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To think it's actually OK to recline your seat on a long haul flight?

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winterwonder1 · 04/07/2025 19:21

I always thought it was just one of those things, but this poll seems to make out it's anti-social behaviour. And that hack is just batshit.

Best life hack to stop air passengers reclining their seat | Chester and District Standard

Flier shares 'best life hack' to stop passengers in front reclining their seat

Traveller shares her 'best life hack', involving a tub of Pringles, but is branded 'pathetic' and 'a horrible person'.

https://www.chesterstandard.co.uk/news/national/uk-today/25287018.best-life-hack-stop-air-passengers-reclining-seat/

OP posts:
Ohthedaffodils · 05/07/2025 16:11

Cathy Pacific stewards barked at the people in front of me who reclined just before meal service.

whatcanthematterbe81 · 05/07/2025 16:00

That’s what they’re for, why wouldn’t you

youreactinglikeafunmum · 05/07/2025 15:54

iamgoingthere · 05/07/2025 15:34

This reminds of the time I did a long haul flight from Asia.

The bloke behind me took his shoes off. Man, he had stinky feet. There were people all around feeling uncomfortable and holding their noses, one man had stuffed tissue up his nose.

No one said anything to the Smelly Feet Man. I was only 18 at the time, but I plucked up the courage to tell him his feet was very smelly and could he please put his shoes back on. He was embarrassed, his friends teased him and I got a round of applause. 😂

😭😭😭 the SHOWER i am going to have before this flight 😅 plus I'm gonna wash my crocs and get a pedicure 🙈

Lardychops · 05/07/2025 15:35

itbemay1 · 04/07/2025 19:53

I was on a 2h BA flight recently and the guy in front reclined the seat!! My DH asked him to put it back up and he did but I couldn’t believe it. I don’t think seats should be able to recline on short haul. Yes to long haul as I’m guessing there’s a little bit more leg room.

Why did your DH do that
rude twat - fucking upgrade or put up with it

poor bloke - no idea why he sat back up

iamgoingthere · 05/07/2025 15:34

youreactinglikeafunmum · 04/07/2025 19:37

Serious question, and not to derail your thread op - is it okay to be barefoot on an 8 hour flight?

And to answer the question, I think its fine for nighttime x

This reminds of the time I did a long haul flight from Asia.

The bloke behind me took his shoes off. Man, he had stinky feet. There were people all around feeling uncomfortable and holding their noses, one man had stuffed tissue up his nose.

No one said anything to the Smelly Feet Man. I was only 18 at the time, but I plucked up the courage to tell him his feet was very smelly and could he please put his shoes back on. He was embarrassed, his friends teased him and I got a round of applause. 😂

Lardychops · 05/07/2025 15:33

Doingtheboxerbeat · 05/07/2025 14:35

This whole thread is so annoying if you are a recliner which you are allowed to be and you also happen to be a considerate person who thinks of others .
I would be inclined to not want to get into a confrontation with the passenger behind me, especially if they have a child, however, most of my friends wouldn't give the shiniest of shites , so I would be sat bolt upright and my friends would be🛏️.
There needs to a standard that everyone agrees to and not just the free-for-all that we have at present . It's like putting the outdoor smoking area right next to the dining area or children's play area - its just creating conflict for no good reason.

I’m in the couldn’t give a shiny shit camp
hopefully reclining happily behind someone considerate like you tho!
win win in that case

RufustheFactualReindeer · 05/07/2025 15:30

MoriftedinaFrenchEscapeRoom · 05/07/2025 15:02

badwithnumbers · Today 09:30
I have no problem with a slight recline during the day on a flight, but fully reclined (basically totally horizontal), during the day and when people are eating/drinking and CANNOT actually sit in their seats is selfish. I don’t have anything else to say on the matter.

Thank you very much, I am assuming its just the one poster…i hate seats reclining but ive never come across it in economy, i would have totally kicked off 😀

saltinesandcoffeecups · 05/07/2025 15:30

onehorserace · 05/07/2025 15:23

I haven't made it up for gods sake . That's BA. Look on seat guru!

Settle down big shooter I wasn’t accusing you of anything. But now that we’re here….

To think it's actually OK to recline your seat on a long haul flight?
To think it's actually OK to recline your seat on a long haul flight?
Lardychops · 05/07/2025 15:29

SumUp · 05/07/2025 09:14

So why didn’t you recline your seat too to create more space for yourself?

or upgrade
Or don’t fly

Deedledee1976 · 05/07/2025 15:29

I only recline my seat if the person behind me has already reclined theirs.

Lardychops · 05/07/2025 15:28

caffelattetogo · 05/07/2025 08:09

Surely if you reclined your seat onto a child (even of 18 months) on top of an adult in a pretty cramped seat pitch, you’d pretty much be touching the child with your seat, so would inevitably feel their every movement?

Even so deffo expect parents to manage that I absolutely do not expect to feel kids bashing my seat - although complaining about it several times did get me upgraded once which was ace !

Lardychops · 05/07/2025 15:25

SirRodneyEfffing · 04/07/2025 19:28

Yep, we’re taking an 18 hour plane journey in about 10 days. Too right, as soon as meal service is cleared I’ll be reclining as far back as possible. If the person behind feels that restricts their space, then they’re quite at liberty to recline too

100 same when we used to fly cattle class !
Business or premium economy now but if reverted back due to cost - you betcha that seat is going back every time

onehorserace · 05/07/2025 15:23

saltinesandcoffeecups · 05/07/2025 15:13

I don’t think it’s even that… I thought it was like 2-4 inches

I haven't made it up for gods sake . That's BA. Look on seat guru!

notimagain · 05/07/2025 15:22

Bit background in the link below, it expands on a point I made way back that there's a whole sub industry dedicated to seat/cabin design and might also explain in part why business and more especially First Class fares can be as steep as they sometimes are:

www.businessinsider.com/a-business-class-seat-costs-80000-2013-8

Doingtheboxerbeat · 05/07/2025 15:18

saltinesandcoffeecups · 05/07/2025 15:09

I don’t think reclining is selfish or inconsiderate 🤷‍♀️. (Not even the super reclining guy I mentioned in a previous comment)

Just putting that out there…

As I said in my previous post, you are perfectly within your right to recline smoke in your own garden and not wear a mask in public but lots will see this as selfish - I understand there's a massive difference in all of those scenarios but it's a question of your own personal stance. And this creates conflict.

saltinesandcoffeecups · 05/07/2025 15:13

onehorserace · 05/07/2025 15:11

Recline is SIX INCHES in economy 😂

I don’t think it’s even that… I thought it was like 2-4 inches

onehorserace · 05/07/2025 15:11

MoriftedinaFrenchEscapeRoom · 05/07/2025 15:02

badwithnumbers · Today 09:30
I have no problem with a slight recline during the day on a flight, but fully reclined (basically totally horizontal), during the day and when people are eating/drinking and CANNOT actually sit in their seats is selfish. I don’t have anything else to say on the matter.

Recline is SIX INCHES in economy 😂

saltinesandcoffeecups · 05/07/2025 15:09

Doingtheboxerbeat · 05/07/2025 14:57

I agree, it needs to be taken out of our hands and not just left up to the renegades - like giving people a choice whether or not to mask up in public during the pandemic is ridiculously futile - the selfish/inconsiderates always win.

I don’t think reclining is selfish or inconsiderate 🤷‍♀️. (Not even the super reclining guy I mentioned in a previous comment)

Just putting that out there…

MoriftedinaFrenchEscapeRoom · 05/07/2025 15:02

RufustheFactualReindeer · 05/07/2025 14:56

Great question! I have asked upthread which airlines have these magical, reclining horizontally in economy, seats. SPOILER: there aren't any

i have not read the entire thread, where are the posts saying that seats recline horizontally? I don’t remember seeing them but I may well have missed them

badwithnumbers · Today 09:30
I have no problem with a slight recline during the day on a flight, but fully reclined (basically totally horizontal), during the day and when people are eating/drinking and CANNOT actually sit in their seats is selfish. I don’t have anything else to say on the matter.

Doingtheboxerbeat · 05/07/2025 14:57

saltinesandcoffeecups · 05/07/2025 14:47

The only way to get everyone to agree is for the airline to make the final recline/no recline decision.

I don’t think they’ll ever stop reclining because flight durations can vary so much and they want to offer what comfort they can without affecting their profit. They can’t remove the recline function for short flights and have the recline function for longer flights because they need flexibility with the aircrafts.

Edited

I agree, it needs to be taken out of our hands and not just left up to the renegades - like giving people a choice whether or not to mask up in public during the pandemic is ridiculously futile - the selfish/inconsiderates always win.

RufustheFactualReindeer · 05/07/2025 14:56

Great question! I have asked upthread which airlines have these magical, reclining horizontally in economy, seats. SPOILER: there aren't any

i have not read the entire thread, where are the posts saying that seats recline horizontally? I don’t remember seeing them but I may well have missed them

MoriftedinaFrenchEscapeRoom · 05/07/2025 14:48

marcopront · 05/07/2025 13:58

What airlines do you fly with where recline makes you basically horizontal?

Great question! I have asked upthread which airlines have these magical, reclining horizontally in economy, seats. SPOILER: there aren't any

Please can someone come on and clarify, then I won't need to shell out ££££ for business class next time we go long haul.

I'm not holding my breath.

saltinesandcoffeecups · 05/07/2025 14:47

Doingtheboxerbeat · 05/07/2025 14:35

This whole thread is so annoying if you are a recliner which you are allowed to be and you also happen to be a considerate person who thinks of others .
I would be inclined to not want to get into a confrontation with the passenger behind me, especially if they have a child, however, most of my friends wouldn't give the shiniest of shites , so I would be sat bolt upright and my friends would be🛏️.
There needs to a standard that everyone agrees to and not just the free-for-all that we have at present . It's like putting the outdoor smoking area right next to the dining area or children's play area - its just creating conflict for no good reason.

The only way to get everyone to agree is for the airline to make the final recline/no recline decision.

I don’t think they’ll ever stop reclining because flight durations can vary so much and they want to offer what comfort they can without affecting their profit. They can’t remove the recline function for short flights and have the recline function for longer flights because they need flexibility with the aircrafts.

Doingtheboxerbeat · 05/07/2025 14:35

This whole thread is so annoying if you are a recliner which you are allowed to be and you also happen to be a considerate person who thinks of others .
I would be inclined to not want to get into a confrontation with the passenger behind me, especially if they have a child, however, most of my friends wouldn't give the shiniest of shites , so I would be sat bolt upright and my friends would be🛏️.
There needs to a standard that everyone agrees to and not just the free-for-all that we have at present . It's like putting the outdoor smoking area right next to the dining area or children's play area - its just creating conflict for no good reason.

saltinesandcoffeecups · 05/07/2025 14:28

In fairness, I was once sitting behind a seat that I believe was broken as it reclined far more than the one next to it and really was right in my lap. (I’m short so no knees to stop it.

I just tapped the man on the shoulder and said ‘excuse me sir, if you get any closer I’m going to have to ask that you marry me’ 😁. His buddy laughed who was sitting next to him and the guy did bring it up to the normal recline level. In the end I thanked him, everyone got a good laugh and that was that.

Aside from that I think FAs are going to hate this ‘hack’ it’s no different than that little clip thing that was being sold for awhile that prevented reclining. I think that was eventually banned. Now, anytime a seat doesn’t recline it’s going to be the flight attendants looking for pringles cans and water bottles.