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Fuck this fucking heat

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heatwavehell2 · 01/07/2025 22:07

I’m in the SE and this current heatwave has been utter hell. I have about 10 extremely itchy mosquito bites from being forced to sleep with the windows open as it’s so darn hot. I say sleep, but I’ve been waking up in the night absolutely sweltering and am shattered as a result. Having the windows open also means I can hear every car on the street and every noise the neighbours make, further disturbing my sleep.

I’ve had sweat pouring down my face for most of the day as my commute was like a furnace and our office air con is barely adequate.

There have been endless flies buzzing around the house and garden and around my cat’s food bowl. The cat is suffering in the heat and was sick in the garden and about 200 flies landed on that. I had to scoop it up just before eating dinner - grim.

At work I can barely concentrate due to the aforementioned lack of air con. My brain just feels fuzzy and like it can’t function properly. I have zero energy and feel irritable, grumpy and impatient.

The garden has turned to dust - most of my flowers are dead and the lawn is yellow and crispy.

On top of all that shit and most importantly, the whole thing poses seriously worrying questions about climate change, whether this is the new normal and if it is, what sort of future my kids are going to have.

England is not built for these temperatures. Thank fuck it’s going to rain tomorrow.

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PumpkinSparkleFairy · 01/07/2025 23:09

YANBU.

The weather is seriously unpleasant to put up with and also worrying from a climate change perspective.

Too hot to go anywhere with our 8mo old in the daytime except the air conditioned supermarkets 😂

HellonHeels · 01/07/2025 23:09

I've been tempted to hose down the hottest side of the house to try to cool everythibg down. Would that work?

CrispieCake · 01/07/2025 23:09

My children will not go to sleep 😫.

Weightloss12 · 01/07/2025 23:06

In the East Midlands. Walked out of a co-op yesterday and genuinely felt like I walked into a sauna it was unbearable, I’m not usually a weather whinger but my god!

Terrribletwos · 01/07/2025 23:04

mambojambodothetango · 01/07/2025 22:22

That's weather, not climate.

Yeah but we keep being told climate change is affecting everywhere with more heat so we are getting misinformation?

Littlemisscapable · 01/07/2025 23:03

Come to Ireland..it is barely 20. We are still waiting for summer to properly arrive...... and it is going to rain for the rest of the week.

FunnysInLaJardin · 01/07/2025 23:00

@heatwavehell2 only 2 suggestions. Fly screens at every window and door and wax ear plugs for the early morning noise. Helps a lot!

Dappy777 · 01/07/2025 22:58

Ah, you are my people. I’m in Essex and right now it is unbelievable. It’s quarter to eleven and I am so hot I could scream. I just went for a walk and when I returned through the front door I gasped at how hot the living room was. I am sitting here dripping with sweat. My back is glued to the chair and my arms are stuck to the arm rests. By late afternoon today I think my mind had begun to go. I was talking to someone and they stared at me and asked if I was ok. I was literally talking gibberish.

At night I have all the windows open, but then I’m woken by cars with souped up engines and exhausts that bang and explode. So many houses have been built around here that the traffic is awful. And because the houses are all jammed on top of one another, the heat can’t escape. This is a glimpse of future Britain - unbearably hot, unbearably crowded, and unbearably noisy.

scoobysnaxx · 01/07/2025 22:54

I am miserable. I hate it. Can’t wait for it to fucking rain and dip 10 degrees tomorrow.

It’s utterly suffocating.

Wiltingasparagusfern · 01/07/2025 22:49

Not the point but do you normally sleep with the window closed? That makes me feel a bit odd

Okiedokie123 · 01/07/2025 22:46

I spent a lot of yesterday with my feet in a big tub of cool water which was a huge help. Not quite so awful here today thankfully. Im hugely looking forward to it being cooler tomorrow.

Okiedokie123 · 01/07/2025 22:44

Bufftailed · 01/07/2025 22:38

it’s hideous. And getting worse. We’re going to need air con everywhere in a few years.

Which will.......... make everywhere hotter! I adore an aircon situation on a hot day but really seriously........... aircon isnt the answer. I sat next to one recently that didnt have a pipe thingy at the back - it was pumping out more hot air at the back than it was cool at the front. So no actual benefit and disastrous for the environment too. It really woke me up to just how awful aircon systems actually are.

CNDflag · 01/07/2025 22:42

This was the temperature in my office at 4pm today

Fuck this fucking heat
heatwavehell2 · 01/07/2025 22:41

Glad others can relate. Just one more night to get through before it cools significantly (allegedly) but it can’t come soon enough. Currently lying in bed with sweat pouring down my neck onto my pillow. Nice.

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Vaxtable · 01/07/2025 22:41

All i can say is thank god I work from home. It’s been so hot today I have been working in bra and pants (don’t own a bikini)

I hate the heat

Iloveanicegarden · 01/07/2025 22:40

We are in the south west and today was warm/hot but it was also cloudy so that made it bearable. I have some gel filled pads which feel cold when pressed against your skin. They are brilliant. When they cease to feel cold you just leave then a couple of hours to 'regenerate'

millymollymoomoo · 01/07/2025 22:39

I agree however summer 1976 was also intense heatwave so it’s new

MaryWelly · 01/07/2025 22:39

100 percent screw this heat! Poor kids are little frazzles

Bufftailed · 01/07/2025 22:38

it’s hideous. And getting worse. We’re going to need air con everywhere in a few years.

socks1107 · 01/07/2025 22:36

Yanbu. I really struggled mid afternoon and am
putting off going to bed now! My commute and tube have been horrific this week but I wfh today luckily

PoorUncleBarry · 01/07/2025 22:36

I have hyperhydrosis and this 32 degree heat is hell. I'm almost certain even hell is cooler actually.

AuntieHistamine · 01/07/2025 22:32

Yanbu. After pushing my massive 3 year old in a pushchair up a hill (she wouldn’t walk in the heat) to collect my other kids from school I was so hot I literally couldn’t string a sentence together earlier. My words kept coming out in the wrong order, I felt like I’d melted my brain. It’s been hideous here today.

Willyoujustbequiet · 01/07/2025 22:32

I'm up near the border....33 yesterday and I felt ill as we are just not used to that by the north sea but then today it was 16 and rain.

My body doesn't know whether it's coming or going lol

Ilikewinter · 01/07/2025 22:25

I agree, woke up last night with a full blown migraine, ended up with wet towels on my neck and face! Luckily today has been cooler and cloudy. Poor dog has actually had a play in the garden rather than just comatosed..... forecasted rain tomorrow !!

Gastons5dozenEggs · 01/07/2025 22:24

I made the mistake of 'going to the beach after work for a nice swim in the sea to cool off' and of course get there and it's windy, overcast, choppy waves, uninspiring, like literally another climate altogether. Sat on the windy beach for a bit and went back home to the hot pit.

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