

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Eastie77Returns · 08/07/2025 11:41

First world problem alert.

Our cleaner has asked demanded that I add Domestos bleach to my cleaning products. There's been a bit of an ongoing issue for a while now as I have trialed various eco-friendly cleaning products over the last few months and she generally doesn't like them. I have changed a couple of times in the hope she will get on better with a new range but she has a preference for products that contain high levels of chemicals. I understand they are the go-too products that she trusts but I just don't want to use them.

At the moment she is begrudgingly using the Ecover products I most recently bought. Now she is insisting she needs bleach to clean properly because Ecover doesn't really cut it. I said no as I just can't have it in the house. The smell is one thing but it's so toxic and dangerous (I'm absolutely haunted by an acquaintance whose young child inhaled some). She is a really good cleaner and in high demand. I'm aware she's already given notice to two households on our street because they did not fall in line with her requests (not cleaning product related, something else).

Has anyone used any of the 'natural' bleach products currently out there and were they effective?

OP posts:
Pinepeak2434 · 08/07/2025 15:59

I only use bleach to clean my toilet and my kitchen sink, although I quite like dettol which I know some people hate the smell of but I don’t. I have extremely sensitive airways and bleach goes straight to my chest.

Lunde · 08/07/2025 15:55

It's perfectly possible to clean properly without bleach.

I'm not on mains sewers and can't put bleach into my septic system

EviesHat · 08/07/2025 15:55

Tryingtokeepgoing · 08/07/2025 12:46

Sodium hypochlorite, the active ingredient in most domestic bleaches, also disolves organic matter, so it does rather more than bleach stains!

Hypochlorous acid is even more effective at killing certain germs and bacteria!

The fact that, unlike bleach, it isn’t toxic to humans is a massive bonus. The WHO recommended it for killing Covid.

ArtTheClown · 08/07/2025 15:54

The toilet! Genuinely how do people take a shit / have other members of their family take a shit and then not use at least a small bit of bleach down the loo 🤢🤮 Please don’t tell me you have one of those poo particle toilet brushes that sit by the loo with human waste on them all day- particularly if you don’t use bleach on that either 🤢

You can't do that if you have septic tank. It would kill the tank and then you'd have much grosser problems than a few skid marks.
We're only a two-person household and we both just clean any skids with a bit of bog roll and a hand wash after. I also clean the toilet bowls weekly as they get a bit iron stained from the water here otherwise - it's my sponge's final job before being binned, and I use a bit of bicarb.
Spotlessly clean toilets, no bleach, and a happy septic tank.

PickAChew · 08/07/2025 15:54

FalseSpring · 08/07/2025 15:49

Smol dishwasher tablets, like most other dishwasher tablets contain bleach.

They contain peroxide, so not a chlorine based bleach

FalseSpring · 08/07/2025 15:53

There are two types of bleach, chlorine based and oxygen based. Most Ecover and similar green products contain the latter - so they do contain bleach! Most people who think they are avoiding bleach are probably not.

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 08/07/2025 15:53

Morgenrot25 · 08/07/2025 15:40

Smol washing liquid capsules were ok (we got some that were in a relative's cupboards after they passed away) but I wouldn't bother ordering more, and didn't try any cleaning liquids or anything.

The cleaning liquids were pointless, I may as well have sprayed plain water on the shower screen. Thankfully I'd only bought the trial packs as it all went in the bin.

EscapeToSuffolk · 08/07/2025 15:52

myplace · 08/07/2025 12:55

What hygiene risk is there from sink overflows and drains? You don’t stick your hands in them or eat off them. They don’t need to be sterile.

An occasional splash of hot water, or vinegar and bicarb, will prevent any build up and odours.

Bleach kills wildlife.

But our drinking water is so full of chlorine that I can't see how adding a bit more is going to make that much difference. For those saying that bleach is toxic, I hope you filter your water.

smallglassbottle · 08/07/2025 15:52

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Perhaps get her some of this? It's expensive though so she'd have to use it sparingly and only in the toilet and shower tray.

eco toilet triple pack

Oxy-Gen Eco Bleach | Eco-Friendly, Oxygen-Based Bleach

The UK's best-selling oxygen-based, eco-friendly bleach for septic tanks & eco-conscious households. Kills 99% of germs & increases aerobic performance.

https://www.muck-munchers.co.uk/product/oxy-gen-eco-bleach-triple-pack/

Alwayswonderedwhy · 08/07/2025 15:50

Yanbu. We don't use bleach a d don't have any problems cleaning. Sounds like she's being lazy.

FalseSpring · 08/07/2025 15:49

AffIt · 08/07/2025 13:29

We don't use bleach, because we have a septic tank system and three cats.

I have a handheld steam cleaner for grouting and I've yet to find the dirt that white vinegar, bicarb and elbow grease can't remove.

Re: sinks. We have a ceramic sink in the kitchen which can get a bit stained, but I read an excellent tip on here - fill with very hot water, pop in a dishwasher tab (we use the Smol ones) and leave overnight. Squeaky clean by morning and zero effort!

Smol dishwasher tablets, like most other dishwasher tablets contain bleach.

PickAChew · 08/07/2025 15:48

SunflowerLife · 08/07/2025 15:44

I do think bleach is essential for the level of whiteness I want in my toilet. Without it limescale builds up and even a toilet cleaner doesn't remove it as effectively. Yabu.

Bleach does not remove limescale. It just bleached the stains that it holds onto.

PersephoneSeethes · 08/07/2025 15:46

SunflowerLife · 08/07/2025 15:44

I do think bleach is essential for the level of whiteness I want in my toilet. Without it limescale builds up and even a toilet cleaner doesn't remove it as effectively. Yabu.

Bleach doesn’t affect limescale, only an acid-based descaler cleaner will.

PersephoneSeethes · 08/07/2025 15:44

smallglassbottle · 08/07/2025 15:41

This. I'm a cleaner and I had to use bleach in the bathroom the other day. Without going into details, nothing else would have done. My client uses eco products and they don't work. They use eco laundry products and the clothing smells. Things still smell unclean after I've used them. I bring my own products which aren't strongly smelling, as I have issues with my respiratory system, but they are non eco products. Bleach is fine if it's diluted properly and used only in areas where it's really needed.

Mil always used Ecover toilet cleaner and her toilet always stank even when I'd scrubbed it and scrubbed it.

I use Ecover for everything but the toilet, their toilet cleaner doesn’t work.

SunflowerLife · 08/07/2025 15:44

I do think bleach is essential for the level of whiteness I want in my toilet. Without it limescale builds up and even a toilet cleaner doesn't remove it as effectively. Yabu.

MyDeftDuck · 08/07/2025 15:44

If you object so strongly to your cleaner demanding you buy bleach for her you could consider doing your own cleaning. I do all my cleaning, I am disabled and a grandmother and I do NOT use bleach and never have! I care more for the environment, particularly waterways, seas and oceans than to put chlorine bleach down the drain…….sheer ludicrous and so dangerous to sea life!

Viviennemary · 08/07/2025 15:42

I think bleach should be used sparingly but not banned altogether. I don't use much but I still want it occasionally.

PersephoneSeethes · 08/07/2025 15:41

dontgetmestartedwillu · 08/07/2025 14:56

I don't like the thought of a toilet brush either but how on earth do you clean your toilet then (unless you use bleach)? I'd genuinely want to know.

Bleach doesn’t physically clean a toilet, you need to mechanically remove the debris too.

Bleach is very effective against dangerous microbes and mould, and it’s the one agent that they can’t develop a tolerance to.

Care needs to be taken when using it with other chemicals, especially vinegar, as it can release toxic substances like chlorine gas.

smallglassbottle · 08/07/2025 15:41

eqpi4t2hbsnktd · 08/07/2025 12:23

I do think I would want bleach if I was scrubbing someone else's poo.

This. I'm a cleaner and I had to use bleach in the bathroom the other day. Without going into details, nothing else would have done. My client uses eco products and they don't work. They use eco laundry products and the clothing smells. Things still smell unclean after I've used them. I bring my own products which aren't strongly smelling, as I have issues with my respiratory system, but they are non eco products. Bleach is fine if it's diluted properly and used only in areas where it's really needed.

Mil always used Ecover toilet cleaner and her toilet always stank even when I'd scrubbed it and scrubbed it.

Morgenrot25 · 08/07/2025 15:40

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 08/07/2025 15:36

I got taken in by one of the FB ads for Smol - absolute crap! Back to the good old fashioned stuff!

Smol washing liquid capsules were ok (we got some that were in a relative's cupboards after they passed away) but I wouldn't bother ordering more, and didn't try any cleaning liquids or anything.

EviesHat · 08/07/2025 15:38

LilacWineIsSweetAndHeady · 08/07/2025 13:05

When we moved into our home it was immaculate except for the dirty brown stain at the bottom of the toilet bowl.......
Daily cleaning with bleach has made the toilet look brand new! I can only imagine the previous owners living with the stain because they wouldn't buy bleach......
Personally I think it's brilliant stuff!

Unless you’ve got a really old toilet bowl with surface damage the bleach alone isn’t actually getting it as clean as you think.

Stains need something to stick to. Most of the time that’s limescale. Putting bleach down the loo removes the colour but not the stuff itself. Over time, if you stop using bleach, the stains will return and always in the same pattern/place. That’s because the limescale is still present.

Stop using the bleach for a bit and concentrate on getting rid of the limescale. That’s not easy, but once you’ve done it you can keep the bowl clear by throwing some citric acid or strong vinegar down there every week.

Whatever you do don’t mix bleach and acid cleaner together.

Beebirdfly · 08/07/2025 15:36

Your house your rules but depends on which is more important to you - having her as a cleaner or the no bleach.

one compromise is if the eco products are fine but take longer for her to do the job either reduce what she has to get through in the time, or extend her time/pay her more.

If it’s making her job harder and she’s not willing to compromise then it’s really your call, you’re not being unreasonable asking her to not use bleach but she’s also not being unreasonable to walk away from the job if she’s that attached to it.

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 08/07/2025 15:36

Jabberwok · 08/07/2025 15:16

Finally someone not taken in by the "oh I only use eco products man"...it's like the new cif ad which says it can clean yellow and round things....not a mention of actually killing germs. You know those little bugs that actually kill humans.
bleach also gets my white shirts white, not a dull yellow.

I got taken in by one of the FB ads for Smol - absolute crap! Back to the good old fashioned stuff!

HauntedMarshmallow · 08/07/2025 15:31

Have you tried Cif cream cleaner lemon? It claims to be 100% natural cleaning particles derived from limestone. (Obviously you still need to follow the instructions to use it sensibly) It’s great on bathroom grout and tiles.

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