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To think it's actually OK to recline your seat on a long haul flight?

407 replies

winterwonder1 · 04/07/2025 19:21

I always thought it was just one of those things, but this poll seems to make out it's anti-social behaviour. And that hack is just batshit.

Best life hack to stop air passengers reclining their seat | Chester and District Standard

Flier shares 'best life hack' to stop passengers in front reclining their seat

Traveller shares her 'best life hack', involving a tub of Pringles, but is branded 'pathetic' and 'a horrible person'.

https://www.chesterstandard.co.uk/news/national/uk-today/25287018.best-life-hack-stop-air-passengers-reclining-seat/

OP posts:
Poppins21 · 09/07/2025 03:35

sneeziseason · 08/07/2025 23:55

No they wouldn’t be moved as it’s up to them if they want to cross their legs - and you couldn’t recline your seat as that poster said once they’ve crossed their legs there’s no space. And of course they wouldn’t stand for you .

You would possibly be moved if they had spare seats but on many flights there’s none.

I have no issue with someone reclining but the “I will do as I please” attitude and super angry about it to boot, I find difficult. Basic courtesy would really go a long way on flights.

sneeziseason · 08/07/2025 23:55

Lardychops · 08/07/2025 21:05

I have a bad back which would be made worse by sitting upright (and even if I didn't l like chilling back on a plane with headphones and a drink etc dozing off ) so I would absolutely expect them or me to be moved or them to stand
if they are risking injury by flying dependent on some mug sat in front of them not being able to relax then they are batshit nuts.

No they wouldn’t be moved as it’s up to them if they want to cross their legs - and you couldn’t recline your seat as that poster said once they’ve crossed their legs there’s no space. And of course they wouldn’t stand for you .

You would possibly be moved if they had spare seats but on many flights there’s none.

heroinechic · 08/07/2025 23:31

Lardychops · 08/07/2025 21:05

I have a bad back which would be made worse by sitting upright (and even if I didn't l like chilling back on a plane with headphones and a drink etc dozing off ) so I would absolutely expect them or me to be moved or them to stand
if they are risking injury by flying dependent on some mug sat in front of them not being able to relax then they are batshit nuts.

Fucking hell what world are you living in? You honestly would expect someone sat behind you to stand on a flight so that you can lounge back? Unreal. You are utterly deluded.

Your comfort does not come first to anyone but yourself. If you cannot recline because someone’s legs physically prevent it, that’s tough luck I’m afraid. You’ll get nowhere trying to force them to stand!

Doingtheboxerbeat · 08/07/2025 22:03

Poppins21 · 08/07/2025 19:02

So you would physically injury someone sat behind you?

I think they mean why should they be impacted personally when someone sitting in front of a shorter person just lounge until their hearts were content?

I get what you are saying completely , truly I do , but it's giving the decision to individuals to exercise their own free will and who you are sat behind/ in front of is down to luck. It's not their problem essentially.

Lardychops · 08/07/2025 21:05

Poppins21 · 08/07/2025 19:02

So you would physically injury someone sat behind you?

I have a bad back which would be made worse by sitting upright (and even if I didn't l like chilling back on a plane with headphones and a drink etc dozing off ) so I would absolutely expect them or me to be moved or them to stand
if they are risking injury by flying dependent on some mug sat in front of them not being able to relax then they are batshit nuts.

ZamaZama · 08/07/2025 19:11

Never understood why using a seat function as intended gets people worked up so much. I don’t love it when the person in front reclines, but I just tend to take that as my cue to do the same. And in fact I couldn’t sit bolt upright for an extended flight now.

It’s airlines squeezing space more and more that is at fault, not passengers wanting economy long haul to be a bit less awful.

As for upgrading to business if you want to recline - well the same could be said about not wanting others to recline into your space. Pay for business and nobody using their seat as designed is going to impact you at all.

Poppins21 · 08/07/2025 19:02

Lardychops · 08/07/2025 19:00

I would then expect you to be moved or for staff to find a solution

If I’m in front of you my seat is going back -
your comfort in no way trumps mine (and is of absolutely no interest to me as you need to make your own arrangements for this regarding your long legs ) if this would cause you injury then I suggest you only fly EP or BC or don’t fly

my seat is going back whoever is behind me be they 7foot tall or 25 stones

its going back- as it is designed to do -
end of

So you would physically injury someone sat behind you?

Lardychops · 08/07/2025 19:00

stillawip · 08/07/2025 16:09

I have long legs and am most comfortable in my seat with my legs crossed. In this position my knee literally touches the seat in front and there is no space for the person in front of me to recline, even if they try to! I’ve only ever had one person get upset with me, but I’m not quite sure what she expected me to do - chop my leg off?!

I would then expect you to be moved or for staff to find a solution

If I’m in front of you my seat is going back -
your comfort in no way trumps mine (and is of absolutely no interest to me as you need to make your own arrangements for this regarding your long legs ) if this would cause you injury then I suggest you only fly EP or BC or don’t fly

my seat is going back whoever is behind me be they 7foot tall or 25 stones

its going back- as it is designed to do -
end of

Lardychops · 08/07/2025 16:32

28Fluctuations · 05/07/2025 20:30

I know airlines serve it... but just why why why do people order hot drinks in a moving vehicle prone to jolts and bumps, then set it on a flimsy plastic tray attached to a seat they have no contol over?? I mean, does it not occur that it might spill and injure you or the innocent bystander next to you?

I am fine with reclining - but I mightily resent people ordering hot coffee and forcing the FA to pass it to them over my lap.

I will Not allow hot drinks passed over me I insist it’s passed to me as low as my table and then I slide it across my table onto theirs, OR they wait for me (and my kids back in the day to get out of our seats)
I was scalded when I was four
no hot drinks going over me ever thanks x

notimagain · 08/07/2025 16:12

StarlightLady · 08/07/2025 15:58

Not so. What is your source of information?

Profit margins are relatively small. A significant number of airlines in the UK and mainland Europe have financially collapsed since 2000.

I blame Mr O'Leary for some of the missconceptions over ticket pricing (even he now reckons he may have spun this in correctly).

When people think they should pay less for a shorthaul flight than for parking at the airport, or think the airline is making much if any profit on a £300 or £400 ticket on a >10 hour flight (especially when HMG takes the first £90 in APD) the industry has done a bad job at educating people.

TBH many companies will be carrying many econ passengers at a loss, it's the premium cabins where the profit is made.

stillawip · 08/07/2025 16:09

I have long legs and am most comfortable in my seat with my legs crossed. In this position my knee literally touches the seat in front and there is no space for the person in front of me to recline, even if they try to! I’ve only ever had one person get upset with me, but I’m not quite sure what she expected me to do - chop my leg off?!

StarlightLady · 08/07/2025 15:58

Hulabalu · 08/07/2025 15:20

And airlines make massive profits !!

Not so. What is your source of information?

Profit margins are relatively small. A significant number of airlines in the UK and mainland Europe have financially collapsed since 2000.

notimagain · 08/07/2025 15:56

Hulabalu · 08/07/2025 15:20

And airlines make massive profits !!

Yes, but it's big numbers game across the board, for example your typical.Long Haul twin can cost $30,000 an hour to fly, and A380 pushing maybe $50,000 an hour.

..so yes the profits look massive but to gain perspective you need to divide profit (after tax) by passengers conveyed ....that typically works out at around £5 to £10 per passenger carried over the reporting period...

There simply isn't the headroom for the airlines to cut much off fares and charges without going into the red.

Also bear in mind many airlines are still recovering financially from the Covid years, and no doubt tucking some of that profit away in the bank for the next downturn - and there will be one.

Economy Longhaul is still, generally very very good value.

Hulabalu · 08/07/2025 15:20

daleylama · 08/07/2025 13:52

There is a dotted line joining airline pricing ( we all enjoy relatively cheap air travel) and comfort.

And airlines make massive profits !!

Morgenrot25 · 08/07/2025 15:07

daleylama · 08/07/2025 13:41

Its really not. Dumping your economy seat into someone's lap outside of sleep time is so selfish and a relatively new problem - maybe the last 5-10 years? No manners, no insight, utterly thoughtless.l

You can copy/paste my initial reply, I cannot be bothered.

marcopront · 08/07/2025 14:59

daleylama · 08/07/2025 13:41

Its really not. Dumping your economy seat into someone's lap outside of sleep time is so selfish and a relatively new problem - maybe the last 5-10 years? No manners, no insight, utterly thoughtless.l

What is your evidence for it only being in the last 5 to 10 years?

I have been flying internationally for over 30 years and cannot say I have noticed any change in the reclining of seats.

Whammyyammy · 08/07/2025 14:12

notimagain · 08/07/2025 13:50

I don't think it's new.

On many Long Haul daytime flights, certainly with the legacy carriers, a lot/all blinds come down after the first meal service ( I think that's a shame but it helps those that need sleep or helps with the IFE) and a high percentage of the seats get reclined to some degree...been like that for at least 20-30 years.

Agreed and of course people will continue to use the recline function on their seat.
What next, not using the tv screen, the reading light, the window blind, the tray.... all options provided for passengers.
If anyone does not agree, speak to the cabin crew... I can already tell you what they'll say

notimagain · 08/07/2025 14:07

daleylama · 08/07/2025 13:52

There is a dotted line joining airline pricing ( we all enjoy relatively cheap air travel) and comfort.

Very true...

If you look hard enough It's still possible to get the sort of economy seat pitch available thirty years ago, with added modern knobs and bells like seat back video and in seat charging, for what you would have paid in real terms in the nineties..but in Economy plus.

Current basic economy Long Haul fares, when put through an inflation calculator, can be an absolute steal verses what used to be paid a generation ago, even with what the UK Gov takes out by way of APD.

daleylama · 08/07/2025 13:54

notimagain · 08/07/2025 13:50

I don't think it's new.

On many Long Haul daytime flights, certainly with the legacy carriers, a lot/all blinds come down after the first meal service ( I think that's a shame but it helps those that need sleep or helps with the IFE) and a high percentage of the seats get reclined to some degree...been like that for at least 20-30 years.

And thats fine. Blinds down ,lights dimmed- recline at your leisure. Just boarded-dump your seat into the next row for the duration. Unacceptable.

daleylama · 08/07/2025 13:52

Hulabalu · 07/07/2025 22:24

I would think that is the rule .
airlines should not be allowed to cram people in like they do,

There is a dotted line joining airline pricing ( we all enjoy relatively cheap air travel) and comfort.

notimagain · 08/07/2025 13:50

daleylama · 08/07/2025 13:41

Its really not. Dumping your economy seat into someone's lap outside of sleep time is so selfish and a relatively new problem - maybe the last 5-10 years? No manners, no insight, utterly thoughtless.l

I don't think it's new.

On many Long Haul daytime flights, certainly with the legacy carriers, a lot/all blinds come down after the first meal service ( I think that's a shame but it helps those that need sleep or helps with the IFE) and a high percentage of the seats get reclined to some degree...been like that for at least 20-30 years.

daleylama · 08/07/2025 13:41

Morgenrot25 · 08/07/2025 05:32

It's not entitlement to do something you seat is designed to do.
Calling nnormal behaviour that you happen not to like 'entitlement" is probably in itself the actual entitlement.
HTH

Its really not. Dumping your economy seat into someone's lap outside of sleep time is so selfish and a relatively new problem - maybe the last 5-10 years? No manners, no insight, utterly thoughtless.l

Whammyyammy · 08/07/2025 13:17

NotMeNoNo · 07/07/2025 21:44

They should just have a rule that you should put your seat upright if staff request you to. e.g during meals, if the passenger behind is taller than average or has some other particular issue. Airlines are using the same old seats designed for comfortable reclining at a reasonable spacing, but have moved them closer together causing these arguments. DH was forced out of his seat to stand in the aisle by a selfish person reclining on our last flight. The man was literally slamming the seat back into DH's knees. You should only recline if there's space to do it safely.

I fly AA and BA to the U.S a lot and they do tell you to put seat up during take off, landing and meal times.
Any other time is fine.

Markovenchip · 08/07/2025 12:41

I don't know if it's possible on all airlines, but I always book an exit-row seat, more leg room, and the seats in front don't recline either, it's cost me a small fortune over the decades, but being 6'4" with a figure to match it's worth it, though one won't be seated there if one has mobility issues, I only travel from Britain to Europe these days, with Easy-jet, they've never let me down (unlike Thomas Cook and Thomson)

Morgenrot25 · 08/07/2025 05:39

daleylama · 08/07/2025 00:01

So dumping your seat into someone's lap us somehow courteous?

Nobody is 'dumping their seat into someone's lap'. 😵‍💫