This is long so many apologies.
i am due to go to an Oasis concert tomorrow. I booked almost a year ago & told my boyfriend at the time of booking. He said at that time that it was fine for him to come with me.
Fast forward to yesterday evening, he tells me that he’s not coming to oasis as he doesn’t like them! Now my AIBU is why the hell has he not told me in the many months leading upto this so I could have arranged to go with someone else. As it stands none of my mates are free understandably due to the short notice. I don’t want to go on my own. Have organised to sell the tickets.
Really looking for some advice cos I’m so cheesed off about it.
In all other respects he’s great, really loving & affectionate, but he really struggles with doing something that I’ve paid for as he thinks that if we as a couple do anything as the bloke he should pay - we have had lots of arguments about this.
We’re both in our 40’s. No kids together.