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Dumped for kissing someone else….do I contact?

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Lolololalaura · 01/07/2025 15:17

So I am a horrible person and have made a massive mistake.

Ive been with my boyfriend 3 years. We’ve never lived together but live close by to each other. I kissed someone else and yesterday I admitted it to him by text (I’m away and that’s where it happened)

He replied “It’s over. You have no integrity. Don’t contact me again”

i haven’t been able to explain myself am I being unreasonable to want to message him today or do I literally just not contact him as requested. When people in break ups say don’t contact do they actually mean it!?

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kimbear87 · 01/07/2025 15:21

Although I don’t know the whole context, it’s understandable that he’d be emotional after you admitted this to him. It makes sense that he doesn’t want to speak to you.

Didntask · 01/07/2025 15:19

I have to say, if I was your boyfriend, I'd do the same as he has, therefore YABU. What possible explanation do you have for cheating?

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