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AIBU?

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Flimingo · 03/07/2025 22:04

Should my 18 years old DS go to “Rock City” club in city centre after his A- Level prom night with his friends?is it safe???

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Idontjetwashthefucker · 03/07/2025 22:25

Flimingo · 03/07/2025 22:25

Dats reassuring😜

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Flimingo · 03/07/2025 22:25

Vitrolinsanity · 03/07/2025 22:15

Would it help if I told you my 18 DS finished his last exam on Friday last, came home, got changed and came home Sunday (because there was roast pork)?

Dats reassuring😜

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WhereOnEarthIsMyPlanet · 03/07/2025 22:24

Flimingo · 03/07/2025 22:23

Yes it’s Nottingham.can you tell me bit more?

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Well… it’s a night club in Nottingham. Pretty non threatening. Sticky floors from all the spilled drinks.

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Flimingo · 03/07/2025 22:24

My19thNervousNameChange · 03/07/2025 22:21

Well 68 is a number too isn't it? Will you let him out then?

You know what I mean when I sarcastically say “18”!!come on

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GrinchoftheNorth · 03/07/2025 22:23

Rock City is a really friendly venue. He will be fine

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Flimingo · 03/07/2025 22:23

WhereOnEarthIsMyPlanet · 03/07/2025 22:17

How are you planning to stop him?
Anyway assuming you mean Rock City in Nottingham I first went when I was 16. Probably wouldn’t get away with it nowadays! The biggest danger is getting stuck to the floor.

Yes it’s Nottingham.can you tell me bit more?

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Dangermoo · 03/07/2025 22:22

Flimingo · 03/07/2025 22:04

Should my 18 years old DS go to “Rock City” club in city centre after his A- Level prom night with his friends?is it safe???

He's earned it.

My19thNervousNameChange · 03/07/2025 22:21

Well 68 is a number too isn't it? Will you let him out then?

WhereOnEarthIsMyPlanet · 03/07/2025 22:17

How are you planning to stop him?
Anyway assuming you mean Rock City in Nottingham I first went when I was 16. Probably wouldn’t get away with it nowadays! The biggest danger is getting stuck to the floor.

vodkaredbullgirl · 03/07/2025 22:16

Why not he's 18.

Vitrolinsanity · 03/07/2025 22:15

Would it help if I told you my 18 DS finished his last exam on Friday last, came home, got changed and came home Sunday (because there was roast pork)?

ninjahamster · 03/07/2025 22:14

Flimingo · 03/07/2025 22:09

This whole notion of putting adulthood in numbers term is non sense.I am looking for an advise/opinion from a concern and caring dad’s view point.

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But in all honesty, you cannot stop him, he’s an adult. Better to let him go, make sure he has money for an uber and he will be fine x

Idontjetwashthefucker · 03/07/2025 22:14

Why would you be concerned about an adult going to a club, what's the problem?

WhereAreMyKids · 03/07/2025 22:13

I've just googled it and it seems perfectly normal. What's the issue?

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Flimingo · 03/07/2025 22:09

ninjahamster · 03/07/2025 22:07

Yes, he is 18 and an adult now.

This whole notion of putting adulthood in numbers term is non sense.I am looking for an advise/opinion from a concern and caring dad’s view point.

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firstdayworries · 03/07/2025 22:07

Of course he should! I’d prefer my DC go to a rock club over any other club - he’ll have a great time!

ninjahamster · 03/07/2025 22:07

Yes, he is 18 and an adult now.

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Flimingo · 03/07/2025 22:06

Idontjetwashthefucker · 03/07/2025 22:05

He's 18, an adult and he can do what he likes!

I know but 18 is just a number.

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Idontjetwashthefucker · 03/07/2025 22:05

He's 18, an adult and he can do what he likes!

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