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Fed up with the amount of parcels we take in for our DNeighbour

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Postie2nd · 02/07/2025 20:40

Our DNeighbour is a lovely lady but it’s almost daily now that we have to take parcels in for her. She works full time in an office so isn’t in for most of them.

I didn’t mind at first but she then has to come round to get them and this is often when we are giving our DC their dinner.

YABU - just suck it up as it’s not that big a deal
YANBU - it’s excessive so have a word with the DNeighbour

OP posts:
BIWI · 02/07/2025 20:45

Two options:

  1. refuse to take them from the courier
  2. talk to your neighbour and tell her it’s not convenient to take so many parcels
juicelooseabootthishoose · 02/07/2025 20:45

they should use inpost lockers!

Redglitter · 02/07/2025 20:44

You dont HAVE to take them in. Just say no to the courier when they come to the door. The more you take in the more you'll be known as the easiest drop off.

Postie2nd · 02/07/2025 20:44

Cherrysoup · 02/07/2025 20:43

Are you letting her into the house? If I take in a parcel for next door, I just hand it to them, they don’t come in. Are they interrupting your dc’s meals? Alternatively, start refusing parcels and suggest she uses Inpost!

She doesn’t come in but often there is some small talk and I can’t really shut the door on her mid conversation!

OP posts:
Arcadia · 02/07/2025 20:44

I have this. Nice neighbours but go out a lot/don’t answer their door much and order lots of stuff! You don’t have to accept parcels on their behalf so just don’t answer the door if you are not expecting anything g yourself!

Cherrysoup · 02/07/2025 20:43

Are you letting her into the house? If I take in a parcel for next door, I just hand it to them, they don’t come in. Are they interrupting your dc’s meals? Alternatively, start refusing parcels and suggest she uses Inpost!

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