I have got my dc’s end of year report from school. The comment is the same as the other kids dc knows. Identical. The report uses they/them pronouns so the school didn’t even have to bother checking if they were writing about a boy or girl. AIBU to expect more? I’m not even sure if the HOY knows who my dc is. I know lots of schools use report-writing software but I wouldn’t expect identical results for so many kids and there is a grammar mistake in all of them, so it looks like the HOY has just switched the names of the dc.
I could complain to the HOY but I expect I’ll just get a defensive response about how difficult it is to do so many reports.