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Neighbours dog woke me up - got told it's my fault for having my windows open??

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Sophiehoney · 02/07/2025 09:13

My neighbours are a retired couple with a very barky dog.
They walk it around our street several times a day, the last walk is around midnight, presumably before they go to bed.
It's very barky and barks all the time on walks, at what? God knows. But I hear it most nights.

Last night it took me ages to fall asleep due to the heat. At 12:15am, just as I was managing to drift off, right in that comfortable place between sleep and awake, it starts right outside my house - BARK BARK BARK BARK. So fucking loud!

I was hot, tired and really pissed off at being jerked awake and I got out of bed, stormed across the room and slammed the windows shut.

I was so annoyed and so hot that it took me until 2am to fall asleep again, and it was a terible sleep in this heat. I get up at 6am and have a full day of work ahead of me.

At 8:15 this morning, as I was leaving with the kids, neighbour comes out of his house with barky-arse dog, barking as usual and I asked him, as politely as I could if he could please do something about the noise at night because it's disturbing us.

He gave a little chuckle and said "well, keep your windows shut, then you won't have to slam them closed" and started to walk away.

I was gobsmacked for a second but then called after him "I shouldn't have to - it was 31° last night, you need to train your dog!" And he just waved a dismissive hand and walked off.

Did I have a right to complain?!

OP posts:
chocolatemademefat · 02/07/2025 09:20

Give him time to get settled after his last dog walk of the day then get your music on. Loud. Every night until he shooshes his dog.

Jojimoji · 02/07/2025 09:19

He sounds like a twat.
I have two dogs and have spent a lot of time, money and effort training them.
I can't stand dickhead dog owners with uneducated dogs.

You have every right to complain, but sounds like he's too thick to do anything about it.

Maybe go and stand shouting outside his window when you get up at 6.00 am.

Brefugee · 02/07/2025 09:19

yes, only retired people make noise. Families with small children never make a peep.

This is one of those downsides of living among people. I live in the country. If it's not dogs barking at night, it is tractors at all hours. It is how life works.

Sophiehoney · 02/07/2025 09:19

Dangermoo · 02/07/2025 09:16

I liked his reply!

I didn't. He's acting like the victim because I slammed a window. He should have some consideration for his neighbours.

Yeah, it was maybe a little passive aggressive but it was gone midnight, I'd been woken up, and I was polite the next day.

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TreatTreat · 02/07/2025 09:18

He's an ignorant pig. I wouldn't mind it it was early but it was very late.

Do your neighbours not have work they need to get up for?

ssd · 02/07/2025 09:17

Do your neighbours like to sit in the garden quietly reading? This is when I'd encourage your kids to scream and shout and annoy the neighbours.

Dangermoo · 02/07/2025 09:16

I liked his reply!

Shesellsseashellsnotinmystreet · 02/07/2025 09:15

Contact the council. Fill in the diary..
They do have powers...

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