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cherrypied · 05/07/2025 19:58

They are called care navigators.

I’m so poorly and fed up but they seem to want to do everything tiny to not give me a an appointment with a GP.

Is this part of their training?

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BitOutOfPractice · 07/07/2025 19:41

I’m sorry you’re feeling poorly op. I hope you get seen soon.

I have to say the receptionists at my GP are excellent. One even rang me back last week to see how I was.

taxguru · 07/07/2025 19:38

Yup, my OH has cancer and regularly gets referred back to his GP by the oncologist, but it's a sodding nightmare to get past the receptionists who often argue that it's the oncologist's job to arrange a scan/x-ray or a different drug to be prescribed - as if a receptionist knows better than an oncologist! When he finally gets a message "pinged" to the GP, it's usually dealt with quickly as mostly he doesn't need an appointment (neither phone nor in person) and all the GP has to do is a few minutes setting up the new prescription or a few key strokes for the referral and then ping a message to OH to say he's done it, but by God, OH has a very hard job getting past the receptionists who just don't listen.

Zoopet · 07/07/2025 19:29

I need regular appointments due to ongoing treatment post cancer.
I dutifully ring at 4 seconds to 8 and get through to find I am number 13/14/15 in the queue.
How the fuck has that happened?
Request a call back( place in queue is kept)
Call back comes at 8.50.
No appointments or phone appointments left.
No point in ringing earlier as you just get a message saying the practice is closed.
I honestly think that if I was to throw myself dramatically on the floor in reception that the receptionists would just step over me.
Having met with the practice manager on several occasions( and referring to the personal letter I received from the practice stating that they would do everything they could do to help re my diagnosis) , when I finally met the Dr he was great.
Just wish it wasn't such a battle to get there!
And the annoying message on the phone- " due to an unprecedented number of calls we are exceptionally busy" should be banned!

Colango · 07/07/2025 19:07

Outsideswimbabe · 07/07/2025 18:51

If you get through to a GP receptionist who is simply looking at the computer and reading the message that there are no more same day appointments available, they won't consult with the Duty GP and will continue to decline the patient no matter what the problem is. That patient can(should) phone 111 and they will be assessed in more depth and depending on the problem, if the duty clinician feels that patient needs to be seen, they will contact the patient's GP surgery and advise that. 111 could also choose to call an ambulance, or advise another pathway such as a non urgent GP appointment or pharmacy. The thing is, if the GP receptionist who hasn't got the skills or experience to work out that there's a high possibility that someone needs to be seen, they won't consult with the Duty GP, the GP will not know. Sorry if this is waffly 🙃

111 have an algorithm via computer software for assessing urgent needs

GP surgeries do not have this

That is the main difference

The software isn’t isn’t suitable for a GP surgery as primary care is not an emergency service (believe it or not)

111 and the GP surgery do interact with a crossover but their systems are completely different

NHS England mandated primary care to take a small number of 111 calls ‘in hours’ because so many people ring 111 when it’s not an emergency (ie not appropriate for 111)

Outsideswimbabe · 07/07/2025 18:51

cherrypied · 07/07/2025 08:05

So if the GP has a duty of care. Why won’t they give you an appointment but if you call via 111 they will?

I’m struggling to reconcile the logic.

On three occasions I have seen/ spoken with an GP. But it was a lot of hoops to jump through.

The appointments are there they are just being gate-kept. I was called at 3 pm but the nurse and then given a GP appointment at 5.30.

If you get through to a GP receptionist who is simply looking at the computer and reading the message that there are no more same day appointments available, they won't consult with the Duty GP and will continue to decline the patient no matter what the problem is. That patient can(should) phone 111 and they will be assessed in more depth and depending on the problem, if the duty clinician feels that patient needs to be seen, they will contact the patient's GP surgery and advise that. 111 could also choose to call an ambulance, or advise another pathway such as a non urgent GP appointment or pharmacy. The thing is, if the GP receptionist who hasn't got the skills or experience to work out that there's a high possibility that someone needs to be seen, they won't consult with the Duty GP, the GP will not know. Sorry if this is waffly 🙃

Fundayout2025 · 07/07/2025 18:42

RafaistheKingofClay · 06/07/2025 17:18

They might take you as an out of catchment patient.

I’m still registered with my old practice as out of catchment. They only change is that they won’t do house calls.

When is the last time any doctor did house calls. I remember one with my ex but that was 1992.

Yerroblemom1923 · 07/07/2025 18:14

Colango · 07/07/2025 15:16

This doesn’t really land well. I don’t want to do lots of things but you do them for your own good, actively choosing not to is choosing to disadvantage yourself. People born in the 1940’s and 1950’s were not even over 60 when technology came into our lives from the 1990’s onwards, they have had 20 years to adapt with the times it’s not happened overnight. My relatives are in their 70’s and I think it’s reasonable they can help themselves by using tech where possible. They might not have the most up to date tech but they can manage the basics. They all managed to use bloody teletext and cefax didn’t they? They can read? Use a TV?

It’s a small minority of people who are financially disadvantaged, cannot afford WiFi or a mobile phone, those with physical disabilities such as sight or hearing loss or a learning difficulty who need help and support. Saying ‘I just don’t want to’ isn’t really acceptable.

No! Of course they don't use ceefax or teletext - do those even still exist?! They never got an answer phone because they didn't want people bothering them! They are rural country folk and don't do technology.
I appreciate they're at a disadvantage but they think it's the devil's work.
For some reason once you hit 70 you can do whatever the hell you please, or so it would appear in my parents' world! They appear to to have reverted back to toddlerdom and if they don't like it they just won't do it! And the naughty step just won't work on them!
They live a very basic life, living off the land, think "the Good Life" , kind of life! Maybe it's just my parents....

Colango · 07/07/2025 15:16

Yerroblemom1923 · 07/07/2025 10:05

Why? Because they don't do technology. Just because I do doesn't mean I want them mithering me to do it for them! I live hundreds of miles away, have a family of my own and work. I know plenty of 80 year olds with tablets etc - doesn't mean they know how to use them! I'll order the odd thing for them off Amazon (as it's free postage and ndd) but can't be arranging all their appointments for them!
I think GPS etc need to recognise some older people are stubborn and old skool and the only way they can contact them is via phone or face to face.

This doesn’t really land well. I don’t want to do lots of things but you do them for your own good, actively choosing not to is choosing to disadvantage yourself. People born in the 1940’s and 1950’s were not even over 60 when technology came into our lives from the 1990’s onwards, they have had 20 years to adapt with the times it’s not happened overnight. My relatives are in their 70’s and I think it’s reasonable they can help themselves by using tech where possible. They might not have the most up to date tech but they can manage the basics. They all managed to use bloody teletext and cefax didn’t they? They can read? Use a TV?

It’s a small minority of people who are financially disadvantaged, cannot afford WiFi or a mobile phone, those with physical disabilities such as sight or hearing loss or a learning difficulty who need help and support. Saying ‘I just don’t want to’ isn’t really acceptable.

Yerroblemom1923 · 07/07/2025 10:05

BusWankers · 05/07/2025 22:23

Why aren't they using mobile phones or tablets ?.
They know you who has internet access and could book for them.
They presumably have the ability to go to a library or whatever.

My mother is 84 and uses her iPad and Samsung phone quite happily.

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Why? Because they don't do technology. Just because I do doesn't mean I want them mithering me to do it for them! I live hundreds of miles away, have a family of my own and work. I know plenty of 80 year olds with tablets etc - doesn't mean they know how to use them! I'll order the odd thing for them off Amazon (as it's free postage and ndd) but can't be arranging all their appointments for them!
I think GPS etc need to recognise some older people are stubborn and old skool and the only way they can contact them is via phone or face to face.

cherrypied · 07/07/2025 08:05

Outsideswimbabe · 07/07/2025 07:49

I get that. But if someone is ill enough to need medical attention then they will be referred back to the GP if they've called 111 because the GP has a duty of care to see their patient if they are open. This thread is about receptionists triaging patients isn't it? Not having enough clinical staff is a different conversation.

So if the GP has a duty of care. Why won’t they give you an appointment but if you call via 111 they will?

I’m struggling to reconcile the logic.

On three occasions I have seen/ spoken with an GP. But it was a lot of hoops to jump through.

The appointments are there they are just being gate-kept. I was called at 3 pm but the nurse and then given a GP appointment at 5.30.

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Outsideswimbabe · 07/07/2025 07:49

BusWankers · 07/07/2025 06:58

Well, sometimes they're full.... How are they supposed to magically create another emergency appointment?

I get that. But if someone is ill enough to need medical attention then they will be referred back to the GP if they've called 111 because the GP has a duty of care to see their patient if they are open. This thread is about receptionists triaging patients isn't it? Not having enough clinical staff is a different conversation.

Boomer55 · 07/07/2025 07:03

BusWankers · 05/07/2025 22:01

Who has no access to the internet?

Like seriously... Who?

Plenty of people. 🤷‍♀️

BusWankers · 07/07/2025 06:58

Ownedbykitties · 06/07/2025 17:38

And sometimes it's very obvious that a patient does need a GP or to be seen same day by a clinician but some receptionists don't have the skills to work out the difference and use a blanket "all slots are full" to absolutely everybody.

Well, sometimes they're full.... How are they supposed to magically create another emergency appointment?

BusWankers · 07/07/2025 06:56

OlympicProcrastinator · 07/07/2025 05:11

My elderly father who moved house and had to wait 6 weeks for Virgin Media to install his WiFi. The GP surgery point blank refused to accept hard copy forms for him to join the surgery. He was unable to be seen despite having diabetes, heart problems and such severe insomnia he was suicidal. All because of no internet.

So why couldn't you have helped him? Why did nobody in his life do something like take their mobile phone to his house and sort it out?

madroid · 07/07/2025 06:53

I have a relative with such severe mental health illness that she is confused doesn’t know what day it is and won’t remember appointments unless written down.

The idea that she could use an app mobile phone or internet is ridiculous. After 5 years our dr surgery are just about accepting that.

Once a receptionist asked her to describe her symptoms so she could fill in a form and my relative said she was nutty.

OlympicProcrastinator · 07/07/2025 05:11

BusWankers · 05/07/2025 22:01

Who has no access to the internet?

Like seriously... Who?

My elderly father who moved house and had to wait 6 weeks for Virgin Media to install his WiFi. The GP surgery point blank refused to accept hard copy forms for him to join the surgery. He was unable to be seen despite having diabetes, heart problems and such severe insomnia he was suicidal. All because of no internet.

SpicySal · 07/07/2025 03:58

taxguru · 05/07/2025 20:14

But it's not always about "slots" and appointments.

It took me several months last year to get the GP to properly deal with anamolous blood tests - he kept "signing them off" as "patient can be advised", so the receptionist would never even "Ping" a message through with my concerns as she claimed the blood tests were fine, which I knew was wrong. It was only when I actually spoke to a different GP for a different ailment that I casually mentioned the blood tests and he agreed they needed action and I got a phone call from another different GP the day after to change the medication!

Similarly, OH has been trying to get a referral for a specialist for the last six months. He doesn't need to "see" the gp. It's his hospital oncologist who has told him to get the GP to make the referral, written to the GP accordingly etc., but it's impossible to get the receptionists to chase up the GP to actually do it. Again, they say it's not something requiring an appointment and that the GP will "get around to it" when they get chance, again, refusing to "ping" a reminder/request to expedite. No idea whether the GP will ever do it or whether it's got lost in their system somewhere. Receptionists just won't engage at all with the process.

Sometimes the receptionists just won't listen and won't even do things that don't require an actual GP appointment!

This is interesting though. I do not want to negate your experience, as on both occasions it sounds like it has really not been great, however I would argue that neither of these examples are the receptionists fault.

On the first occasion it was the GP who had marked the bloods incorrectly and not let you know. This is obviously terrible but it sounds like your anger is directed at the wrong person?

The second occasion demonstrates a massive systemic problem in the NHS - why does your tertiary doctor require a GP referral when you are clearly already known to them and they want to see you? Again I’m not sure this is the receptionists fault.

I think GP receptionists are the most accessible and public facing part of primary care and therefore get burdened with all of our anger every issue - not just the ones involving them.

Ownedbykitties · 06/07/2025 19:25

cherrypied · 06/07/2025 17:59

Well I thought 111 was for when the go was shut so it seems insane to me.

No. Not at all.

cherrypied · 06/07/2025 17:59

Ownedbykitties · 06/07/2025 17:30

No it's not insane.

Well I thought 111 was for when the go was shut so it seems insane to me.

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Ownedbykitties · 06/07/2025 17:38

BusWankers · 05/07/2025 22:31

Because it's very fucking obvious that a person who is after a flu jab doesn't need a GP, or an ear irrigation... doesn't need a GP.... Someone who needs dressing changed... No GP.

The receptionist can easily triage based on set criteria. A computer can do this!

People insist on seeing GPs for every tiny little thing when they could probably just go to Tesco and get a off the shelf product.

And sometimes it's very obvious that a patient does need a GP or to be seen same day by a clinician but some receptionists don't have the skills to work out the difference and use a blanket "all slots are full" to absolutely everybody.

Caligirl80 · 06/07/2025 17:35

cherrypied · 05/07/2025 19:58

They are called care navigators.

I’m so poorly and fed up but they seem to want to do everything tiny to not give me a an appointment with a GP.

Is this part of their training?

If you have having problems with the "gatekeepers" (urgh...so many of them seem to think that they are GPs - I am sorry) then call 111 and ask for help - they can get you an appointment with a GP if your symptoms warrant one.

Of course if you are really having trouble and feeling like self care is not helping then you can always go to A&E.

Ownedbykitties · 06/07/2025 17:34

Lavenderflower · 06/07/2025 09:58

Partners give them authority do certain. Many people get angry with receptionist but sometimes it is the GP who has sent the patient away. For example, a patient request to see a specific doctor, they receptionist might ask the GP and the GP will tell the patient they are not available.

Lavenderflower yes the senior staff should triage. That was the way it worked in mental health but no idea if it still does. It worked very well so it's probably been changed 😆

Ownedbykitties · 06/07/2025 17:30

cherrypied · 06/07/2025 16:26

This is insane that 111 can override appointments at the surgery!

No it's not insane.

Ownedbykitties · 06/07/2025 17:28

Sometimes you get through to a receptionist who understands what the patient is saying and will consult with duty GP if all urgent slots have gone. Other times it's a receptionist who can not see past the "all slots are full" computer message and whatever the issue is they will stick like a limpet on a rock to the "all slots are full " mantra. I have had both but always end up being seen by GP in the end because 111 refer me straight back to the GP unless it's out of hours. The receptionists who cannot grasp that seeing past their instructions to decline everybody who hasn't managed to a slot in the 8.30 stampede and realise that empathy and flexibility are good skills to have in a health care job, are not doing the practice or the patients any favours.

RafaistheKingofClay · 06/07/2025 17:18

They might take you as an out of catchment patient.

I’m still registered with my old practice as out of catchment. They only change is that they won’t do house calls.