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To wonder why women do this to themselves?

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YourAmplePlumPoster · 01/07/2025 18:39

https://images.app.goo.gl/qjKyBnm1bkpCKefWA
Lauren Sanchez before and after. What is it with inflatable lips and sculpted cheeks and the inflated breasts? She looked like a nice, attractive woman before.

https://images.app.goo.gl/qjKyBnm1bkpCKefWA

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657904I · 01/07/2025 22:13

To be honest I don’t think her cheeks or body is the issue. She looks uncanny because of the lips and nose job? You can see up her nostrils now even though the angle isn’t significantly different, suggest her nose is more upturned now.

ExercicenformedeZ · 01/07/2025 22:11

Started17June2025 · 01/07/2025 19:03

The picture on the right is fake - she doesn't look like that.

I don't know, she's not far off.

IcedPurple · 01/07/2025 22:07

YourAmplePlumPoster · 01/07/2025 18:39

https://images.app.goo.gl/qjKyBnm1bkpCKefWA
Lauren Sanchez before and after. What is it with inflatable lips and sculpted cheeks and the inflated breasts? She looked like a nice, attractive woman before.

I agree she was much prettier in the 'before' picture. But even then she had clearly had a considerable amount of 'work' done.

MaryGreenhill · 01/07/2025 22:05

Could it be because Jeffrey likes her looking like a blow up sex doll ?

Hotelmotelholidayinnnnnn · 01/07/2025 22:03

Cutleryclaire · 01/07/2025 18:44

Because people are always judging women’s appearances…..

This. It shouldn’t matter as long as she’s happy

WhereOnEarthIsMyPlanet · 01/07/2025 22:03

Panterusblackish · 01/07/2025 22:02

Bollocks

I was on a plane next to a woman with this same horrible over enhanced face, she also looked dreadful. Definitely not jealous. This was on Ryanair so doubt her husband was rich.

They do it because women are socially conditioned to believe their value lies in their looks. It's really sad.

The woman on the plane also had big clearly fake boobs and was wearing a see through vest with no bra. She might as well have held up a sign saying my self esteem is tightly bound to how many men stare at me.

You say it’s ‘sad’ but then speak disparagingly about her, so it’s clear you don’t have any genuine empathy.

AngryBird6122 · 01/07/2025 22:03

EmeraldShamrock000 · 01/07/2025 18:52

Her choice, I'm glad I am not rich, I'd probably resemble Pete Burns.

@EmeraldShamrock000 same! I think I would get addicted and just because there is all that money there, I would try to keep fixing myself. God, we are lucky 😂

19ptrialprice · 01/07/2025 22:02

InterestedDad37 · 01/07/2025 21:38

Fwiw I left an abusive relationship, had custody of my children, and was a single dad. Hence my interest in "mum" things.

I’m sure all that happened. Shouldn’t your interest be in dad things? I highly doubt many single mothers are on dad parenting websites. Shame for your kids to have a dad who tells women to fuck off for having an opinion.

Panterusblackish · 01/07/2025 22:02

User868473 · 01/07/2025 18:41

The Lauren Sanchez hate is getting really tiring. Not a fan of her but it's so obvious loads of women are just jealous that someone who doesn't fit their ideal of what a beautiful, classy woman should be, ended up marrying the world's richest man.

Bollocks

I was on a plane next to a woman with this same horrible over enhanced face, she also looked dreadful. Definitely not jealous. This was on Ryanair so doubt her husband was rich.

They do it because women are socially conditioned to believe their value lies in their looks. It's really sad.

The woman on the plane also had big clearly fake boobs and was wearing a see through vest with no bra. She might as well have held up a sign saying my self esteem is tightly bound to how many men stare at me.

WhereOnEarthIsMyPlanet · 01/07/2025 22:01

RowsOfFlowers · 01/07/2025 21:59

What is wrong with her husband agreeing?! No one said that he’s the holy grail, just that she chatted about it with her husband aka another person.

I really think some mumsnetters hate men tbh.

No. They’re entitled to have whatever conversations they want, and hold whatever opinions they want. It’s when women grandiosely declare on here that ‘my husband agrees’ or ‘my DH says’, as though any of us are supposed to give a shit about the opinion of some random middle aged bloke.

YourAmplePlumPoster · 01/07/2025 22:01

WhereOnEarthIsMyPlanet · 01/07/2025 21:56

For judging women on their appearances.

Oh jeez. I'm just saying why women are under so much pressure that they want to look like an artificial AI blown up doll? Fortunately. I dont care what anyone thinks I look like but there are many young women who feel pressured to have plastic surgery.

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Bridgetjonesheart · 01/07/2025 22:01

My theory is that it’s because of camera culture. Somehow having our photo taken all of the time and shared with everyone via social media has warped how we perceive ourselves. We change the face to look good on camera, but in life it looks terrible. Obviously in this instance it doesn’t look ‘good’ on camera either.

RowsOfFlowers · 01/07/2025 21:59

5128gap · 01/07/2025 21:58

Your husband agrees? That settles it then. Somebody call her people. Brian from Wolverhampton thinks she looks awful! Thank all that's holy fillers are dissolvable or she'd have to put a bag on her head next time she sees him down the Kings Head.

What is wrong with her husband agreeing?! No one said that he’s the holy grail, just that she chatted about it with her husband aka another person.

I really think some mumsnetters hate men tbh.

WhereOnEarthIsMyPlanet · 01/07/2025 21:59

RowsOfFlowers · 01/07/2025 21:58

I don’t see the misogyny

Well we’re all different.

WhereOnEarthIsMyPlanet · 01/07/2025 21:59

5128gap · 01/07/2025 21:58

Your husband agrees? That settles it then. Somebody call her people. Brian from Wolverhampton thinks she looks awful! Thank all that's holy fillers are dissolvable or she'd have to put a bag on her head next time she sees him down the Kings Head.

😂. Tony from Rotherham has spoken!

RowsOfFlowers · 01/07/2025 21:58

WhereOnEarthIsMyPlanet · 01/07/2025 21:46

That’s not surprising, due to your tendency towards misogyny.

I don’t see the misogyny

5128gap · 01/07/2025 21:58

YourAmplePlumPoster · 01/07/2025 19:05

I think she was a very attractive woman before she had all that work done. My husband agrees and says she looks awful now and doesn't understand this "look."

Your husband agrees? That settles it then. Somebody call her people. Brian from Wolverhampton thinks she looks awful! Thank all that's holy fillers are dissolvable or she'd have to put a bag on her head next time she sees him down the Kings Head.

WhereOnEarthIsMyPlanet · 01/07/2025 21:56

YourAmplePlumPoster · 01/07/2025 21:55

How so? To say that women aren't doing themselves any favours by looking like blow up sex dolls.

For judging women on their appearances.

YourAmplePlumPoster · 01/07/2025 21:55

WhereOnEarthIsMyPlanet · 01/07/2025 21:46

That’s not surprising, due to your tendency towards misogyny.

How so? To say that women aren't doing themselves any favours by looking like blow up sex dolls.

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JIMER202 · 01/07/2025 21:53

I’ve seen commentary on social media that the wealthy want to look like they’ve had work done as a status symbol.

They both cheated on their spouses with each other, so they both give me the ick. His ex donates so much to charity and seems wonderful, I was shocked to find out she was married to him 26 years!!

JackieWilsonsaiditstimeforbedlittleone · 01/07/2025 21:50

InterestedDad37 · 01/07/2025 21:38

Fwiw I left an abusive relationship, had custody of my children, and was a single dad. Hence my interest in "mum" things.

FWIW mumsnet used to pride itself on being a parenting website ‘for parents by parents’. It just happened to be called mumsnet which sent a bunch of people clutching their pearls when fathers joined. How dare men want to talk to women. It’s never been sold as women only.

lifeonmars100 · 01/07/2025 21:49

When I saw the photos of her and some of the female wedding guests especially the Kardashians it looked as if some of the women had the same face.

InterestedDad37 · 01/07/2025 21:47

19ptrialprice · 01/07/2025 21:36

Your views and attitude explain why you’re single.

I get why you've written the things that you have, in response to my opinions, but on this occasion I'm afraid your interpretations have been very wide of the mark, and genuinely aimed at the wrong target.
I don't take it personally, and I wish you peace and happiness.🙂
And I apologise for the sweary bits too.

WhereOnEarthIsMyPlanet · 01/07/2025 21:46

YourAmplePlumPoster · 01/07/2025 21:42

I dont mind single dad airing his views. It's a public talkboard. I've been accused of being a man on here on occasions 😅🤣

That’s not surprising, due to your tendency towards misogyny.

Holdonforsummer · 01/07/2025 21:45

Wow, she was really pretty before

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