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Keeping on top of deep cleaning the house

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NewShoesForSpring · 05/07/2025 20:31

I'd say we're generally pretty clean & tidy

Our house is always (just about) visitor ready. We never let dirty dishes accumulate. We wipe the counters before & after every food prep.

We have a cat so we keep on top of hoovering due to her hairs.

It seems orderly. However i had yesterdsy off work & decided to deep clean our bedroom. Omg! Once i started looking at the skirting boards & the edges where the wall meets the ceiling, in the corners, behind stuff erc - seriously, the dust & cobweb levels were shocking

Today I'm tackled the bathroom. Again sink, toilet & bath cleaned v regularly but when I pulled out the storage unit for products! Again dusty, hairy, just generally filthy

I work full time, so does dh. We both do equal amounts of cleaning but somehow we're obviously not keeping on top of it all.

I don't want to spend all weekend every weekend deep cleaning! I need down time too

how do you all manage it?

Ultimately I want to enjoy my home tje way i love being in a hotel. I want to get it to that level & then keep it like that. I feel I'm missing some vital method or system..

We don't have a cleaner.

OP posts:
BatshitCrazyWoman · 06/07/2025 09:19

Bikergran · 06/07/2025 08:16

Make a chart. List ALL the rooms/spaces in your house one by one, plus tasks like "clean all windows inside" "clean carpets through house" "check and lubricate all window catches/hinges". Decide how often these need doing, then allocate one task a week. So every week, as well as your basic routine, you either deep-clean one room or space, or you do a maintenance task. When you get to the end of the list, start again at the top.

This is what I do. Plus, like @BuddhaAtSea, I ruthlessly declutter so there's never too much stuff to sort out or clean. Skirting boards are hoovered with the little brush attachment every time I hoover a room (weekly, mostly).

Katemax82 · 06/07/2025 09:08

KPPlumbing · 06/07/2025 08:11

Same for us actually. I'd forgotten that this is a big part of how we keep on top of the house. Ruthless decluttering and a one-in-one-out policy has left us with clear sides, nothing under any bed, and lots of empty space in cupboards and drawers. Definitely the way to go.

I wish I'd could decanter massively, but silly little things like my middle son only drinks out of bottles so I have about 5 sports bottles for him in the cupboard and my husband has 3 as he always takes a bottle to bed. Also my other kids have 2 bottles each so we have a cupboard full of the bloody things. Then there's all the tupperware i use for packed lunches to store chopped fruit. It never ends

Katemax82 · 06/07/2025 09:03

My house is in serious need of a deep clean. I don't work but I have 4 kids 2 with autism and one is 4 months old so I do t have the time normally or ghe energy (ever). It causes me serious anxiety if my stepsons come to visit as their houses are pristine and new (mines a 1930s bungalow with peeling paint in the bathroom and cracks in the walls)

Bikergran · 06/07/2025 08:16

Make a chart. List ALL the rooms/spaces in your house one by one, plus tasks like "clean all windows inside" "clean carpets through house" "check and lubricate all window catches/hinges". Decide how often these need doing, then allocate one task a week. So every week, as well as your basic routine, you either deep-clean one room or space, or you do a maintenance task. When you get to the end of the list, start again at the top.

KPPlumbing · 06/07/2025 08:11

BuddhaAtSea · 06/07/2025 05:54

I have very little, deliberately.
No carpets anywhere.
Nothing stored under beds/sofas.
Nothing on the kitchen counters.
Everything is stored away.

Sounds sterile, but I have large paintings on the walls that bring colour, the furniture is modern, plants etc.

All that means that to deep clean my bedroom takes an hour. I have two bed stands with 3 drawers each, in one of the drawers I have night cream, serum and hand cream, one has the kindle, a book and a notepad. The other bed stand only has a box of tissues in it. The rest is empty.
Half my wardrobe is empty. I put away the winter clothes, in boxes.

I don’t keep Tupperware, I have 4 glass ones, two frying pans and 3 pots.
You get the gist, everything is minimal.

What also helps is say my sowing machine is stored with a box on top of it that has the threads, the scissors, tape measure etc, everything is in one place. Makes it easier to keep track. Same for wrapping paper and ribbons and scissors and sellotape. So when I need to clean, I just have one or two things to move about.

HTH

Same for us actually. I'd forgotten that this is a big part of how we keep on top of the house. Ruthless decluttering and a one-in-one-out policy has left us with clear sides, nothing under any bed, and lots of empty space in cupboards and drawers. Definitely the way to go.

sandgrown · 06/07/2025 07:56

@BuddhaAtSea I aspire to my bedside cabinets being like yours . I would like my whole bedroom to be calm and tidy but I definitely need to lose some “stuff”😂

Freddiefan · 06/07/2025 07:54

I've got a bad back so decided to get a cleaner. She was fantastic the first time she came but went rapidly downhill spending most of the time on her phone.

user1476613140 · 06/07/2025 07:45

I have just decluttered one cupboard in one of the kid's bedrooms and got rid of so much crap. Ten blue ikea bags worth of baby/children's books. It's a huge cupboard. Couldn't believe the amount of crap in there. It's now being repurposed to store hobby related stuff for one of the DC. Can't believe things got that bad. Took 12 hrs to get bedrooms switched over yesterday and clear all the mess. Feel so much better for it.

Know what you mean OP. It's difficult to keep on top of household stuff.

KPPlumbing · 06/07/2025 07:37

Same. Our house is tidy, orderly, looks clean and smells fresh. The kitchen sides are always wiped down and clean, and the toilets are scrubbed and bleached multiple times a week.

But I might hoover under the bed once a year. I only hoovered under the sofa after 7 years of living here because I was redecorating (!). I only wipe down a bit of woodwork if there's a big stain staring me in the face. I go around with a feather duster every few months and try to tackle cobwebs. Once in a blue moon, I get a bathroom wipe and remove all of the dust and hair from behind the toilet.

It'll do 🤷🏼‍♀️

clamshell24 · 06/07/2025 06:02

I'm 58. I've never done a deep clean and I suspect no one else I know has either.

BuddhaAtSea · 06/07/2025 05:54

I have very little, deliberately.
No carpets anywhere.
Nothing stored under beds/sofas.
Nothing on the kitchen counters.
Everything is stored away.

Sounds sterile, but I have large paintings on the walls that bring colour, the furniture is modern, plants etc.

All that means that to deep clean my bedroom takes an hour. I have two bed stands with 3 drawers each, in one of the drawers I have night cream, serum and hand cream, one has the kindle, a book and a notepad. The other bed stand only has a box of tissues in it. The rest is empty.
Half my wardrobe is empty. I put away the winter clothes, in boxes.

I don’t keep Tupperware, I have 4 glass ones, two frying pans and 3 pots.
You get the gist, everything is minimal.

What also helps is say my sowing machine is stored with a box on top of it that has the threads, the scissors, tape measure etc, everything is in one place. Makes it easier to keep track. Same for wrapping paper and ribbons and scissors and sellotape. So when I need to clean, I just have one or two things to move about.

HTH

k1233 · 06/07/2025 00:45

Sorry forgot to attach the pic

Keeping on top of deep cleaning the house
k1233 · 06/07/2025 00:44

This is my duster - not sure if you can get them in the UK
https://sabco.com.au/shop-by/retailer/bunnings/feathered-microfibre-duster-with-extendable-handle/

The skirting board cleaner is the one in the pic. I've got severe degeneration in my spine and hips, so bending to clean skirting boards hurts. It's just a quick zip around with this and all dust free.

Feathered Microfibre Duster With Extendable Handle

Our dusting collection includes the Feathered Microfibre Duster, a tool that comes equipped with a long extendable handle, available from Sabco today.

https://sabco.com.au/shop-by/retailer/bunnings/feathered-microfibre-duster-with-extendable-handle/

Thunderpants88 · 06/07/2025 00:09

Just do what my Mum does. Takes off her glasses and VOILA dust cannot be seen :)

NewShoesForSpring · 06/07/2025 00:06

@k1233 I like the sound of your duster & skirting board cleaner- can you share where you bought them please? Thanks a million.

By deep clean i meant taking products off the shelves in the bathroom, dumping empty dried up bottles, washing the shelving, wiping the walls behind before putting good products back. I dont do that on a weekly basis.

We clean the sink, cabinet the sink is on, toilet, bath & shower every week & I wipe out the sink & wipe the toilet seat etc wotj antibacterial wipes every other day in between cleans. And the wooden floor gets hoovered weekly.

But that's probaby it most weeks so doing stuff like cleaning shelving, wiping skirting boards etc feels like deep clean to my mind

OP posts:
MidnightMusing5 · 05/07/2025 23:49

Less stuff less to clean

Denimrules · 05/07/2025 23:41

Deep clean is something people do in rental properties before moving on. Thorough spring clean is more like most people's reality about twice a year

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 05/07/2025 23:38

Heronwatcher · 05/07/2025 22:49

Unless you are getting ill I don’t think all
of this deep cleaning is necessary. People never lived like this in the past. I think it’s all just a scam to make people buy more cleaning products. Who cares if areas you can’t actually see are gathering dust, unless you’re eating there or it’s directly in your line of sight it’s not doing any harm.

My house is tidy, dishes are washed after eating, we hoover at least once a week, clean bathrooms once a week, empty bins and wipe surfaces 2/3 times a day. I might hoover under the bed a couple of times a year. I can’t actually ever really remember cleaning skirting boards. We’re rarely ill, house smells fine and looks nice.

Clean skirting boards look nice though.

RitaFromThePitCanteen · 05/07/2025 23:37

How about choosing one room to keep as spotlessly clean as you can manage and having more reasonable expectations about the other rooms? That way you're not spending all your spare time cleaning and tidying but you still have one spotless room to retreat to to and enjoy when you want to.

My flat is rarely visitor ready, but that's life and seems to be the case for the majority of us.

k1233 · 05/07/2025 23:36

I've got a couple of robovacs and they are the best for getting under furniture and places you can't see. Run daily they remove the need to do floors on the weekend. I also bought a little hand held vacuum. It's about the size of a hair dryer. Perfect to get dust off the ceiling fans and dust books in bookcases. Also great to quickly run behind furniture. I got it to help clean the runners on windows.

My duster is a lovely grabby microfiber one that really sticks the dust to it. Throw it in the wash to clean. I got it to dust the skylight - it screws on to a really long handle.

You can buy a skirting board cleaner - really handy.

I'm not the best at cleaning. Really don't enjoy it, but I do like the results. So i try to find little ways to keep on top without too much extra effort.

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 05/07/2025 23:26

The Organised Mum Method app sounds ideal for you.
I swear by it.

allthemiddlechildrenoftheworld · 05/07/2025 23:10

@NewShoesForSpring deep cleaning?? I am struggling to stay on top of the shallow cleaning!

Heronwatcher · 05/07/2025 22:49

Unless you are getting ill I don’t think all
of this deep cleaning is necessary. People never lived like this in the past. I think it’s all just a scam to make people buy more cleaning products. Who cares if areas you can’t actually see are gathering dust, unless you’re eating there or it’s directly in your line of sight it’s not doing any harm.

My house is tidy, dishes are washed after eating, we hoover at least once a week, clean bathrooms once a week, empty bins and wipe surfaces 2/3 times a day. I might hoover under the bed a couple of times a year. I can’t actually ever really remember cleaning skirting boards. We’re rarely ill, house smells fine and looks nice.

godmum56 · 05/07/2025 22:43

fatgirlswims · 05/07/2025 20:52

Have you tried the organised mum method TOMM. I tried it but it’s to intensive if you work full time. I think it could work with tweaking

Daily laundry is one of the tasks and she claims the first days tasks takes one second (to press start int he washer) but then I’m out at work by the time it finishes so it can’t sit there all day!? Kind of put me off - felt it was for SAHM. I’m sure the idea is excellent (30 minutes a day plus level 1 jobs like dishwasher and surface) it’s around 1 hour per night. Plus cooking. It quite a lot!

I don't mine leaving washing in the machine once its finished but I never go out and leave the washing machine or dishwasher running. many years ago I used to do this, we had a small utility room in our first house and I came back to find the utility filling with smoke and the washing machine smouldering. Apparently it was a control box failure and the model was about to be recalled. More recently my less than a year old dryer blew out a plug in the garage and the plug showed signs of burning fortunately it tripped the box and I went out to see what was happening and found it. Nice under warranty repair man changed the dryer cable for me

usedtobeaylis · 05/07/2025 22:42

I think this is normal. To be honest whenever I've tried to implement a 'system' or routine, life gets in the way of it. The house is fairly presentable but with two working adults, a young child, regular visitors and a cat, it just doesn't get deep cleaned very often, maybe twice a year. I don't want to spend my time cleaning, it's time-consuming enough keeping on top of the basics and the never ending washing.