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About the bloody packed lunches?

108 replies

Illbefinejustbloodyfine · 04/07/2025 16:19

I have 2 DC at primary school. One has packed lunch every day, the other 3 times a week. Every day, they eat about 3 bits of sandwich and leave the rest. Or dc2 will leave the crackers

Today he asked for chicken pieces and bread and butter. He also had some cucumber, some Greek yogurt, and a slice of Swiss roll. He left most of the bread. Yesterday left most of the sandwich. Weds left the crackers.

They go straight for a snack when they get home and it drives me nuts to find uneaten sandwickes/crackers/whatever in the lunchbox.

Several times I've said to eat the sandwich first. Yesterday I made a big point of it . Today, dc2 has snuck the uneaten bread into the bin.

Aibu to just give a sandwich and piece of fruit next week? Funnily enough it's never the "treat" that's uneaten.

For context, it's a 1 slice folded in half sandwich. They sometimes have wraps or bagels but do the same with those too.

I'm so fed up of throwing food away.

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Cakeandusername · 04/07/2025 16:25

Yes it’s fine to give less food if not eating it. They finish school so early so perhaps split lunch in 2 - so half at school eg sandwich and cucumber and half after school so yoghurt and fruit.

Cedrabbage · 04/07/2025 16:24

Remove the junk. If you're dead set on giving it to them every day save it for pudding/snack at home

Illbefinejustbloodyfine · 04/07/2025 16:23

Oh and they'd eat the sandwich at home.

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Needmorelego · 04/07/2025 16:22

I'd not bother with the sandwich and just give a selection of fruit, salad and veg and the yoghurt.

Illbefinejustbloodyfine · 04/07/2025 16:22

Thank you. I wasn't sure if I was being too harsh.

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Illbefinejustbloodyfine · 04/07/2025 16:21

Oh and they're 8 and 9.

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BusWankers · 04/07/2025 16:21

... just give them their left over lunches as snack. I did that with my DD and she complained but I said it's "crackers/apple or nothing". She ate the packed lunch food.

MolluscMonday · 04/07/2025 16:20

I absolutely wouldn’t be sending treats in whilst the main food was being wasted.