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Fuck this fucking heat

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heatwavehell2 · 01/07/2025 22:07

I’m in the SE and this current heatwave has been utter hell. I have about 10 extremely itchy mosquito bites from being forced to sleep with the windows open as it’s so darn hot. I say sleep, but I’ve been waking up in the night absolutely sweltering and am shattered as a result. Having the windows open also means I can hear every car on the street and every noise the neighbours make, further disturbing my sleep.

I’ve had sweat pouring down my face for most of the day as my commute was like a furnace and our office air con is barely adequate.

There have been endless flies buzzing around the house and garden and around my cat’s food bowl. The cat is suffering in the heat and was sick in the garden and about 200 flies landed on that. I had to scoop it up just before eating dinner - grim.

At work I can barely concentrate due to the aforementioned lack of air con. My brain just feels fuzzy and like it can’t function properly. I have zero energy and feel irritable, grumpy and impatient.

The garden has turned to dust - most of my flowers are dead and the lawn is yellow and crispy.

On top of all that shit and most importantly, the whole thing poses seriously worrying questions about climate change, whether this is the new normal and if it is, what sort of future my kids are going to have.

England is not built for these temperatures. Thank fuck it’s going to rain tomorrow.

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heatwavehell2 · 02/07/2025 21:39

At night I have all the windows open, but then I’m woken by cars with souped up engines and exhausts that bang and explode. So many houses have been built around here that the traffic is awful. And because the houses are all jammed on top of one another, the heat can’t escape. This is a glimpse of future Britain - unbearably hot, unbearably crowded, and unbearably noisy.

@Dappy777 This is depressing but true.

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annzen · 02/07/2025 09:36

installing aircon for me would be a pain (and expensive) and I don't want one of those hoses out the window either for the few days a year we swelter! So I bit the bullet and got a ceiling fan and light combo installed last weekend in my bedroom.

I am in love. It's got different speeds, a remote control + timer. I know some will say it's pushing hot air around, but it just works for me as I keep windows closed + blackout blinds during the day. Slept like a good baby...

A friend connected it and it cost 130qd including the mate's (he's a spark) rate.

Yesimnuts · 02/07/2025 09:07

Its lovely today where i am.
It's below 20 raining damp and dull just beautiful.

evilharpy · 02/07/2025 09:05

heatwavehell2 · 02/07/2025 09:00

Laughing at the post that said hell is depicted as hot not cold. So true!

I’m also seriously considering moving up north or to Ireland so I don’t have to endure this.

I’m going to save this thread as there are some great tips for next time this happens.

Anyway, woke up this morning to cloud and damp from heavy rain overnight. I have all the windows and doors open downstairs and a cool breeze is permeating through the house. Absolute bliss!!!!

I moved from SW England back to Ireland a few years ago and sometimes regret it because of the weather. It is SHIT. We don't have a summer. It's pointless planning any sort of outdoor event as it will inevitably be cancelled due to rain. Only worth bothering to own a pair of shorts for going on holiday. I would take 30+⁰C over this all day long. Even with the mozzies.

Kimwestonhelpless · 02/07/2025 09:03

Enjoy the respite to all of that have suffered.
When I see Temps of 33 I'm glad I'm in NE Scotland.

Boomer55 · 02/07/2025 09:01

Cooler with some rain in London, thank God. 👍

heatwavehell2 · 02/07/2025 09:00

Laughing at the post that said hell is depicted as hot not cold. So true!

I’m also seriously considering moving up north or to Ireland so I don’t have to endure this.

I’m going to save this thread as there are some great tips for next time this happens.

Anyway, woke up this morning to cloud and damp from heavy rain overnight. I have all the windows and doors open downstairs and a cool breeze is permeating through the house. Absolute bliss!!!!

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xSideshowAuntSallyXx · 02/07/2025 08:33

Have to say it's much cooler here this morning, I'm actually a little chilly when I go outside and am even considering putting jeans on, but the cats are loving it, they're haring round the garden, and just seem happier. Although they are now sat in the (little) rain that we're currently having.

FigTreeInEurope · 02/07/2025 08:14

It's 35c in the dead of night here in Italy, and over 40 during the day. It's lovely out here in the countryside surrounded by trees, but the cities are hell. I think population density, and concrete everywhere plays a huge role in why it's so difficult in the UK. We don't have air con, but we do have a little pop up pool, and it's silent on a night. I honestly don't know the answer, half the power grid went out in northern Italy due to consumption through air con. I don't think Italy is any more equiped to deal with it than the uk to be honest.

Mulledjuice · 02/07/2025 07:59

mambojambodothetango · 02/07/2025 07:56

No. Read up on climate change vs weather. It's an overall picture not what's happening near you.

This. Also it's not just everywhere getting hotter, it's more erratic and extreme weather events (like the flooding in Valencia last year, for example.

mambojambodothetango · 02/07/2025 07:56

Terrribletwos · 01/07/2025 23:04

Yeah but we keep being told climate change is affecting everywhere with more heat so we are getting misinformation?

No. Read up on climate change vs weather. It's an overall picture not what's happening near you.

digiwidgy · 02/07/2025 06:52

BashfulClam · 01/07/2025 22:18

Move to Scotland, it’s about 14c right now where I live.

12 on my car when I drove home from work last night. I put the heating on for half an hour. Bonkers how temps vary across the country.

Zezet · 02/07/2025 06:49

Terrribletwos · 01/07/2025 23:04

Yeah but we keep being told climate change is affecting everywhere with more heat so we are getting misinformation?

Who is telling you that?
Because all I am getting is "higher likelihood of extreme weather events", "less predictability in events", "huge variety".
We haven't even called it global warming anymore for the past what, eight years? (I am just guessing.)

Squirrelsnut · 02/07/2025 06:48

When desperate, I soak an old cotton maxi dress in cold water, wring it out and put it on. The initial aarrrggghhh! is worth it for the relief as it pulls the heat out of your skin all over. Even better if you have a fan on you. Also soak your hair in cold water and leave it dripping wet. Works well.

RampantIvy · 02/07/2025 06:45

Move to Yorkshire. 21 degrees and cloudy yesterday.
Cold and wet this morning. However, we really, really need this rain so I'm not complaining.

BlueJuniper94 · 02/07/2025 06:43

Iloveanicegarden · 01/07/2025 22:40

We are in the south west and today was warm/hot but it was also cloudy so that made it bearable. I have some gel filled pads which feel cold when pressed against your skin. They are brilliant. When they cease to feel cold you just leave then a couple of hours to 'regenerate'

Can they go in the fridge or freezer?

Empress13 · 02/07/2025 06:38

You’re lucky you have air con at work I have a desk fan that blows out warm air. Yes I feel your pain and for all those saying aren’t we lucky having a glorious hot summer no it’s worrying lord only knows what temperatures will be like in years to come with climate change

BananaCaramel · 02/07/2025 06:36

The flowers have turned to dust

are you not watering them OP? My plants are all doing really well. My grass is yellow and crispy as you say…except near the flower beds 🤣

Anyway it’s meant to be cooler today although I will admit it doesn’t feel it yet!

xSideshowAuntSallyXx · 02/07/2025 06:36

I love hot weather, always have. What we need though is air con, it would make our houses more bearable. However our houses are built to keep warm air in.

Saying that it said my flat was 31c at one point yesterday. There was also very little breeze so having windows and doors open did next to nothing.

Hate the flys that come out with the hot weather. Cat food especially attracts them.

JustGoClickLikeALightSwitch · 02/07/2025 06:34

Yup, terrible. V happy to wake up to rain today.

I opened doors/windows early and then shut them when we got to 8am or so / sun came in,

had cool showers

draped wet clothes over fans

froze and then put out ice blocks in kids’ rooms (google it, it works)

did nothing but water pistol fights, paddling pool, ice cream and bath play with the kids

It wasn’t fun but we managed. Another week or so would’ve severely tested me.

Mumofyellows · 02/07/2025 06:26

Feeling very fortunate to be working in one of the only parts of my school with air con, it has been an absolutely lovely during the heat, very cool. Needed when teaching a class with complex needs.
Swam in the sea for a good 20 mins each day after work to cool right off from the commute home and then a cold shower right before bed.
Padding pool in the garden for the dogs and swims for them too as much as possible!

chatgptsbestmate · 02/07/2025 05:47

When people say "keep blinds and curtains drawn in the day" I do that , but my upstairs rooms STILL reach 31 C. I'm assuming with the curtains open, it would be even hotter 😬

BCBird · 02/07/2025 05:38

Try teaching a class of 30.in the heat. No air conditioning. Pupils constantly asking to fill up water bottles and bring expected to wear normal uniform. Some still coming in padded coats🤣

RedBullBlood · 02/07/2025 04:41

Old school rubber hot water bottles half to three quarters filled with water then frozen are great under pillows.

pinck · 02/07/2025 03:01

LadyGrillingSole · 01/07/2025 22:16

I have MS and this heat is really doing a number on me 😞

I'm not complaining when everyone is so happy to be in the sun, makes me feel like I'm being really selfish 🙁

I have MS and complain about the sun constantly you're fine!!! 😉