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SharkBaitOooHaha · 04/07/2025 10:51

I was under the impression that the supreme court ruling stating that to be considered a woman you had to have been born a biological woman, meaning…
Shop changing rooms had to be female/male same with toilets and all women only spaces.
I I live in a small village and trans people using my workplace’s toilets and changing rooms doesn’t really come up as an issue. Talking to my boss about this and he said he has had no instruction to change our current unisex toilet space or if it arises our changing rooms having to follow the new rule of.. If you’re a trans woman you need to go into the men’s changing rooms.
My question is, who is supposed to be making sure these rules are followed, how long have companies got to change their toilet facilities? Has anybody else who works in a job with fitting rooms noticed that there company doesn’t seem in a rush to change things? Until I brought this up at work my manager wasn’t even aware of the court ruling?

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HermioneWeasley · 04/07/2025 11:54

FruityCider · 04/07/2025 11:47

There are little stick figures on the doors, as is usual in a pub, (actually it's been a long time since I've seen the words 'male' and 'female' on a pub door - have I ever?) and she's not going to ban anyone from the toilet. It's really as simple as that. There's really not anything that anyone can do about it. Especially given like I said, patrons of her pub would not want her to ban anyone. The only outcome I've seen is natal women being harassed in toilets for not looking womanly enough. (Including me - I'm muscular, tall and bald so have got dirty looks!) A woman was fired in America for looking trans after being confronted by a man about using the bathroom

Can I ask again how anyone intends to actually enforce this? What does it look like practically? Security guards? Chromosome testing at the door? Noone seems to be able to answer that question.

Anyway I'm off to garden. Noone will be able to change her mind, and this ridiculous rhetoric is totally unenforcable. Feel free to stay away from the scary pub where trans people pee in peace and nobody gives a shit.

It will be “enforced” as it was 10 or so years ago before some men decided women couldn’t have anything for themselves. We expect all men, however they identify to follow the law, and businesses to enforce it if they are told it’s being broken.

most importantly the ruling means that rape crisis centres, prisons, hospital wards, DV refuges and other critical women only spaces can be enforced.

SharkBaitOooHaha · 04/07/2025 11:53

Millers5star · 04/07/2025 11:34

Tbh, if business owners cannot read and understand a clear piece of legislation they probably shouldn't be running a business. What about health and safety rules? Tax returns? Regulations around minimum wage for example? Is it ok to just ignore those as well?

If the responses I’ve had so far are anything to go by it’s not black and white. As another example I won’t use the changing room in my local Primark because it’s unisex and they don’t even provide doors, just curtains. I thought the ruling meant Primark would now legally have to provide a space to change just for women.
I was asking because I thought someone (business owner with male/female facilities) could let me know when the change would happen and who is enforcing it. I thought maybe places like my local primark would get audited and be told they have until … to change their fitting room areas, apparently not though, so if nobody is policing it the new ruling is completely pointless.

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FruityCider · 04/07/2025 11:47

Millers5star · 04/07/2025 11:30

That is legal as long as the toilets signage makes it clear that they are unisex. She cannot use female only signage if men are allowed in - that would be breaking the law.

There are little stick figures on the doors, as is usual in a pub, (actually it's been a long time since I've seen the words 'male' and 'female' on a pub door - have I ever?) and she's not going to ban anyone from the toilet. It's really as simple as that. There's really not anything that anyone can do about it. Especially given like I said, patrons of her pub would not want her to ban anyone. The only outcome I've seen is natal women being harassed in toilets for not looking womanly enough. (Including me - I'm muscular, tall and bald so have got dirty looks!) A woman was fired in America for looking trans after being confronted by a man about using the bathroom

Can I ask again how anyone intends to actually enforce this? What does it look like practically? Security guards? Chromosome testing at the door? Noone seems to be able to answer that question.

Anyway I'm off to garden. Noone will be able to change her mind, and this ridiculous rhetoric is totally unenforcable. Feel free to stay away from the scary pub where trans people pee in peace and nobody gives a shit.

JifNtGif · 04/07/2025 11:45

Millers5star · 04/07/2025 11:34

Tbh, if business owners cannot read and understand a clear piece of legislation they probably shouldn't be running a business. What about health and safety rules? Tax returns? Regulations around minimum wage for example? Is it ok to just ignore those as well?

But yet, they do not need to change anything to comply with legislation.

RobertaFirmino · 04/07/2025 11:34

Whitehorses67 · 04/07/2025 11:00

I read the thread title and pictured a toilet which insists it is a bidet.

With a cis-tern.

Millers5star · 04/07/2025 11:34

Tbh, if business owners cannot read and understand a clear piece of legislation they probably shouldn't be running a business. What about health and safety rules? Tax returns? Regulations around minimum wage for example? Is it ok to just ignore those as well?

Millers5star · 04/07/2025 11:30

FruityCider · 04/07/2025 11:23

Noone is under any obligation to discriminate if they don't wish to. My friend owns a pub. She will understand no circumstances be banning transwomen or transmen from the toilet of their choosing, not would any of her patrons wish her to. People can stay mad about it but there's nothing anyone can do. It's utterly unenforcable even if there were some law banning people from toilets, which there isn't.

That is legal as long as the toilets signage makes it clear that they are unisex. She cannot use female only signage if men are allowed in - that would be breaking the law.

HermioneWeasley · 04/07/2025 11:30

@SharkBaitOooHaha interestingly Bannatynes is the only gym chain which has always enforced single sex changing rooms, even before the supreme court ruling. Duncan Bannatyne has been brilliant on women’s spaces and sports

HermioneWeasley · 04/07/2025 11:29

FruityCider · 04/07/2025 11:23

Noone is under any obligation to discriminate if they don't wish to. My friend owns a pub. She will understand no circumstances be banning transwomen or transmen from the toilet of their choosing, not would any of her patrons wish her to. People can stay mad about it but there's nothing anyone can do. It's utterly unenforcable even if there were some law banning people from toilets, which there isn't.

If the toilets in her pub are designated for men and for women and she allows customers to use the ones they prefer, then she is breaking the law.

she could choose to make them all mixed sex, but that might be sex discrimination one two fronts - men will have more choice of facilities than women (because they can use the now mixed sex facilities with urinals as well as the ones with cubicles), and the lack of women only facilities is likely to have a more adverse impact on women than men.

GCAcademic · 04/07/2025 11:27

FruityCider · 04/07/2025 11:23

Noone is under any obligation to discriminate if they don't wish to. My friend owns a pub. She will understand no circumstances be banning transwomen or transmen from the toilet of their choosing, not would any of her patrons wish her to. People can stay mad about it but there's nothing anyone can do. It's utterly unenforcable even if there were some law banning people from toilets, which there isn't.

Has your friend told her insurance company that she intends to not follow the law?

TimeFliesin2046 · 04/07/2025 11:24

SharkBaitOooHaha · 04/07/2025 11:22

In my workplace we haven’t ever had any need for the trans woman in a female changing room discussion. There must be places where this comes up a lot though.. So I’m asking, places like a London Balantynes, if a trans woman wants to go into the female changing area there is no rule to stop that, is that correct? I thought the new ruling meant it had to change and I was asking if anyone worked somewhere where this ruling is going to affect are changes being made?

That's incorrect. If it is signposted as a female changing room, then only biological women are legally allowed to enter. This has always been the law, the Supreme Court just clarified it because so many companies were ignoring it.

FruityCider · 04/07/2025 11:23

Noone is under any obligation to discriminate if they don't wish to. My friend owns a pub. She will understand no circumstances be banning transwomen or transmen from the toilet of their choosing, not would any of her patrons wish her to. People can stay mad about it but there's nothing anyone can do. It's utterly unenforcable even if there were some law banning people from toilets, which there isn't.

SharkBaitOooHaha · 04/07/2025 11:22

In my workplace we haven’t ever had any need for the trans woman in a female changing room discussion. There must be places where this comes up a lot though.. So I’m asking, places like a London Balantynes, if a trans woman wants to go into the female changing area there is no rule to stop that, is that correct? I thought the new ruling meant it had to change and I was asking if anyone worked somewhere where this ruling is going to affect are changes being made?

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TimeFliesin2046 · 04/07/2025 11:21

NoSoupForU · 04/07/2025 11:20

That also isn't correct as access can also be denied to mens facilities.

But none of this is actual legislation at this point, it is guidance until the relevant acts have been amended and passed.

No, it's the law. It's that simple. It always has been the law, and businesses have been flouting it for years.

NoSoupForU · 04/07/2025 11:20

TimeFliesin2046 · 04/07/2025 11:16

Not quite. They can just have unisex toilets that everyone uses, and that's fine, but if they have toilets that are designated for women, and toilets that are designated for men, then only people of the corresponding sex can use each facility. So, transwomen, for example, are not permitted to use ladies toilets, but can use the gents or the unisex.

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That also isn't correct as access can also be denied to mens facilities.

But none of this is actual legislation at this point, it is guidance until the relevant acts have been amended and passed.

Millers5star · 04/07/2025 11:20

If businesses are waiting for EHRC guidance they could well be breaking the law that the SC has clarified and published for everyone to read.

TimeFliesin2046 · 04/07/2025 11:16

NoSoupForU · 04/07/2025 11:14

The ruling also wasn't that businesses have to adhere to biological sex, it was that they can choose to without legal challenge.

Not quite. They can just have unisex toilets that everyone uses, and that's fine, but if they have toilets that are designated for women, and toilets that are designated for men, then only people of the corresponding sex can use each facility. So, transwomen, for example, are not permitted to use ladies toilets, but can use the gents or the unisex.

Millers5star · 04/07/2025 11:15

SundayFundayz · 04/07/2025 11:11

And the full guidance should have been ready at the time of the decision rather than leaving businesses in a strange limbo of not knowing who’s responsibility it is to enforce it and what exemptions there may be. The questions the OP asked about timescales etc have not been answered yet so whereas for some places it was easy to make a change (eg define a toilet as unisex) some others need more information.

I’m not a small business owner but if I was I’d be waiting for the full information before making a judgement call on what I’m telling my employees they do / do not need to enforce.

The video I posted explains that the law is, and always has been, very clear.

ShamrockShenanigans · 04/07/2025 11:14

Why would they need to change a unisex toilet?

NoSoupForU · 04/07/2025 11:14

The ruling also wasn't that businesses have to adhere to biological sex, it was that they can choose to without legal challenge.

TimeFliesin2046 · 04/07/2025 11:13

@SundayFundayz Every second they wait, businesses are breaking the law.

SharkBaitOooHaha · 04/07/2025 11:12

We have unisex toilets for staff only. The changing rooms are for public use and separated into male/female.

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HermioneWeasley · 04/07/2025 11:12

There’s a few different things in your post

in the workplace single sex toilets and changing/showering facilities are required under the workplace regulations unless they are fully contained rooms, so toilets have to have the loo and sink inside a single lockable room and then those can be mixed sex.

providers of goods and services are not required to offer single sex toilets, shop changing rooms etc, but if they do offer facilities labelled men/women, then they can only be used based on biological sex and not gender. It may be sex discrimination not to offer single sex facilities where it disproportionately affects one sex over the other (usually women) not to offer them.

nobody is policing this, but if an unlawful policy is used you can complain to the EHRC or in the case of the workplace, the Health and safety Executive. You might also be able to sue an employer for discrimination if they don’t follow the rules.

NoSoupForU · 04/07/2025 11:12

No the ruling wasn't that businesses and organisations must have gender segregated facilities. It was that if they choose to, they can stipulate qualification for using them to be biological sex.

TimeFliesin2046 · 04/07/2025 11:12

SundayFundayz · 04/07/2025 11:11

And the full guidance should have been ready at the time of the decision rather than leaving businesses in a strange limbo of not knowing who’s responsibility it is to enforce it and what exemptions there may be. The questions the OP asked about timescales etc have not been answered yet so whereas for some places it was easy to make a change (eg define a toilet as unisex) some others need more information.

I’m not a small business owner but if I was I’d be waiting for the full information before making a judgement call on what I’m telling my employees they do / do not need to enforce.

It's clear that there should be no exemptions, and even trans people with gender recognition certificates have to use the toilets that align with their sex, not their gender, so I don't see what the problem is TBH. It was all laid out pretty simply.

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