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… To be considering leaving the UK?

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globalnomad25 · 05/07/2025 13:17

We have been considering leaving, even if only for a few years. Many of our clients have already gone or are planning it, and some of our friends too.

I’m not sure where we’d go: UAE, Portugal, Jersey, Ireland, Canada, Australia? We don’t currently want to move to the US, even though that would probably make the most sense from a business/client point of view.

For those out there who have already left, how has it gone? Was it a horrible mistake or are you glad you did it?

For those also thinking about it, where would you go?

Kids are school-aged and smart and used to international travel as our work already takes us all over, although they’d miss their friends (as would we). We aren’t English so our family is already based all over the place, although we visit them frequently.

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Parker231 · 05/07/2025 23:12

TempestTost · 05/07/2025 23:07

As a Canadian, Canada is in a really bad place now. Jobs are hard to find, pay is often low, infrastructure needs updating, housing is through the roof expensive, and people die waiting in the ER and have no GP, and if you as a woman go to prison, or are raped, there is every chance you will be put in a bed next to a man.

If you have kids, I would also say the education system here is not likely as good as the UK, though it varies by province. But something to consider if you would be using the public system.

Doesn’t represent the Canada we live in. We’re in Montreal, where are you?

TempestTost · 05/07/2025 23:09

Itallcomesdowntothis · 05/07/2025 22:47

I get it but teaching kids to pass tests doesn’t always make the best model either. Creating a love of learning is important and a lot of teacher son rhe UK will
tell you that the curriculum and learning in the UK is very restrictive:

Approx 23% of working age people in the UK receive some sort of benefit as opposed to approx 5% in Canada.

57.5% of working age Canadians have a university degree or higher as opposed to 22.6% in the UK.

So yeah your friends may not have agreed with the Canadian school system but twice as many go on to get a degree and a fraction rely on state benefits. I know both systems very well and the UK system is broken. Not to mention amazing teachers who are on their knees in the UK. The Ontario Teachers Pension Plan is worth 226 Billion. We value education and those who educate.

I totally disagree with this. Universities in Canada are a joke now, that is why so many have degrees.

TempestTost · 05/07/2025 23:07

As a Canadian, Canada is in a really bad place now. Jobs are hard to find, pay is often low, infrastructure needs updating, housing is through the roof expensive, and people die waiting in the ER and have no GP, and if you as a woman go to prison, or are raped, there is every chance you will be put in a bed next to a man.

If you have kids, I would also say the education system here is not likely as good as the UK, though it varies by province. But something to consider if you would be using the public system.

GreenIsMyFavoriteColour · 05/07/2025 23:03

L1ghyn1ngBug · 05/07/2025 21:11

So you want people paid less, lower taxes for the few who hoard the wealth and no benefits. Sounds peachy! What a utopia!

No, I want everyone to be paid billions, zero tax and massive benefits for all.

(I just accept that's not possible.)

Itallcomesdowntothis · 05/07/2025 22:47

Grammarnut · 05/07/2025 20:18

There is nothing wrong with testing. In fact, explicit interactive teaching which includes repetition, rehearsal and retrieval i.e. for tests is the best way to learn. It's the 'I do, we do, you do' model.

I get it but teaching kids to pass tests doesn’t always make the best model either. Creating a love of learning is important and a lot of teacher son rhe UK will
tell you that the curriculum and learning in the UK is very restrictive:

Approx 23% of working age people in the UK receive some sort of benefit as opposed to approx 5% in Canada.

57.5% of working age Canadians have a university degree or higher as opposed to 22.6% in the UK.

So yeah your friends may not have agreed with the Canadian school system but twice as many go on to get a degree and a fraction rely on state benefits. I know both systems very well and the UK system is broken. Not to mention amazing teachers who are on their knees in the UK. The Ontario Teachers Pension Plan is worth 226 Billion. We value education and those who educate.

globalnomad25 · 05/07/2025 22:34

MissAmbrosia · 05/07/2025 20:30

Indeed - the withdrawal agreement protected those of us who were already abroad but home uni fees otherwise are only available now if you've been living in UK for 3 years and you might not be eligible for any student finance. My dd has decided to stay in Europe for a Masters due to cost / loan. The unis make their money from foreign students - fees can be eyewatering.

This is a very strong point, thank you, and uni fees are one area I’d not fully considered - I will look more into this!

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Meadowland · 05/07/2025 22:12

I have loved in 2 other European countries.
Although both nice enough places, I missed the UK and am now firmly settled back here.
As a pp said , climate change is now a huge consideration, with parts of Southern Europe becoming uncomfortably hot for extended parts of the year

RenoLouis · 05/07/2025 22:11

L1ghyn1ngBug · 05/07/2025 21:50

None of the latter 3 are actually happening and we have education. Also unfortunately the things we like such as that education you talk about and universal health care, pensions etc cost. You can’t just ignore the cost. The few hoarding the majority of wealth don’t need that wealth so really they need to and should be taxed more.

None of the latter 3 are actually happening

Easily verifiable facts. Doesn’t seem a lot of point in continuing if we’re not accepting reality.

L1ghyn1ngBug · 05/07/2025 21:50

RenoLouis · 05/07/2025 21:42

Definitely, you do this through lower taxes and education. Not crippling taxes, closing down schools and vilifying anyone successful.

None of the latter 3 are actually happening and we have education. Also unfortunately the things we like such as that education you talk about and universal health care, pensions etc cost. You can’t just ignore the cost. The few hoarding the majority of wealth don’t need that wealth so really they need to and should be taxed more.

ThisIsMyYearToFindMyself · 05/07/2025 21:42

I think the only countries I would be prepared to move to permanently would be Australia or New Zealand. I’d happily spend a year or two in many many places but I’d only move to those countries knowing it was for a limited time.

Australia or New Zealand (not actually been to either) are culturally similar enough for me to have a really good go at settling. But they’re really far away from everywhere 😆.

RenoLouis · 05/07/2025 21:42

L1ghyn1ngBug · 05/07/2025 21:32

Cool so raising wages for all maybe is something that should be focused on rather than the wealthy few wanting to hoard their wealth.

Definitely, you do this through lower taxes and education. Not crippling taxes, closing down schools and vilifying anyone successful.

cottoncandy260 · 05/07/2025 21:40

ByGreenHiker · 05/07/2025 13:29

UAE ...enjoy

Hahaha. Exactly what I was thinking. Why on earth would you want to move there?

L1ghyn1ngBug · 05/07/2025 21:32

RenoLouis · 05/07/2025 21:30

They should, agreed.

Cool so raising wages for all maybe is something that should be focused on rather than the wealthy few wanting to hoard their wealth.

RenoLouis · 05/07/2025 21:30

L1ghyn1ngBug · 05/07/2025 21:18

So why shouldn’t all hard working people have good wages-you know to spread the tax burden out a bit and cut down on those pesky benefit recipients.

They should, agreed.

RenoLouis · 05/07/2025 21:24

L1ghyn1ngBug · 05/07/2025 21:11

So you want people paid less, lower taxes for the few who hoard the wealth and no benefits. Sounds peachy! What a utopia!

Not paid less, receive less benefits or even start working. The fiscal drag on income tax should be eliminated meaning the higher rate kicks in at £72k rather than £50k. The £100k loss of tax free allowance should be around £160k if even at all. Education tax should be reversed.

L1ghyn1ngBug · 05/07/2025 21:18

RenoLouis · 05/07/2025 21:16

This is the crux of why net tax payers are wanting to leave, not only do they get burdened with ever increasing taxes but vilified by people who only take from the system in the process.

So why shouldn’t all hard working people have good wages-you know to spread the tax burden out a bit and cut down on those pesky benefit recipients.

RenoLouis · 05/07/2025 21:16

L1ghyn1ngBug · 05/07/2025 21:02

Maybe wages need to go up- just a thought. People are working harder than ever and a few at the top hoard the wealth.

This is the crux of why net tax payers are wanting to leave, not only do they get burdened with ever increasing taxes but vilified by people who only take from the system in the process.

Gunnersforthecup · 05/07/2025 21:14

The Nordic countries are also quite close to Russia. Several have recently introduced conscription, I understand. Something of which to be aware.

L1ghyn1ngBug · 05/07/2025 21:11

GreenIsMyFavoriteColour · 05/07/2025 21:06

Wages go up? Really? I can already hire engineers to work from home in Romania far cheaper than UK engineers - with an impressive work ethic. UK staff costs are absolutely not competetive and even at existing rates recruitment is a nightmare. Meanwhile we use in work benefits to subsidise coffee shop workers.

So you want people paid less, lower taxes for the few who hoard the wealth and no benefits. Sounds peachy! What a utopia!

Boilingfrogatprimaryschool · 05/07/2025 21:07

Lioncub2020 · 05/07/2025 19:57

Bare in mind Jersey is tiny. You can drive across from end to end in 30 mins and the speed limit isn't greater than 40 anywhere. It is a very different lifestyle.

That reminds me of a wonderful retort. A school friend moved to Jersey and was telling us it was quite a shock as it was so small "only 9 x 5" he said. A friend instantly replied "9 x 5? That is small. My bedroom is bigger than that". Still makes me smile to this day...

GreenIsMyFavoriteColour · 05/07/2025 21:06

L1ghyn1ngBug · 05/07/2025 21:02

Maybe wages need to go up- just a thought. People are working harder than ever and a few at the top hoard the wealth.

Wages go up? Really? I can already hire engineers to work from home in Romania far cheaper than UK engineers - with an impressive work ethic. UK staff costs are absolutely not competetive and even at existing rates recruitment is a nightmare. Meanwhile we use in work benefits to subsidise coffee shop workers.

GreenIsMyFavoriteColour · 05/07/2025 21:03

Simpler things are what we all need to learn to be grateful for .

My neighbour has a 35 grand car paid for by the disability benefit her husband gets. Maybe they should have simpler things, and maybe I'd be less annoyed at dragging myself out of bed at 6am to go to work if I wasn't buying other people stuff I can't justify for myself? Why do only people in work have to tighten our belts, why can't the 50% of people who are non tax payers tighten theirs or even better become taxpayers?

L1ghyn1ngBug · 05/07/2025 21:02

RenoLouis · 05/07/2025 21:00

The problem is, it’s only a minority paying net tax now. It’s completely skewing politics and it can’t be sustainable.

Maybe wages need to go up- just a thought. People are working harder than ever and a few at the top hoard the wealth.

RenoLouis · 05/07/2025 21:00

MissAmbrosia · 05/07/2025 20:35

And taxes are actually higher in many European countries - it makes me laugh when people say they want to move abroad to avoid high taxes. If you want to go to Dubai etc well....I prefer to pay tax myself, support the country I live in and receive decent services. I swear since Thatcher the UK is just every man for himself. Complain about what's on offer but not happy to pay to improve things.

The problem is, it’s only a minority paying net tax now. It’s completely skewing politics and it can’t be sustainable.

Poppins21 · 05/07/2025 21:00

L1ghyn1ngBug · 05/07/2025 19:56

As regards doctors in Australia- after you’ve worked in a high needs remote area for 10 years , you’ve navigated the lengthy and complicated registration process and it has been proved Australians can’t fill the posts.

And as regards coding, there is coding and coding. No anybody who can code cant just walk into jobs in other countries .

It’s about money you can get a visa pretty much anywhere if you have enough cash to invest or bring a business. We have moved extensively and visas have never been an issue.

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