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Fuck this fucking heat

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heatwavehell2 · 01/07/2025 22:07

I’m in the SE and this current heatwave has been utter hell. I have about 10 extremely itchy mosquito bites from being forced to sleep with the windows open as it’s so darn hot. I say sleep, but I’ve been waking up in the night absolutely sweltering and am shattered as a result. Having the windows open also means I can hear every car on the street and every noise the neighbours make, further disturbing my sleep.

I’ve had sweat pouring down my face for most of the day as my commute was like a furnace and our office air con is barely adequate.

There have been endless flies buzzing around the house and garden and around my cat’s food bowl. The cat is suffering in the heat and was sick in the garden and about 200 flies landed on that. I had to scoop it up just before eating dinner - grim.

At work I can barely concentrate due to the aforementioned lack of air con. My brain just feels fuzzy and like it can’t function properly. I have zero energy and feel irritable, grumpy and impatient.

The garden has turned to dust - most of my flowers are dead and the lawn is yellow and crispy.

On top of all that shit and most importantly, the whole thing poses seriously worrying questions about climate change, whether this is the new normal and if it is, what sort of future my kids are going to have.

England is not built for these temperatures. Thank fuck it’s going to rain tomorrow.

OP posts:
GrammarTeacher · 01/07/2025 22:22

I’ve been got by the mozzies too. On my face. And I’m prone to reacting to them and getting infections. It’s awful. But….
a breeze has just picked up.

mambojambodothetango · 01/07/2025 22:22

Terrribletwos · 01/07/2025 22:16

Not sure about the climate change as it's been very cool up north today with rain too.

That's weather, not climate.

bookworm14 · 01/07/2025 22:19

YANBU at all, OP - however, be prepared for people to descend on the thread to tell you ‘it’s just summer!’ and ‘why can’t you cope with a few warm days?’.

BashfulClam · 01/07/2025 22:18

Move to Scotland, it’s about 14c right now where I live.

sallydoodlecat · 01/07/2025 22:18

I hear you loud and clear. Mozzy bites here. So lethargic. Had an ice pack held against me. Dealing with a dog who's fed up and seems to have summer allergies and is needing to wear a cone as he keeps licking his sore spots. Kids are so fed up with it. Thank goodness for the cooler temperature tomorrow

LadyGrillingSole · 01/07/2025 22:16

I have MS and this heat is really doing a number on me 😞

I'm not complaining when everyone is so happy to be in the sun, makes me feel like I'm being really selfish 🙁

Terrribletwos · 01/07/2025 22:16

Not sure about the climate change as it's been very cool up north today with rain too.

Thepeopleversuswork · 01/07/2025 22:14

I usually love heat but this is too much even for me. I've been lying under a fan for most of the past four days.

Gastons5dozenEggs · 01/07/2025 22:13

I feel your pain

Cadenza12 · 01/07/2025 22:11

It's been miserable and I don't even have a commute. It is going to break tomorrow

Smoothwater · 01/07/2025 22:09

It’s so awful. You’re being completely reasonable. It is getting cooler as we speak. Have a shower or bath and lie down.

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